Motherly love is a responsibility.

On Mother's Day, I also talk about my mother.

In the morning exercise, my best friend told me that she received many blessings on the morning of Mother's Day, but there were no children or husbands.

When I say this, I can see the loneliness of my girlfriends. We have done this many times. Obviously, we have got a lot, but we still can't be really happy. And this unhappiness is not because we are too greedy, but because what we want is not given by the people we care about most.

I have known my best friend for more than 20 years. She is not a greedy person, nor a person with low emotional intelligence, but she is a person who cares more about outsiders' opinions than her own cultivation. In this way, she will always be the most easygoing and forbearing person in the crowd, but she is a little headstrong and strong in the eyes of her family. In her consistent thinking, she is used to the invariable pattern between relatives, to enjoying her husband's love, and to her children growing up in her husband's education.

Today is Mother's Day. I don't want to throw cold water on my best friend when she sees her lonely, but I also want to gently remind her from the perspective of my friend. So, I told her that her mother was a responsibility. If children don't know how to express love, then as mothers, we have the responsibility to remind them that sometimes parents, like children, want to get the attention of others, such as holiday wishes. In addition, I also told my good friend's husband that if he is not used to expressing blessings on holidays, you can let him know in another way that you care more about his blessings on holidays, such as taking the initiative to explain to him or setting an example to express your blessings yourself.

My best friend has repeatedly said that "mother is a responsibility". Finally, I said thoughtfully: I have always felt that my husband and children have low emotional intelligence, so I have always complained about abandoning them. Now I find that the root of all this is my dereliction of duty. I didn't try to guide them. If I am qualified, I will say that they are not good.

I guide my best friend with a smile, so tell your husband now. I want to eat a delicious meal on Mother's Day, and my husband will definitely cook it for you. Also, you can send messages to your children and tell them directly that you want to receive their blessings on Mother's Day. My best friend did as I said. Soon after the news was sent, she received a blessing message from her daughter who was studying in college. At noon, she also ate the food she ordered cooked by her husband.

In the evening, my best friend sent a video about her feelings. She said that she is still older and more and more concerned about the relationship between her relatives. She also said that she regretted wasting too much energy on irrelevant people and neglecting her husband and children. She said that she felt that she was not a good wife and mother. I quickly comforted my best friend. If I hadn't taken detours when I was young, I wouldn't cherish it now. There is no road in vain, every step counts. Finally, I told my best friend that it's never too late as long as we can feel it.

"When I was a teenager, I was just a reliance of my mother. When I was a child, it might just be a blind love for my mother. Only when the sun of life goes to noon, when life has beginning of spring and long summer, can we have a deep understanding and deep love for our mother. "

Mother is actually a kind of time. With the pace of life, when we feel the wrinkles and a wisp of white hair on our mother's forehead, it is sometimes difficult to tell whether our mother is old or our years are old.

As a woman for 50 years, my mother's love and mother's hardship are all in my heart; ? I have been a mother for 27 years, pregnant for one year, and a mother for 28 years. I only know the ups and downs.

How many yellowed memories are mottled in the short life story? In the past years, all kinds of experiences, pains and trivial things I have experienced in the past will always emerge when I look at my mother. It combines all the scene memories of my parents and me, which makes people feel deeply.

I have been doing education and training for more than ten years, and I should deal with my mother the most. The education of children in most families is related to mothers. Even if their mother is away, as long as they talk about their children's education, they will naturally mention their mother. Some people say that a woman can change the fate of a family for three generations. Actually, I quite agree with this sentence. In a family, a woman determines her parents' in-laws' old age, and in the middle determines her husband's life and destiny, and the future and future of her children. Nowadays, there are more and more strong women in society, and there are still differences between strong women's families and traditional families. Either they are happy or tired, and their families can't be really happy.

I am a self-reliant woman at heart. Because of my independence, I am willing to do my best to fulfill my responsibilities as a mother. I don't want to find fault with others in children's education. In my opinion, when children grow up, it is impossible for others to do things that even their mothers can't do. Most successful people can't grow up without their mothers' education. Although the word "mother" here may have many meanings, someone must have paid as much as a mother to make a child successful.

At lunch, my daughter and I talked about our attitude towards life since Mother's Day. I said that the holiday blessing is an attitude and an education. I hope my daughter can pay more attention to this aspect in the future. After all, you will be an adult when you go to work, and others will ask you to be an adult. Finally, I told my daughter that I didn't teach you some things when you were young, but you should say something when you grow up. It is my principle to raise your mother and not teach her. Finally, my daughter expressed her complete agreement with me.

"One Hundred Years of Solitude" wrote: "Parents are the curtain between us and death. There seems to be something between you and death. Your parents are standing among you. When your parents die, you will face these things directly, otherwise the death you see is very abstract. " I always thought: days pass by day, and people are getting old slowly. Actually, it's not. As Haruki Murakami once said, "I always thought that people are getting old slowly, but they are not. People are old in an instant. " Living in this world, there are always too many unexpected losses, too many things go against your wishes, too many things go against your wishes, forcing you to fight against real life, but you have to learn to compromise and passively accept life. Then, try to forget, try to change and try to face it alone.

As mothers, we are responsible for our children's life. It is a guide for children's growth and a shelter for children. As long as parents are still around, everyone can be a child.

As a mother, I don't want to say more about the topic of "maternal love". I am afraid that my thin language desecrates the greatness of "maternal love", and I am afraid that my immature pen can't write one or two "maternal love".

"Mother", what a beautiful word, what a sacred word, and how many heavy words.

Motherhood is a responsibility. Motherhood is a mission. Being a mother is a profession that will never lose its job. Mother is also the first phone call after returning to China. Mother was her lifeline when she was stuck in the mire. Mother is a good medicine after injury. Mother is the harbor where the storm stops. Mom, this is a check that can be withdrawn at any time without asking for anything in return. ...

Just like a song sings: "Give me all your love, give me the whole world, and never know you?" ? Come through thick and thin, I want to be close to you and tell you that I will always understand you ... "A short sentence explains the deep maternal love and is also the deepest gratitude for maternal love.

Today is Mother's Day. I believe everyone will thank his mother in different ways today. There are also many mothers who have received various forms of blessings, but what I want to say is that "maternal love is actually a responsibility."