What kind of experience is mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together?

Speaking of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it can be said that every family has a difficult experience. Some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may not see each other several times throughout the year, but every time they meet, they always choke because of something; There are also some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live under the same roof, but still live in harmony every day.

The same is the mother-in-law, why is the contrast so big? In fact, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in peace, mostly because both of them understand the following truth, which is envied by outsiders.

We are sincere to each other, don't be too harsh and don't expect too much from each other.

Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate. They are not relatives, but they are better than relatives. In such a seemingly contradictory relationship, if we want to live in peace, then both sides should understand this truth. On the one hand, be sincere to each other, don't be too harsh on each other, and don't have too much hope for them. After all, the mother-in-law is not a mother, and the daughter-in-law is not a daughter. In this way, I have adjusted my mentality and will not always find fault with each other's words and deeds. From then on, I let go of each other and got along well with each other. Without unnecessary quarrels, my family life can be more peaceful and smooth.

During the confinement of the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law tries not to find fault.

Many daughters-in-law said that the contradiction between themselves and their mother-in-law began with confinement, because she was already very fragile when she was confined to confinement. At this time, her mother-in-law not only did nothing, but even had to find something else. As a result, her mother-in-law did something that made her chilling. She couldn't take it seriously in a special period, so "the revenge of confinement is not * * *". After confinement, her mother-in-law became a stranger.

Most of the mother-in-law who live together but are still in peace take care of her daughter-in-law wholeheartedly during her confinement. When the daughter-in-law's mood fluctuates greatly, she tries to let her daughter-in-law sit on the moon and leave no sequelae. In this way, the daughter-in-law is naturally grateful when she is out of the month.

Communicate more, solve problems face to face, and don't gossip behind your back.

Another reason why mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can still get along peacefully is that when two people know how to get along, they should communicate more and try to solve problems face to face, instead of complaining and making irresponsible remarks in front of each other, especially in front of their husbands (sons). It is precisely because I understand this truth that even if there is a problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will be solved in the first time, so the number of times I get along with each other will naturally increase.

Moreover, most of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live in harmony are still very filial to their mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law does not put on airs with her elders, and her daughter-in-law also puts herself in the right position. As long as the mother-in-law is not particularly excessive, she will do her duty for the younger generation. In this way, each of us will do our job well first, and then be willing to put ourselves in each other's shoes when there is a problem, instead of clinging to each other's mistakes, finding trouble with each other, or putting on airs with our daughter-in-law and completely ignoring each other.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. If two people understand the above truth, they can get along well even if they live in the same room. Unfortunately, many people can't, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be so serious.