How to get children up on time?

My mother-in-law is always complaining. Sasuke Uesuke doesn't get up in the morning. After getting up, she washes her face and eats slowly. She kept urging, and almost came late several times. The teacher also told me that they were late every day.

So, I'm going to play in person and see how they muddle along.

The company bus leaves at 7 am. In order to catch the bus, we must go out at 6: 30. At that time, the children had not got up, let alone sent them to school.

If I take a taxi by myself or send it by my family, I can go out at 7: 30. At this time, the children are just having breakfast and getting ready to go out.

Then I began to implement my plan.

They mentioned more than once that they wanted me to send them to school. If they go out at 7: 30, they can be delivered to the school gate just before I go to work.

So, before going to bed, tell them: Mom will go out to work at 7: 30 tomorrow. If you are all ready then, I will send you to school.

They are very happy.

The rules are simple and clear: Mom must go out at 7: 30, otherwise she will be late, and she will be informed criticism.

The first day, when the alarm clock rang at 7 o'clock, I went to wake them up, but I didn't even think about it. I said, remember what mom said last night? Pack it up before 7: 30. I can take her to school!

Hearing this, Sasuke got up soon, but Youyou couldn't get up, saying he wanted to sleep for a while. I said in a normal tone: if you want to sleep, go on sleeping for a while. If time is too late, ask grandma to take you to school.

Sasuke got up and washed in one go. When he was ready for breakfast, Yo-Yo got up. I didn't care, didn't rush, and didn't stop my mother-in-law from helping her.

At 7: 30, Sasuke and I went out and Yo-Yo was washing. She doesn't seem to care, and she thinks it's good that her grandmother sent me. So I only sent one child to school.

Every day in the first week is similar. On Friday, when I went out, I cried and asked me to wait for her. She also wants me to take her. I didn't wait, just told her: mom and you agreed at 7: 30, remember to get up early next time.

At the weekend, I found an opportunity to chat with Youyou and told her that her mother loves her and wants to send her to school, but her mother also has rules that her mother must abide by.

Next Monday, Yo-Yo will get up, and finally I will send two children to school at the same time. Talking and laughing all the way, the picture is very warm.

What if you can't get up occasionally, or you are slow and work overtime?

If the time is only over a minute or two, I will take them running to school.

If I work overtime for about 5 minutes, I will send them across the street and let them walk the rest of the way.

If overtime is 10 minutes, then I can't send it.

Tell them by action: we can only recover the wasted time by running. If you waste too much time, even if you run fast, you can't recover it, so you have to bear the consequences of wasting time-go to school by yourself.

Every time I leave them, I hug them, kiss them and say a word or two of encouragement.

Sometimes when time is enough, I walk slowly to school and tell stories while walking.

They feel their mother's love, and if they want to have such a beautiful morning all the time, they will be more motivated to get up early.

Recently, they even woke me up before 7 o'clock when I was still sleeping.

They formed the habit of getting up on time, and even took the initiative to get up on time.

In this way, positive guidance is much better than repeated urging, and it also makes the parent-child relationship more beautiful and harmonious.

The same method can be used in other places.

For example, if I go out to play without doing my homework after school, I still don't want to go home. I made an agreement with them: every night from 8: 30 to 9: 00, it is our parent-child reading time.

They like reading books with me and listening to my stories. So I will go home at 8: 30 on time and finish my homework ahead of time. (Of course, there are times when I don't want to go home or I haven't finished my homework. Must strictly follow the agreement, there is no reading time for parents and children. )

For example, if I don't go to wash and sleep at night, I made an agreement with them: wash before 9: 30, I can choose a book, and my mother will tell a bedtime story. Their enthusiasm for going to the toilet has been greatly improved.

The above are some of my parenting experiences, hoping to inspire everyone.