If you hate someone, say it. You hate someone's behavior.

If we hate a person, we can take revenge mentally and physically.

There are several levels of physical revenge, the most obvious is pushing, followed by beating, torture again, and finally killing, directly depriving the other party of their right to life. Generally speaking, killing each other is the ultimate revenge. But in malice, death is only the beginning of revenge.

Noguchi, an unknown children's literature writer, killed Rigao, a famous best-selling author. They are friends and have known each other since primary school. In recent years, Noguchi often went to Rigao's home and became familiar with Rigao and his wife. Nonoguchi's current children's literature works can be published, largely thanks to Rishi's help.

On the day Rigao was killed, only a few people were seen, and Noguchi was one of them. Experienced Kaga police officer, after some uncomplicated investigation and reasoning, quickly locked the suspect at the door of the field. Noguchi didn't make too much sophistry, admitted the fact of killing, and just wanted to die.

Strange is strange, what is Noguchi's motive for killing? At this point, Noguchi never speaks. Officer Kaga had to investigate on his own.

First, in Noguchi's home, a large number of Niigata novels were found, all in Noguchi's handwriting, which was earlier than the publication date of Niigata novels. So I suspect that Noguchi is a rising ghost writer. In fact, Nikko's novels are all written by Noguchi, but Nikko's manuscripts have been polished and adapted. As soon as the reporter reported, this almost became a fact.

But why?

Continuing to search Noguchi's home, I found a photo of the first beauty of my ex-wife, which was carefully collected in a book of Noguchi. So Nonoguchi finally admitted that he had an affair with Chumei, fearing that the exposure would affect Chumei's reputation, so he reluctantly agreed to be a growing ghost writer.

But Chumei died in a car accident five years ago, so why continue to be ghost writer? Noguchi explained that he and Chumei conspired to kill Rigao, but Rigao found out and took video evidence. Noguchi threatened to be ghost writer for another five years. Nonoguchi put up with it for himself and Chumei's reputation. As a result, Rigao spared him five years later, which led him to kill Rigao in a rage. Judging from the scene, it is indeed an impromptu murder case.

At this point, perfect conviction. The national people's impression of famous writers is getting worse and worse. Rigao was a cold, vicious, mediocre and insatiable man, and his death deserved it.

Noguchi's goal has been achieved, the judge can sentence him and the case can be closed. But officer Kaga's question didn't go away. After a lot of interviews and investigations, it was discovered that all the explanations were false, except that Noguchi killed Niigata, which was carefully designed by Noguchi before killing Niigata.

The time goes back to more than 30 years ago. Rigao and Noguchi went to primary school together. At that time, school bullying was rampant, and children living in poor neighborhoods such as Niigata and Noguchi were the primary targets of bullying. Noguchi is a soft egg. In order not to be bullied, he is willing to be a bully's running dog and bully others together. Among the people they bully, one is getting taller and taller. Rigao is a difficult person to deal with. He would rather die than surrender, and finally survived the primary school graduation.

Later, Niigata received a video of Noguchi helping a bully rape a girl. Ri Gao was kind-hearted and didn't think about revenge, but he hid the video. But when Nonoguchi learned about it, it became a thorn in Nonoguchi's heart. He is a gentleman with a small heart, always trying to get rid of the rising sun, and then it will be soon.

He not only wants to kill the growing body, but also wants to destroy the growing personality, honor, achievements in life, and even the reputation of his growing ex-wife who died unexpectedly. This is the ultimate malice of hating someone. But why? Besides Noguchi's handling among Japanese masters, the biggest motivation is jealousy. Jealous of everything better than him.

Many people say that they feel a chill rising from their hearts at the end, saying that they didn't expect a person to do evil to this extent. I smiled in my heart and thought that the person who said this probably knew too little about history. Not to mention the history of hundreds of years ago, just a few decades ago, was this kind of malice still less?

Tell me if you hate someone. Hating someone can make you feel better?

