The adopted son is 13 years old this year. After finding his biological family last year, he reported these things to me one year after returning. Will this situation affect the child?

You said that your adopted son is worried that his biological mother’s lifestyle will influence him, which shows that the adopted son already has his own values. These should be your contributions. His dissatisfaction with his biological mother's habits is a reflection of his concept of right and wrong. If he can stick to his own values ??of right and wrong, he should have no problems in life. Of course, the age of thirteen is also a period when things can be changed. In fact, the main internal factor in whether you change or not depends on yourself. Some people are still changing as they get older.

However, the adopted son’s views on his biological mother’s living habits may also affect his future life concepts and even his marriage concepts.

You plan for your child and want him to live a better life. This also shows your fraternity and kindness to others. This is also your greatness-not selfish!

Being an adopted son is not bad in itself. This is due to the influence of your family for more than ten years. This is the most critical foundation in life. Once the foundation is solid, growth and growth will be relatively easy.

The relationship between the adopted son and his biological sister is very good. The adopted son's character may also affect his sister and develop into a good life.

What kind of person you want to be in life is ultimately your own choice.

Even around you, if he sees someone with bad character, he will despise her; but now that she is his biological mother, maybe he will also influence and change his biological mother?

I hope these opinions of mine can be enlightening to you, and you can have a heart-to-heart talk with your adopted son to strengthen his inner moral character!