The blind date turns around and leaves: Look at the circle of friends and you will know that you are a cheap person.

The blind date turns around and leaves: Look at the circle of friends and you will know that you are a cheap person

This is a true story that just happened.

Faced with the urging of her family, Xiao Ting has recently started dating activities one after another.

But I can't figure out why I can't find the right person.

Many people have lost contact after meeting.

Xiao Ting was curious about the reason, so she took the initiative to ask a blind date she had been satisfied with on WeChat.

I didn't expect this person's answer to Xiao Ting was:

"After reading your circle of friends, I knew that we were not suitable."

Xiao Ting's first reaction was:

Isn't this a life attack?

So she couldn't help but go back:

"What's wrong with my circle of friends? Why don't you like it?"

As a result, it took a long time for the blind date to return:

"Your circle of friends is really cheap!"

also deleted Xiao Ting's wechat.

The implication of this sentence is nothing more than:

Look at your circle of friends and you will know that you are a cheap person!

Xiao Ting was very upset by his popularity, so he looked at his circle of friends again:

Just some photos of himself, eating, drinking and having fun ...

Of course, why does it make people feel cheap?

Xiao Ting must know that he is just good at pretending or unwilling to accept this statement.

1

wechat friends circle is used to record life, yes.

how many real friends are there in wechat?

Most address books are filled with people who are not familiar with them, even strangers.

But now many people will use their circle of friends to "gild" themselves, that is, they deviate from the truth and are full of hypocrisy and commercialization.

Don't underestimate this circle of friends. Since you deliberately expose yourself, of course, others are not fools at the theatre.

I have seen such a scene:

Someone looks at the circle of friends posted by others, holding a mobile phone to enlarge the photos constantly,

Then, with a very playful smile, he said to the person next to him:

"Look, this nose is obviously made."

"I don't know how to fix my teeth in Huang Dou."

"This Chanel bag is fake at first glance, so hypocritical!"

From a psychological point of view:

In fact, few people who make friends actually simply record their initial intentions.

most people are using this circle to meet their inner needs, which are often contrary to the real side of your life.

For example, a person who has no money and feels inferior in life often positions himself as a rich and attractive person in his circle of friends.

people who look at friends, even their close friends, sometimes look at you with a melon-eating attitude, which is absolutely true!

Even if your circle of friends is real and not artificial, others have 1, reasons to define you as artificial.

Because people who look at friends' circle also have their own inner needs, and they are undoubtedly ashamed that others are better than themselves.

2

What kind of circle of friends will make you look cheap?

of course, if you think it's fake yourself, others will definitely think it's fake, and it's definitely cheap.

The actor's performance is really unreal. The audience can see it at a glance. How can an ordinary person be more disguised than an actor?

Some people will send pictures of scenery as if they have been there.

In the comments, I flaunt my rich and carefree appearance. Of course, the group performance is also in place at this time.

Some people send a picture when they go to a restaurant, buy a bag, and send a picture when they go to a luxurious house. Even their girlfriends and family members may be the foundation of showing off, showing their love and how rich their girlfriends are, so as to show their elegance and uniqueness ...

People don't mind if they send it occasionally, but who will stand it if it happens for a long time?

Just like many people talk about Angelababy's acting skills:

It's embarrassing to watch. Who is interested in reading this work?

I have seen such a story:

Junior high school students who have never seen each other for many years only occasionally catch a glimpse of their figure in the circle of WeChat friends.

A female classmate in WeChat often said that she had married abroad and her husband was rich.

I live in a big villa like a castle, and the luxury cars at home can't be counted.

The students haven't seen each other again, so I don't know whether it's true or not, but this kind of life is very enviable.

However, a classmate accidentally met this female classmate when traveling to Gansu:

My husband runs a snack bar and only has a small electric car at home.

The girl's skin is also tanned by the sun.

Can you tell me whether this is a tragedy or a comedy?

3

A circle of friends is a microcosm of a person, although it is hidden behind the network.

but it is also a place full of humanity.

isn't it good to be yourself?

People who are sincere will not make people feel cheap, but will make people feel very precious.

there is no jealousy irony, nor does it penetrate the tentacles of hypocrisy.

Gog doesn't need to be too prominent and bare.

there is no need to use illusory money and other substances for packaging.

People who are really pursuing have no time to take pictures, retouch pictures and distribute pictures.

Only people who are idle and have nothing real will

throw themselves into the audience to direct and perform.

But it takes a long time to make a circle of friends. Is it interesting?

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