I am not scum. If I were scum, I could please your wife [cover your face].

How to identify a man's scum? "These three methods will make you clear at a glance.

Someone said, "For a woman, the most unfortunate thing in life is to marry love rat and get seriously hurt." . To tell the truth, I don't agree with this, because in my opinion, for a woman, the most unfortunate thing in life is by no means meeting love rat, but those who know that the other person is love rat, but still reluctant to leave, looking for various reasons and excuses, and voluntarily being hurt by love rat.

I often say: "A happy marriage is actually only two steps. The first step is to choose the right person before marriage, and the second step is to manage well after marriage. " Therefore, choosing the right person before marriage is undoubtedly a very important thing for marriage, because it doesn't make any sense for two unsuitable people, no matter how they make up and how they run in. Inappropriate is inappropriate. Take love rat for example, his scum can't be changed at all, because that's who he is, and that's the essence. They can only bring pain to women, so it is the most correct decision for women to leave love rat.

It is for these reasons that women often ask me, "How can I judge whether a man is scum?" ? In fact, it is not difficult to identify love rat. These three methods will make you clear at a glance.

After falling in love with you, do you know how to refuse and keep your distance?

Usually, love rat is a playboy, and they don't know how to satisfy, so "riding a donkey to find a horse" is their usual routine. They always eat from the bowl and watch from the pot, so they have a special performance, that is, even if they have a girlfriend, they will never refuse the kindness of a heterosexual, and some even take the initiative to play with other heterosexual.

For love rat, there is no doubt that the more they want the opposite sex, the better. These ideas are not limited to imagination, but will be put into action. Therefore, most of their address books are all kinds of opposite sex, and they simply don't know how to keep a distance from other opposite sex. If someone asked him if he had any friends, he would definitely say "single".

When you want something, are you willing to spend money for you, and do you know how to pay?

As the saying goes, "men who are willing to spend money for you don't necessarily love you, and men who are unwilling to spend money for you don't necessarily love you." In fact, I quite agree with this statement, because in my opinion, most love rat are not willing to spend money or pay for women, because they know that they are just having fun, and this woman is just a passer-by in his life, so they will not pay for women at all. On the contrary, most love rat will make women pay in various ways, because they all know that the more a woman pays, the more inseparable she is from him and the more confident she will be.

So, girl, when you meet a man who doesn't want to spend money for you and cares about you, please call him immediately, because he never loves you as much as he says.

Do you like to pass the buck when you encounter problems? Do you like to escape?

Usually, love rat is irresponsible, because they love too much and have too many responsibilities, so they can't bear any responsibilities at all, so they learn to tell lies with their mouths. For them, all kinds of vows of eternal love and promises are just words. As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed". In fact, so is love rat. Most of them can only share joys and sorrows with women, but not with them. Because they are born with a lack of sense of responsibility, they like to pass the buck, and they always pass the buck when they encounter problems.

So girl, when a man can't take responsibility for you, and even often puts his own responsibility and pressure on you, then nine times out of ten, this man is love rat. Please call him at once. He doesn't deserve your love.

In fact, in reality, I seldom advise men to leave "green tea", and I seldom advise women to leave "love rat", because in my opinion, there are many so-called "emotional victims" who all know who the other person is and what pain they will get if they persist, but don't they still do that? So they have made their own choices, and if I impose interference, it will not help. As for the purpose of writing this article, I actually want to tell those who are not deeply poisoned because it can really be avoided.