Victim complex

Friend c jun is a strong and good man. No matter what kind of conflict occurs, she always occupies an absolutely rational position. In short: I am so nice, so accommodating, so wronged, do you still want to do this? ! You are a naked mistake, so I can do whatever I want with you, because you are a sinner and I am a victim!

C lives with her parents-in-law when she needs someone to take care of her children. Of course, there are frictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Husband is a person who is not good at dealing with the contradiction between two women, which often makes her feel very dissatisfied. Slowly, the contradiction between C and her in-laws became more and more fierce. Of course, they are bored with each other, and everyone thinks the other is wrong.

When they got married, my father-in-law promised that the young couple would invest in buying a house in the future. However, when their children were born and needed to settle down and buy a house, my father-in-law stopped paying for various reasons. Of course, parents have no obligation to sponsor their children to buy a house, but after all, they promised to go back on their word temporarily, which made C and her husband very angry. Helpless, they owe a large amount of foreign debt, which makes C's husband completely chilling and firmly draws a line with his parents, feeling that their parents are too cruel.

Sometimes, love is deep and hate is strong. The closer you are, the higher your expectations are, and if you are slightly dissatisfied, you can't help but hate it. C relieved: I have long said it was your parents' fault, but now I believe it. Anyway, I don't have to associate with them in the future. Stay away from them. Because they are wrong, we are victims, so we can ignore them with peace of mind and treat them as we want. Who told you to do something wrong?

However, on holidays, C's husband no longer receives phone calls and greetings from his family, and he hasn't been home to see his parents for a long time. C can see that he is very sad. Hating someone can't make things simple, let alone make both sides feel better. Just use one thing to punish each other, the time is uncertain, because I am an absolute victim, I will not forgive.

Once, C told me these things, and his face seemed to be enjoying Roewe as a victim. Yes, you hurt me. You are very unreasonable, and you continue to be unreasonable again and again. I have absolute public opinion and moral commanding heights. Although I am a victim, I have the advantage of blaming, and I can constantly scold your mistakes. All my dissatisfaction and complaints have been satisfied in this repeated reprimand.

When I started to explain something from the perspective of Mr. C's parents-in-law, Mr. C immediately panicked and stopped me from continuing. Yes, she doesn't want to accept any of their reasons and difficulties, because once they have a reasonable excuse, then I am not a victim, I have no right to continue to blame, I can't just ignore them, I can't shirk all my responsibilities, I need to accept my own problems and learn how to get along with them.

Obviously, this is what C doesn't want to do, because she can't learn to get along with her parents-in-law, and can't face her own problems and change herself. She wants to cover up her mistake, so she would rather be a victim, so she doesn't have to do anything. It is much easier to hate someone than to change yourself.

Sometimes, the victim seems to be in a weak position, but it is a shield that you unconsciously wear and can be used repeatedly. The subtext is: it's all your fault. You are so miserable. You did something wrong. Then you have no reason to ask me for anything, so that I refuse to grow and change. After all, it is too painful to admit that you are not good.

It's your fault.

Little d had a car accident in high school. At that time, his face was scarred. He was depressed for a time, stayed at home and never went to school again. He was admitted to the county key high school, but because his father didn't solve the hukou problem for him, he could only go to an ordinary high school, so he has been suffering. It was in that ordinary high school that he had an accident. Although there are scars, I can't see them now. The brain has been traumatized and has healed.

However, he blamed the car accident on his father because he didn't solve the hukou problem. He was studying in a key high school, so he wouldn't have an accident. It seems that the reason is far-fetched Even in ordinary high schools, accidents can only be accidents or carelessness. You can't blame anyone. Even if you go to a key high school, you may not have an accident.

But the identity of the victim can make him constantly condemn his father, so he can not be responsible for himself. So, after the accident, although he basically recovered, he never went to school again and was parasitic at home. Up to now, men in their thirties have sound limbs, a clear head and no visible problems, but they don't go to work and are idle, treating themselves as a basket case, waiting for their parents to raise them.

