What are the unbearable behaviors in children?

What are the unbearable behaviors in children?

What are the intolerable behaviors of children? Children will have some bad behavior habits when they grow up. At this time, parents need to understand it correctly, otherwise these behaviors will make many people hate it. Let's share the behavior that children can't stand. Let's have a look.

What are the intolerable behaviors of children? 1 1, likes to hit people.

In real life, most children are gentle and polite, but some children are full of aggression and start hitting people if they don't agree. What is even more frightening is that some parents think that it is not a problem for children to like to hit people. Instead, they think that their children are "courageous" and that such children are not easy to be bullied in the future. However, "not being bullied" and "bullying others" can completely be two concepts, and those children who like to hit people are often the latter.

I believe everyone knows the possible consequences of fighting. If parents don't stop their children's violent tendencies in time, children will often become rebellious and crazy, and most of them will be at a loss after entering the society. Don't think it's online. Don't steal needles when you are young, and don't steal gold when you grow up?

I like to negotiate with my parents.

Nowadays, many parents spoil their children too much, and they will regret it only after they spoil them. But the problem is that the child has been spoiled, even if it is too late to regret, the child is used to everything, and parents are not allowed to refuse at all. When parents try to make their children obey with their prestige, the children will talk to their parents about the conditions, "You buy me xx, and I will go to xxx". Such children only know how to take and don't know how to pay. When they grow up, they will pay for their greed and inhumanity.

What you can't get is ridicule.

"If you can't eat grapes, you will say that grapes are sour", which is the kind of child. This kind of child is also spoiled, thinking that he should be the best, and all good things should be obtained by himself. If you can't, you will ridicule or even swear directly, "I don't want to make others feel better." No one will like such a vengeful and jealous child. Such children are often marginalized in interpersonal communication and gradually become "unsociable" and withdrawn. Now that the economy is developed and people's living conditions are better, they pay more attention to raising children and providing them with good material conditions. Material conditions have gone up, but spiritual conditions cannot fall. If parents can't master their children's education, no matter how good the material conditions are, they will ruin their children.

A child is like a blank notebook. There will inevitably be ink spots on it. If parents can remove it in time, "ink spots" will not pollute the whole notebook, and the pages at the back will still be clean.

What are the intolerable behaviors of children? 2. What are the behaviors of children who don't grow up?

1, Ta has no dreams, no goals and no plans.

You rarely hear TAs talk about their ideals and plans. Even if they talk, they are mostly for bragging and never really do it. However, just because TAs don't have ideals doesn't mean they are willing to stand still. Most of them don't have the perseverance to stick to the simplest mechanical work. Generally speaking, TAs are impetuous people, with no starry sky in their eyes and no land under their feet.

2.Ta lazy

Ta, who has been spoiled by her parents since childhood, or who is not disciplined at all, will lead a sloppy life, don't know how to tidy up herself, and can't even do the most basic housework, waiting for someone to serve like a grandfather or princess.

3.Ta is very enjoyable.

Life is short, eat, drink and be merry is our motto. Life needs enjoyment and happiness, but this should not be the main color. However, for TAs, one day is a day, and the sky is falling. Isn't it just that your parents support you?

4. Always blaming you

If something goes wrong, Ta will put all the blame on you or even completely unrelated people. In short, ta can't be wrong. Because Ta has no adult mind and doesn't know how to pay for his mistakes. In fact, each of us doesn't want to bear the mistake, just knowing that we don't bear it, and no one will take your place, but TAs don't understand this truth.

Second, I am not a perfect child.

1, adults want their children's heads to bloom with wisdom, while others' children's heads are just a bunch of weeds.

A child would rather be stabbed by cactus than laughed at by adults.

There is an American proverb: Chase two hares at the same time, and you will have nothing. And a radiant life should never be regretted for life because of a small mistake.

Adults love to say that children are their mirrors.

5. Adults like to laugh at other people's children as flowers in the greenhouse, but they try their best to cultivate their children into flowers in the greenhouse.

6. Adults usually don't know what their children really look like, and children usually don't know what their parents really look like.

7. Every choice in life is the key to making the scalp numb! If adults don't believe in fairy tales, why do they keep telling children stories they don't believe?

Third, parents want their children to be dragons.

Every parent wants to have a long-term success. In order to make their children better and better in the future, many parents put their children in various cram schools and urge them to study hard every day, which invisibly puts a lot of pressure on their children and makes them lose the happy years of their childhood, but the effect is often too late.

If you want your child to grow up happily, in fact, you need to understand the child's mentality and analyze the problem from the child's point of view so that the child can grow up as soon as possible.