I lost my heart, but you are just addicted to ambiguity

You appeared in my world unexpectedly and took away my heart, but not me.

Your smile once warmed my whole world and chilled me for the rest of my life.

Is there such a person in your journey? He suddenly appears in your life and starts to treat you well. He gives you water when you are thirsty and food when you are hungry. He gives you medicine and care when you are sick. He does everything he can. You feel warm, you want to keep it but are more afraid of losing it, you start to feel at a loss, and you instinctively want to refuse. But he pulled you back with his oath of love and gentleness and consideration. You got serious and fell in love with him, and started to get used to his life and his kindness. You wanted to spend the rest of your life, but he ran away in a hurry, leaving you alone to be sad.

My good friend Xiaoya once had a "boyfriend-like," not a boyfriend but similar to a boyfriend. Let’s call the “similar boyfriend” Mr. Z first.

Mr. Z met Xiaoya, a girl from his school who is one year younger than him, at a friend’s gathering and asked for her contact information. After the party, he even took the initiative to send Xiaoya back to the dormitory.

After that, she started chatting with Xiaoya frequently, often making Xiaoya laugh with jokes. Xiaoya was also touched by the timely comfort and relief Xiaoya sent when she was sad. Mr. Z also invites Xiaoya out to eat from time to time and takes care of Xiaoya's preferences. Xiaoya was helpless against Mr. Z's attack, but she started to fall in love with the handsome, gentle and considerate Mr. Z.

When everyone thought the two were together, Mr. Z took no further action. Xiaoya was a little anxious. She thought, since Mr. Z has been taking the initiative for so long, let her take the initiative this time. Xiaoya confessed, but Mr. Z said in a panic, "It's better if we be friends" and hurried away, never to be the same again.

Xiaoya felt sad alone, but she couldn’t understand why Mr. Z was like this. Doesn’t he like me? But if you don’t like it, why do you do so much for me? It wasn't until later that she saw several girls hanging around Mr. Z, but none of them became girlfriends. Xiaoya understood instantly and finally let go

There are some boys who want to enjoy the feeling of being in love. But I don’t want to be bound by love. You thought he was in love, so you were attracted to him, but in fact they were just addicted to ambiguity.

The years are still very long, I hope every girl can be treated tenderly by time, and I hope that when you lose your heart, you will really be in love with you and stay with you for a lifetime.