A lie will become a fact if told a hundred times, so my father always thinks that he destroyed the child, so he bears the crime, thus supporting a disabled person with sound limbs without complaint.

The identity of the victim can make little D feel at ease to enjoy this compensation. He can always enjoy the preferential treatment of others when he was a child, without paying, taking responsibility for his laziness, growing and changing.

Lin's husband cheated her, but she chose to forgive and they continued their marriage. But Lin will get more and more angry because of some trivial things. Her husband retorted a little, and she angrily accused: you have done something sorry for me, and you have the face to ask me. I can forgive you for being very tolerant!

When they are together, there always seems to be a dark cloud.

There is a lingering resentment in Lin's heart, which may erupt at any time. All unhappiness will lead to accusations. I always forget to mend the knife in the end. You betrayed me! The subtext is: I am a victim, and nothing you can do can eliminate my dissatisfaction, so I can always complain about your mistakes with confidence. In this relationship, no matter what you do, you can't change your status as a sinner, but I can do whatever I want with you, because I am a victim and I don't need to face my problems.

This is an unbalanced relationship. Men may break their jars for a long time, and women may become more and more dissatisfied. Of course, the problem of marriage repair requires great wisdom. If you decide to forgive, you need to vent your resentment and ask for an explanation. Otherwise, mutual compromise is just torture to each other.

Hate, like an energy, will not disappear, either to yourself or to others.

It doesn't mean that when a person is very bad to you, we just submit to humiliation and don't resent it. But in the face of unreasonable treatment, when arguments and efforts still cannot be changed, choose to seek your own strength. After all, there are always some people who have no bottom line of morality and principle. If we want to hinder ourselves because we can't let go of our resentment against them, we will lose more.

I read in an article that nelson mandela, a South African hero who led the anti-apartheid struggle, was imprisoned and tortured in Rhode Island for 27 years. At his inauguration ceremony, he respectfully paid tribute to the three guards who had imprisoned him, which made all the guests present and even the whole world quiet. He said: When I walked out of my cell and walked through the prison gate leading to freedom, I knew that if I couldn't leave my sadness and resentment behind, I would still be in prison.

If you really can't let go of the feeling of hate, it won't disappear out of thin air, but it will grow in your heart, either attacking yourself or attacking people around you. Like a depressed volcano, restless.

In the end, it is just to turn yourself and others' lives into victims of hatred.

The scourge of being born into a family

We know that most of a person's problems are caused by his early family background. Parenting problems, early trauma and separation, family environment problems. Traumatic psychologists believe that children have formed a lifelong interpersonal relationship model and sense of security through interaction with caregivers (parents) before they begin to speak and acquire language and thinking skills. It can be seen that parental rearing patterns and family environment have great influence on children.

Many people find their own problems: lack of love, insecurity and bad intimacy, all of which are parents' problems, and then they begin to resent and blame their parents. Then I regarded myself as a victim and rightfully turned a deaf ear to all kinds of problems. Anyway, it's not my fault, it's all about my parents' early upbringing. I don't have to be responsible for it, and I don't have to make changes, that's all. I have no choice.

Is it easy to put the problem on others? Being a victim can make you feel better, but it's just a kind of self-deception, because it's just a reason for you to refuse to grow and change.

We can't change other people's attitudes towards you, our origins and parents, and the fact that others will always hurt your external environment, but that doesn't mean you can be depressed and give up on yourself. Remember, we are capable of making changes at any time.

Speaking of hating someone.

I hate you. Honey, you ruined everything for me. ※。

I still love you, but I never want to have you again. I will try my best to hate you, hate you, and even do some excessive things to make you hate me and hate me, and let you remember me forever in your life. That's enough.

Third, love? More experience, do you like it? There will be fewer people.

Fourth, scoff at love, you'd better keep it to yourself. I don't need it

The first time I saw you, I had a feeling of deja vu, and later I realized it was love.

6. Be yourself to those who are normal.

Seven, one sentence gives me hope, and the other sentence pushes me to hell.

