How do you judge whether your son will support himself when he is old?

Will my son support himself when I am old? Now when I look at my daughter-in-law, I know that my aunt always sighs in front of me after my cousin gets married. My son finally grew up, got married smoothly and started working. As parents, the responsibility of raising children has been fulfilled. The only worry is whether the son who has worked so hard to raise can support himself in the future, and don't draw water with a sieve in the end!

In fact, I don't quite agree that parents should keep an eye on their children after raising them well, and then get sick, fearing that their children will not support the elderly, because the social environment is very good now, and parents can live well as long as they are prepared for supporting the elderly, regardless of whether their children support the elderly or not. However, I understand that some parents have the idea of raising children and think that it is the best destination for their children to support themselves, so I still have to tell my aunt that if they are really old.

Whether a son supports the elderly depends largely on his daughter-in-law, because after his son gets married, life is not his own, but his and his wife's. No matter what he does, he must consult with his wife, otherwise, she will think that he is not respected and will divorce him sooner or later.

So, I want to know if my son will support the elderly. Now it depends on whether his daughter-in-law will support the elderly. If the daughter-in-law is good enough and kind enough, she promises to be old in the future. It is inevitable for her son to provide for the aged, because no one can stop her from being filial to her parents. More importantly, she won't support her parents, and even her wife looks down on her, which is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife. If the daughter-in-law doesn't want to support the elderly, the son is probably unfilial, not to his parents.

When he is old, his son doesn't provide for himself. Now that I see my son's daughter-in-law not interfering with his son, I know it's for my own good. If the son is kind to himself, such as occasionally giving him a pension and buying himself new clothes, his daughter-in-law will interfere and feel that his son is not good to himself. I think it is very troublesome to provide for my son when he is old. My daughter-in-law disagreed at first.

However, as long as the son is good to himself, no matter whether he pays or contributes to himself, the daughter-in-law will not say anything. The son and daughter-in-law have given themselves great freedom. When the son is so old, there will be no problem in providing for the elderly himself.

Parents who have sons may know that their sons do not provide for the elderly and have a lot to do with their daughters-in-law. Therefore, whether the son wants to support the elderly or wants to have a good relationship with his son and daughter-in-law, many sons and daughters-in-law are very good. Don't be stingy when their sons and daughters-in-law need help, or they will suffer when they are old.