Why do we have to have boys?

Question 1: Why do you want to have a boy? As a mother, having boys and girls is my favorite thing, but if I calm down and think about it, do I want boys or girls? Generally speaking, having a boy is called mixed feelings, and having a girl is called mixed feelings. It is the most complicated time when you are going to be a mother and don't know there is a man and a woman in your belly. Of course, the boy will make the whole family happy, but you will be the mother-in-law, and the girl will be the mother's little cotton-padded jacket ~ only the daughter is old, and there is no son around you, and the daughter is called filial piety. It is not good for a son to always revolve around his mother, either worthless or Oedipus. The son is married, he has to raise his wife and children, and he can't revolve around you! But having a daughter and getting married when she grows up will experience life and death and create a new life like ours. As a mother, are you willing to watch your daughter suffer? Relax, as long as you are born, boys are boys and girls are girls, all of which are your own blood. No, you can't force it ~

Question 2: Why do many poor people have sons as their subjective understanding of human beings? The son marries his wife "back" and the daughter marries out.

I'm sure you can understand that you won't want to give away a precious thing for no reason. Similarly, are you willing to work hard to get something you have to give to others?

Although the two are very different in essence, the meaning is the same. Human instinct is to carry on the family line, and poor families embody this instinct. Because they work all their lives to make money for peace of mind, the burden of having more children becomes heavier, and having no sons means that the incense at home is broken, so they are more persistent in having sons.

But wealthy families are more spiritual enjoyment, and rich conditions make them not have to worry about raising a few children.

However, I believe that as a China person, even if men and women are equal, because of the ancient tradition of "raising children to guard against old age" in China, both poor families and rich families will find it necessary to have a son to carry on the family line.

Question 3: Why do many people want to have sons? In fact, there is only one reason. In short, it is human nature to worship the strong and discriminate against the weak.

Because in the long feudal era, men were the main labor force in society. Women have relatively little power to have children. More weak and incompetent under feudal education. Farming, farming, building houses and hunting are all dominated by men. In feudal times, only men could be officials and make a fortune, so parents liked their sons and gained a reputation for wealth. For example, General XX, Hero XX and Big XX's parents. (This is fame)

Because men have wealth, since * * *. Therefore, she will be the head of the family and master the economic lifeline of the family. In the long run, women will become weaker and weaker. Become a vassal of men. Women are in a state of slavery, and they will be demanded by all kinds of demands and lose all kinds of rights (no freedom, no school, no social work, no pursuit of men they like, no reserve, no feet, no chastity, no abstinence, and women will be scolded if they have * * * *). Under the provisions of the patriarchal society, children born to women will take the father's surname. Therefore, everyone likes to have a son, so that the grandson can inherit his grandfather's surname and inherit the patriarchal family business. Therefore, men with feudal ideas like to have a son, and the husband is a wife. A woman is just a puppet of her husband's thoughts.

In the final analysis, whoever is strong will be loved and respected.

I would like to ask, the traditional image of women is that they love to cry, love to make trouble, love to hang, and are always weak to death. Who would like such a person? I don't have the ability to protect myself. My parents want to be married for a lifetime, and they rarely honor themselves around. It used to be like this, but it hasn't changed much now, just a little better.

People like the traditional male image with boldness of vision, culture and power. People with power and ability are bound to be respected and become the backbone of a family and society. Just like a strong person, even if he is fooling around and his moral character is corrupt, everyone just admires him from the heart. It is not often that people watch TV shows and say that this bad guy is so handsome!

This is a traditional image, society is developing, and anything can happen. A lot of things will change. Although I don't know what it will become, it may be an equal and civilized society, a more serious patriarchal society, a feminist society, a mutation of human beings, and so on. Ha ha. . . .

These feudal ideas will eventually die out. It's best not to let a new generation of children listen to these things. So as not to spread the idea of this cancer virus to a new generation of healthy children.

Question 4: Why do some people have to have sons and believe that sons can inherit their own blood?

