Love doesn't cook eggs for you, but teaches you how to cook eggs —— Watch Ocean Paradise

An old film of 20 10. The tender theme of fatherly love to maternal love itself is very easy to touch the most sensitive nerve in everyone's heart.

The story is actually very simple: Wang Xincheng (played by Jet Li), the father of terminal liver cancer, has to find a place for his son Dafu (played by the article) with autism in a limited time. However, after running around, I found a gap in the social security system and couldn't find a suitable home for my son. Later, with infinite love and tireless patience for his son, Wang Xincheng completed a very arduous task: teaching Dafu to take the bus (line), teaching him to cook eggs (vegetables) and teaching him to mop the floor (work) in the aquarium. This paper does not comment on the actors' acting skills and the expression of the film, but only talks about personal feelings of watching movies.

If our social security system is perfect, it is estimated that this touching film will not be released. I'm not talking about whether the film is intended to point out that China's current social security system is not perfect. I want to say that it is precisely because no one takes care of Dafu's embarrassing situation that his father Wang Xincheng has the opportunity to "sublimate" his father's love.

Parents love their children, which is the purest and most selfless love in the world and deserves respect and admiration. Even in the face of the fact that their son is ill, no one can accept that mothers choose to end their lives and flee. My father has been taking care of Dafu's life for more than ten years, without complaining or feeling distressed. He is a burden, and even more awe-inspiring. Few people can do it! In reality, more often than not, some parents want to abandon them when they learn that there are disabled children at home. Maybe it's because of economic reasons, maybe it's because of unbearable pain in life. But this is still a universal meaning, that is, fatherly love or maternal love in the world. It can even be said to be "doting."

In the face of mentally retarded children, parents and many people only give sympathy, but ignore respect.

Because the child is ill, he does everything instead of him. Using this excuse, he dotes on children and ignores the opportunity to help mentally retarded children progress and even learn like ordinary children.

When his father was terminally ill for a short time, and the society could not help the mentally retarded children, his father Wang Xincheng was forced to ask Dafu, learn basic survival skills such as cooking, riding a car, cleaning and mopping the floor, just like normal children, in order to get the economic source of work. At first, it was a last resort. Later, when my father said, "There are some things I still want him to understand", it actually sublimated the degree of "fatherly love". Treat Dafu like a normal child and make demands. This kind of treatment and request itself is a kind of respect.

When we face the weak, it is almost natural for kind people to give sympathy. Subconsciously, we look down from the moral high ground and give sympathy and help; Ignore the lack of respect.

I heard that there is a beggar in the street. Someone put fifty dollars into the bowl in front of him, but the beggar just looked indifferent. A man didn't have his wallet on him, so he shook his hand apologetically, patted him on the shoulder and said, "I'm sorry, brother." But the beggar was so moved that he almost cried.

Because this man didn't give him money, but shaking hands with him is a friend's identity and respect. There is a similar story: a well-dressed lady passed a beggar with no lower limbs after shopping, holding a bag in her hand and unable to liberate her hands. She squatted down and asked the beggar to take money from her pocket.

This squatting posture of the girl shows her nobility and respect for him.

We so-called normal people, in the face of the weak, give sympathy at the same time, but also inexplicably with a sense of superiority and condescension. Compared with the beautiful radian of losing money, have we seen our own charity and gift, and our strong pity for those who feel inferior, and have we been pitied as the weak? Have you ever seen your shallowness and narrowness, some arrogance, some prejudice and some humility like beggars in your soul?

"Don't they also need self-esteem? Don't they need money? " When we have this idea, we are already belittling them. Do they really, just, need money?

Who can help who do everything? Who can end life for whom? It is often said that "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish." Love him, not only to cook eggs for him, but more importantly, to teach him to cook eggs. If Wang Xincheng had trained Dafu's viability with the requirements of normal children earlier, they might have created more miracles and success.

In addition to the dramatic scenes in which Dafu imitates Lingling (played by Kwai Lun Mei) to throw eggs, Dafu dances freely in the water like a fish, and Chai Sao Yong Dong, I personally think that the climax of the film is about 20 minutes.

Images without lines are more infectious and shocking. When you see Dafu silently building cars, cooking eggs and mopping the floor, even the hard heart becomes soft and silent. And this sentence moved me very much, "Dafu!" Remember, dad is a turtle "; Also, especially in the last touching picture, Dafu is holding a turtle in the water, just like holding his father ... making people cry ~ ~ ~