Is there any way to save a man's persistent heart?

Your heart is gone, which means you really broke up. Saving a real breakup is relatively more complicated, but generally speaking, it can also be divided into subjective breakup and objective breakup.

Let's talk about subjective breakup first. Subjectivity, as the name implies, means that the parties are separated from their subjective will. Whether it is because of their weak feelings or empathy, in the final analysis, it is the behavior led by the parties out of their own ideas. This is also what many people will say, "Breaking up is the result of deliberate efforts".

The most common situation of subjective breakup is that the two parties have been in love for several years, during which the woman is prone to lose her temper and the man is tolerant, patient, accommodating, retaining and coaxing. After a long time, he gradually lost patience, and the man was exhausted and proposed to break up.

Everyone has their own bottom line, don't say that love is not enough, the pressure is too great, and maintenance is hard. These are a little feathers that fall on your body, and the superimposed weight is enough to crush many feelings. Constantly wandering at the bottom line, testing, and finally playing with fire, then you can't blame others.

Subjectively, breaking up is mostly reflected in men. Most men break up after thinking, which is the result of long-term depression and brewing. When he really has doubts about a relationship and loses the patience to maintain it, he can leave decisively and propose to break up.

At this time, as a woman who wants to save her feelings, she should have different thinking: if the relationship between the two people is not very stiff at this time, then she can try to maintain a low-frequency connection and then cooperate with self-adjustment to try to attract the man back. He still has feelings for you after he just broke up. Even if there is not much left, make use of it in time and don't miss the opportunity to save it.

And if your relationship is so stiff at this time, even normal friends can't communicate. Then what you have to do at this time may be to appease the other party first, and then find an opportunity to contact him, but be careful not to fall into a long-term loss of contact, otherwise you may lose the opportunity to recover. In this process, it is also accompanied by self-adjustment and re-attraction.

Another real breakup is an objective breakup. How to explain this situation is like saying, "There is good news and bad news, which do you want to hear first?".

The good news is that although objective breakup is also classified as true breakup, the one who broke up doesn't really want to break up, so they have suffered the same pain and suffering as you. Your hearts are still connected, and you don't need to solve emotional problems.

The bad news is-even though he still loves you, he decided to break up, insisted on breaking up and was reluctant to break up. It can be seen how firm and unshakable its determination is.

The most common situation of objective breakup is that you still have feelings after graduation, but it is foreseeable that you will be far apart in the future. For example, shortly after graduation, the man chose to go abroad for further study, and the woman arranged a job at home. They were born too far apart, and there are still old people to take care of at home, so no one can accommodate them. There is no hope for the future if this relationship continues, so the man reluctantly proposed to break up.

Similarly, the objective breakup was put forward by the man. This type of breakup often has no principled problems in the emotional process, including love, tacit understanding and happiness, because it is most regrettable to separate objective factors. Similar objective factors include job transfer, family changes and sudden economic changes (getting rich or going bankrupt).

As a redeemer, this kind of feeling is hard to recover, depending on specific events. It can be to solve the problem itself (such as two people going abroad for further study together, or trying to get the man to stay), or it can be to solve the influence of the problem (such as convincing the man that this relationship has a future, how to maintain it in a different place, where does confidence and feasibility come from, and so on). In a word, the key lies in solving events and problems. Of course, you don't need to be too discouraged. He still loves you. This is your motivation and chip. How to use the cards in your hand to make a beautiful reversal outcome depends on whether you handle it wisely enough.

The above is for reference only.