Question 5: Why do China people have sons? The first impression of writing this topic is that it is too big and I don't know where to start. Actually, I just want to express my opinion. Have you noticed that China has a large population base and rapid growth, and it is an ancient country without precedent (we won't talk about it without new people). In my impression, the concept of preferring sons to daughters began with the ancient saying that "there are three unfilial things, and no posterity is the greatest". What do you mean by "Hou"? Is a descendant. But this descendant is very strange, and women seem to be excluded. Even if you gave birth to ten daughters (that was in ancient times, modern people are rare. If you must have so many children, all the consequences will be borne by you. If you don't have a son, you will be "childless" and "unfilial" and never lift your head. The ancients seemed very * * *, and no woman could give birth to offspring! In fact, since entering patriarchal clan system and forming a patriarchal society, women have gradually become accessories of men and tools for carrying on the family line. Year after year, the status of women is getting lower and lower. For more than two thousand years, women have been tortured, and I don't know how many women have become victims of traditional culture. Even people with both talent and color are no exception. Even the only queen in history, Ms. Zetian, was so "bitter" when she was young! It was not until the May 4th Movement that the status of women gradually improved. Now, the country is becoming more and more prosperous, the economy is becoming more and more developed, and women are becoming more and more independent economically. But ideologically, traditional culture still occupies a dominant position. For example, it is easier to get happiness in families where husband and wife have different division of labor but understand and support each other's work. Why? Because of traditional culture. But if, on the other hand, "women are in charge, men are in charge", the problem will be big. Such a couple is a rare happiness. The world is gossiping like a cloud. Some people say that a flower is stuck in cow dung. When a woman says this, she should still be a little satisfied and happy, because it is someone else who is inserted in the cow dung, not herself. When a man says this, he may be in pity for flowers and jade, or he may be thinking: Why am I not that cow dung? In my heart, I have nasty thoughts; It is said that men eat soft rice, and women disdain it when they talk about it. Fortunately, my husband is not that kind of person; When the man talked about it, he was looked down upon by a hundred people. He patted his chest "bang, bang" and vowed that he could never be that person. Of course, the world is full of miracles, and how many people really support it with their hands? Lao Tzu said that yin and yang are interlinked, and the fisheye in gossip contains such a meaning. The culture of inequality between men and women is rooted in the deepest heart of modern people. Of course, not everyone can recognize it, and not everyone who recognizes it can admit it. Have you found out how many people have become modern guerrillas in order to have a son? Until you give birth to a son. Recently, I read reports that celebrities and rich people are all publicly born. Celebrities are famous, and this era pays attention to a hype. Rich people have many children, that is, they are not afraid of punishment if they have money. So many people will inherit so much property! Conditional, divorce and remarriage, that is, to satisfy physical desires and have a son, why not? If you have no money, you must have a son to support the elderly; A rich man should have a son to inherit his father's business. Speaking of a son is like flashing eyes, as if the son is the future emperor; Those who have given birth to daughters are also lacking in confidence, as if they are raising a "money-losing commodity" and eroding big money. Why do you have such an idea? Besides, our national curse three-character classic, every sentence can not be separated from women. To put it more bluntly, it is around women's organs. Men curse like this, women curse like this. Why do you say that? Why is it a curse to stick to women? Call names, or curse others, or take advantage of words. The three-character sutra of our national mantra became the opening remarks when we spoke. Obviously, it is not cursing others, but taking advantage of others or complaining. But why don't people swear with men? In my humble opinion, men and women naturally have different reasons. For example, if there is national abuse between men and women, will anyone think that women have taken advantage? I am afraid that we don't have. Recently, just now, at the Spring Festival Gala in 2007, two parents found a director for their children to go to college, but mistook the director for a gift giver. In order to get rid of the same opponent, the male parents pretended to say, "I am the director's cousin." The matriarch said, "I am the director's wife." Then he turned around and looked shy: "I still lost!" " "

Question 6: Why do you have to have a son? This is a kind of social prejudice to carry on the family line. If everyone has a boy, they won't get a wife.

Question 7: Why do some people have to have boys? I don't quite understand. Is based on the fact that you are going to benefit now? , healthy? Can the alkali be used up? Rapid prototyping.

Question 8: Why do we have to have a son? However, I told my husband about my mother, and we also discussed whether to have a son. I told my husband: 13 "If you can afford it, you don't have to ask me to help you have another child, because a child is afraid of being too lonely, not giving birth to a son." 13 and my husband told me: "My parents can only explain the birth of a son, because they want a grandson, not my idea, I am just under pressure." It turns out that my husband and I thought the same thing, unlike some people who have children just to have a son. I told my husband that I was worried that the economy would be ok in the future. I will have another child. When our daughter grows up, she will think that we don't love her, so we don't want to have children. My husband said, actually, I like my daughter. You said our daughter was cute and clingy. I don't particularly want a son.