What is a dowry of 200,000? Should the man ask the woman how much the dowry is?

Betrothal gifts and dowries all involve real money. The bride price comes from money from the groom’s family, so it must be a lot of money. It feels quite heartbreaking, and the bride price is equivalent to a gift. It would be best if the bride’s family can give her a dowry. Should the man ask the woman how much she will give as a dowry?

1. What is the level of a dowry of 200,000 yuan:

1. A dowry of 200,000 yuan as a gift, which is already considered a high level.

In our country, the money used for marriage is basically paid by the man’s family, and the woman’s family will prepare a dowry, but the dowry is usually items and only part of the money. The dowry is only 200,000 yuan, plus some traditional dowry items, a car and some money for packing. This is a lot of dowry. The woman's family is already quite wealthy. It can be seen that they feel sorry for their daughter.

2. Let’s talk about the general dowry. The average dowry will not exceed 50,000 yuan.

According to marriage customs, most of the money used for marriage is provided by the man. The woman will prepare traditional items, such as descendant barrels, wedding quilts, washing machines, red boxes, etc., plus part of the refunded bride price, or add 10,000 to 20,000 yuan to the bride price, and return it together. In this way, generally The family's dowry does not exceed 50,000 yuan. There are also those who have no dowry at all.

Many parents still feel sorry for their daughters. They want the woman not to be criticized by her husband's family in the future, so they will prepare a larger dowry, such as a mobility scooter, a full set of home appliances, etc.

2. Should the man ask the woman for dowry:

This is not suitable to ask directly. Asking directly feels like a transaction and hurts feelings.

However, the man gave the bride a bride price, but they still wanted to know how the bride price was used. If it is used by the parents themselves, then it is still okay. After all, it is the parents who raised their daughters. If parents use it for their son and treat their daughter as a cash cow, they will feel very unhappy. It can be handled according to the situation:

1. The woman is an only child

In this case, the woman’s parents generally will not ask for too much betrothal gift, and even if they give a betrothal gift, they will return it. Those who pay betrothal gifts will also give dowries to their daughters. Parents only have one child, and everything they have from now on will be yours.

2. The two daughters of the bride’s family

In this case, the parents are still relatively relaxed. The one who got married first received how much gift and gave how much dowry, and the one who got married followed. That's it.

3. The woman has an older brother or younger brother

This situation is the most troublesome. Since ancient times, many parents have favored sons over daughters and will give their daughters’ betrothal gifts to their sons. Use it, because I will rely on my son to support me in the future. It is not very comfortable to give money to others. In this case, you can only negotiate and negotiate a lower price for the gift. The marriage still has to be completed. Even if it is a loss, the loss must be reduced.

Of course, if a man wants to know the dowry, it is better not to ask yourself, but ask your girlfriend to ask. Generally speaking, the girl's parents are quite knowledgeable and will tell the amount of the dowry in advance.

Summary:

A dowry of 200,000 is already quite good. As for the dowry, it is the girl's parents' wish. They are really concerned about how much they will accompany her, but they must pay attention to the way they care, so as not to make everyone unhappy when they meet in the future.