Eight, it turns out that when you hate someone to the extreme, it is love, because when you hate someone, you will think of him every day. I am the sword of the special forces.

Don't judge my field with your vague impression. Let's compare with yours or mine. I have begun to hate you with my actions, and I really don't want to see you again. I suggest you take your seat as soon as possible. I don't care so much about you in my circle of friends, which is silly.

Ten, if you have experienced so many difficulties and obstacles, but still can't change even one answer, turn around once, then I will leave, I will hate you, I think I will never forgive you again. . .

Looking for the true meaning of love in the mottled traces, I found myself singing a solo on a huge stage.

When you hate a person, he is not a person in your eyes, but an animal. People will only kill each other if they regard each other as wild animals. Such is the case with war.

Thirteen, how long is love? How long will hatred last? Have you ever tried the taste of loving someone? Have you ever tried to hate someone again? In this life, you failed me If I can, I will meet you in the next life, torture you and live forever.

Fourteen, thinking about happiness? You, watching the pain? Myself.

Fifteen, cheeks in the warm sunshine, a little more blushing, adding a caress.

Sixteen, with the love of youth, what is left.

Seventeen, the earth without me, also won't stop turning, just like you left me, life must be no different.

Eighteen, why can hurt so far, and comfort must be around?

You know, the cruelest sentence is not that I'm sorry, nor that I hate you, but that we can never go back. This is a simple sentence, to keep two people who were close to each other at a distance. People who have never experienced it will never understand what kind of pain it is.

Twenty, love, come and go, but three words, I love you, I hate you, I am sorry.

I think the saddest thing in life is not that I never saw it, but that I met it, got it and was taken away.

Twenty-two, hate a person because you love too much, so you can't stand being hurt.

Twenty-three, what? What is the heart? Words? What is the salary? Harm/? .

Twenty-four, it is said that it is warm spring, but why can't you feel a trace of warmth?

Twenty-five, if you hate a song, cycle the single to don't want to listen. If you hate a food, eat it every day until you don't want to eat any more. If you hate someone, say his name every day until you stop thinking about you. So, say goodbye.

Twenty-six, love is a meeting, you can't wait, you can't prepare.

Twenty-seven Him? Just you? Does he happen to be? near

Talking about hating someone. Encyclopedia signature about hating someone.

First of all, alas ... I hate to pretend that there is nothing at the top of a person and talk casually together. .....

Second, I still have the qualification to miss you, but I have no right to love you.

Third, I thought that with the passage of time, I could drive you out of your memory.

Fourth, time tells me that I am no longer important to you.

In fact, I am a person who is not good at expressing feelings. I won't hate someone as much as I did in college. I was lucky to lose my life.

6. You never know what the human heart really is. Maybe those who scold you in front of you and say they hate you just hate you. Maybe in places you can't see, she will humble herself to others and even sell her soul to you in order to collect enough money to pay your tuition. Every time she speaks softly, she will comfort you and encourage you. Maybe right after you walk out the door, he will throw your slippers into the trash can and secretly scold that son of a bitch for reading Faust.

7. Make a promise before two copper coins rolling in the deep. The stamps are engraved with souvenirs of Dunston train.

Eight, the world is too cold, so we will wrap ourselves tightly.

Nine, I am single. I thought I could never be with anyone.

X. Sometimes, some people,

Eleven, arrogant Aries, it is difficult to fall in love with a person, can not afford to love is afraid of being hurt. Kind Aries, it is difficult to completely hate a person, and hate is true. Aries' love and hate are fatal. Aries is faithful to love and believes that a person is a lifetime. Once in love, it's hard to give up easily.

The splendid fireworks are beautiful, but they are extremely short-lived.

Thirteen, a long time may not give birth to love, but we must look at people's hearts. Sometimes I am afraid that time will tell me the truth.

Hating someone can't forget someone. Learn to appreciate a person, really forget.

Fifteen, Han, I love you forever! ! !

Sixteen, people who are unhappy because they have experienced too much sadness.

Wait, not because you will come back, but to give yourself a reason not to leave.

