How long can a woman live apart? How will she feel when she meets again after a long separation?

How long can a woman live apart? How will she feel when she meets again after a long separation? Ms. Chen, it is very painful for husband and wife to live apart for two years. When I first got married, my husband and I had a good relationship, and later we were assigned to other places by the company. However, I stayed because of work and children. I thought marriage could withstand a long separation, but during the two years here, I was really miserable. When we first separated, my husband could go home once a month, or I took the children to see him. At that time, there was a feeling that "a long separation is better than a new marriage", but then the feelings between husband and wife became weaker and weaker, and sometimes they even met once every six months, and there was no contact after meeting.

Frankly speaking, I am in pain now, and I know that the feelings between husband and wife can be ignored for a long time. Originally, I wanted to get a divorce, but because the child didn't dare to take this step, I didn't want the child to lose a relationship as long as we were together, but I really couldn't bear to part with it. After all, marriage has existed in name only. Looking back, I will still miss it, but I know I can't go back. Now, apart from the pain, I have lost my faith in life, and maybe I really have to get a divorce.

Jiang Nv, husband and wife have been separated for five years, and they are in a dilemma. My husband and I have been separated for five years. Although the two cities are very close, we have lost that miss. Even meeting is a kind of consumption, and there are no children between us, so our marriage is on the verge of cracking. The reason why everyone separated was because he betrayed his marriage, and after the dispute, it became what it is today. But for such a long time, as a woman, I actually couldn't bear loneliness, so I gradually fell into an extramarital affair and couldn't extricate myself.

My husband and I meet occasionally, but we both know each other very well and never discuss anything about feelings. No one has taken the initiative to think about divorce, but it is not the way to go on like this. As soon as we fully considered disturbing each other's parents and letting the elderly work for us, we felt it was unnecessary and kept dragging our feet.

It's really a dilemma for me. On the one hand, I don't want my parents to know the status quo of our marriage. On the other hand, it is a long-separated marriage life, and I don't know how to go on after divorce. I've been putting it off, but I know we'll part eventually.