How to persuade my husband not to resign?

Xixi is good. I hope you can listen to me slowly. My heart is in a mess. My husband is my college classmate. We have been in love since 18 years old, and now it has been 14. Now we have a lovely three-year-old daughter. My husband joined the army two years later, worked in the army for 10 years, and then transferred to the county-level organs in my small county, ending the life of separation between the two places. It stands to reason that I should live a happy life, but now he is beginning to regret not jumping ship, let alone moving to such a small county. It seems that everything is sorry for him, so he always has the idea of quitting. I don't know what to do. Here, if you give up a stable job in your thirties and then go to work in other places, starting from scratch will be considered crazy by others. What's more, he jumped ship because he was bored in the original army and didn't want to go back there. Dear Sissy, can you help me think about how to persuade him? Reply under the light rain eaves: "In our place, if you give up a stable job in your thirties and then go to work in other places and start from scratch, others will think you are crazy." Hehe, no matter what others think, I personally think it is not advisable for him to want to resign. You can analyze with him what he can do and where to work after he resigns. While analyzing, you should also analyze yourself to see if he really has the ability to find another job after resigning. If so, you can support his resignation. 1. Where is he going to develop after resigning? He didn't take a fancy to small towns, which means he will go to a bigger city for development. Which city? The city where he enlisted? This time, you have to tell him that you don't intend to live separately anymore, so you and your daughter will go with him and work together in any city where he goes to develop. So, if you have a house where the three of you live together, rent it first? Yes, but not for a long time. Speaking of buying a house, what is the price of a house in that city? How long does it take you to buy a house in that city? Well, he has to make a long-term consideration. Other cities, he wants to do the same. 2. What can he do? What kind of work experience and contacts do you have? My husband's unit recruited master graduates last year and this year, because many master students submitted resumes. Educationally, your husband has no advantage. Therefore, it is not suitable for your husband to consider careers such as academic qualifications and professional skills. Such a unit may not give priority to your husband. If I were you, I would consider recruiting younger and more flexible people. Work experience is your husband's advantage in finding a job. So, what kind of work experience does he have in the army? What kind of job can his ten years of work experience support him to find in the local area? I came to Beijing in 2006 and applied for the position of office director of a well-known magazine. The interviewer asked some questions: which city is your parents' brother, what do you do, and which city do your parents-in-law, husband and his brothers and sisters work in? What kind of work experience do you have and which customers have you dealt with? At the end of the interview, I understand that their office director seems to be related to sales performance, and they need this office director to have a very wide range of contacts. Can better help this magazine to open up some situations. So from this point of view, if your husband chooses a job that needs a lot of contacts, he should consider the city where he joined the army and whether there are many well-connected comrades in the local area who can make a job suitable for him. 3. Does it seem that there is no such thing as leaving your job without pay? Some time ago, I replied to a letter, suggesting that the husband of a civil servant leave his job without pay, but his wife said that this statement was gone and he could only resign. I don't know if there's still a sentence called leave without pay. If so, it is a good idea to stay without pay under some risky behaviors such as re-choosing a job. When I was in high school, a teacher left her job without pay and went out to work hard for several years. After losing money, she went back to being a teacher with peace of mind. Everyone wants to have better development and earn more money. The key is whether it is possible, capable and capable. Which job and position is yours? He has begun to regret changing jobs from the army to the local government. Next time he chooses a job, he should think carefully and don't regret it again and again. When he was annoyed in the army, he should reconsider. Why is he angry? Is it that talents can't be reused, or that they can't handle interpersonal relationships, and their work ability is mediocre but self-righteous? There is a kind of person who is not satisfied with a bottle and shakes it halfway. This kind of person always feels that his material is wronged, but gold always shines. They are not gold, but they think they are a piece of gold. Then, the first thing you have to learn is to face up to yourself, find your place and have a correct evaluation of yourself. I know the general manager of a company, and when chatting, it seems that my former work partners are sorry for him. He is so cultured and capable, but he keeps going to Maicheng. Then, it is not only his work partner who has problems, but also a large part of his personal reasons. It can be seen that he is cynical and everything is unsatisfactory, and everyone is responsible for him. I guess it's really not easy to cheer him up and get up again.