No matter how bad we are, as long as we exist, no one can replace us.

Nineteen, to white hair, but also reluctant to forget.

20. I love you but hate you. Do you ever know that I cry for you at night, but why do you wander around at night? My heart is haggard but broken.

Twenty-one, I was indiscriminately called interesting yesterday. Hate you, always hate you.

Twenty-two years old, sweet bits and pieces at the beginning, and finally pieced together all the bitter memories.

Twenty-three, your tears are like a downpour, broken all over the floor, and your heart is clear.

24. imitate l, but please imitate something with good Russian temperament.

Twenty-five, often laugh and cry, laugh and cry.

I seldom hate a person. I really seldom hate a person. I really can't hate a person if it doesn't hurt my bones. Young and ignorant, I once treated a person sincerely. In his eyes, I am just a pervert and a madman. After all these years, I didn't really understand until I saw you. I actually want him to have a good life. It seems that only when he has a bad life can I feel at ease.

Twenty-seven, we met through such a detour, and I know your importance better than anyone else.

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1, finally, finally, still lonely.

2, turn around, don't look at you, say I love you,

I just want to write down what I can't say here and record my feelings.

The world is too cold, so we will wrap ourselves tightly.

This kind of sustainable love must last.

6. Without me, the earth won't stop turning, just like if you leave me, life will be no different.

I fell in love with you in the purest and most beautiful years. Even if I don't love you in the future, I will remember that I loved you.

8. Make a promise before two copper coins rolling in the deep. The stamps are engraved with souvenirs left by the train Dunston.

9, willing to come, I am naive! I will learn to be independent, so that we can get to the beginning!

10, edge to edge, edge to edge. It seems that the edge is not the edge, and the edge is exhausted.

1 1. It turns out that I have a personal relationship. The ninth paragraph contains all the feelings of happiness and sadness.

12, it turns out that our youth, everyone is a dark wound.

13, some things are not incomprehensible, but unwilling to understand again.

14, will anyone take the initiative to chat with me when they see me online, even if it is nonsense?

15, worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, close your eyes and rest.

16, face those people with a normal heart and be yourself.

17. Why is it useless to comfort yourself with words that comfort others?

18. What's left in exchange for youth with love?

19, tears in the eyes, blood in the heart.

20, looking for you to walk through the familiar street, but without you.

2 1, gorgeous fireworks are beautiful, but extremely short-lived.

22. What is happiness? Happiness is: trust, missing, understanding and tolerance.

23. Laugh, the first page, don't let love finish it.

24. I want to be your doll, as long as you like it-I am willing to be played by you all my life, and there is no love in the end.

25. Think of happiness for you and see pain for yourself.

26. No matter what you think, it's you who are ultimately sad.

27. In the real society, performance is a means of our survival.

28, like amnesia, let the past become a memory, scattered in my mind.

29. Whenever you go back and forth, you always write those letters on the glass, which is the abbreviation of your name.

30. I always impose my emotions on myself.

3 1, I know my tears have never been cherished by you.

I only need to keep my memory for five seconds, not forever.

33. I just want to go to a person's eternal life with this love that has nothing to do with anyone or anything.

I'm standing in the sun. Let time slip away. I still don't understand that you can't come back. Refuse to recognize one's mistakes

35. I thought that with the passage of time, I could drive you out of your memory.

36. I think the saddest thing in life is not that I never saw it, but that I met it, got it and was taken away.

37. I hope someone can understand the warmth in my indifference.

I heard that the most painful thing in life is to watch the person you love the most die for yourself.

39. I tried to smile and make my mouth rise, but I reached the limit.

40. We always keep our words in our hearts, for the sake of dignity and for many stupid reasons.

4 1, as long as we exist, no one can replace us, no matter how bad we are.

42. We are the same kind, so we cherish each other, but forget that the same kind often kills each other.

We met after such a detour. I know your importance better than anyone.

I cried, but you didn't stop me. However, this tear, dripping on the ground, is obviously lavender. ....