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Before I sent this article, the bullying incident took a so-called "reversal", and public opinion pointed to the victim's mother.

There are doubts and support. Seeing this, everyone can't tell the truth of the incident. Information changes rapidly. Although the truth is covered up, no matter how sharp the language is, it can't erase the fact that a primary school student was detained with a "shit bowl".

The second small "bullying" incident in Zhongguancun detonated public opinion in the circle of friends for many days.

I don't know what happened to the child whose head was cut off by shit.

Washing your hair with cold water in cold winter is a double humiliation to your body and mind.

The suffering children didn't get the care they deserved, and the so-called "adjustment" between the school and the teacher made a joke on us! I think this incident is not bullying, but an accident.

The child's mother is suffering in pain, and the net biography says, "Every mother and son are friends of life and death, so I want to accompany him to say no to school bullying! In the article, I cried for the unfair treatment my children suffered.

The coming events cast their shadows before them, and the article "Bullying" circulated on the Internet, doubting, accusing, questioning and scolding. Public opinion once again pushed the victimized child to the forefront.

Repeated incidents did not draw attention to the school bullying incident. The last thing everyone remembers is the poor child with the "toilet". Perhaps, this "stain" mark will affect his life.

Since the pain is irreparable, who will soothe the young soul? !

We used to be this injured child. When we are treated unfairly, most children dare not or never report the situation to their parents. Even if they did, they were only severely reprimanded by their parents.

The teacher's inaction is even more chilling, turning a blind eye and taking it for granted. The adjustment of the school will always be resignation and resignation.

It seems that being bullied is so normal and indifferent.

If the child in the second incident in Zhongguancun was not locked in the so-called "excrement basin" but was splashed with a glass of water, then his parents might not have such a fierce reaction.

Then this school bullying incident will be nipped in the bud by "internal digestion". If the incident is exposed, it often spreads widely, the circumstances are serious and even causes extremely bad consequences.

20 10 A 15-year-old girl from a public high school in a small town in Massachusetts, USA, hanged herself in the stairwell of her apartment after school because she didn't want to endure bullying from her classmates. Feifei went to the school office and said that she couldn't stand being insulted. Her mother also told the school that the child was bullied and the school did not pursue it.

The wanton bullying of classmates and the neglect and inaction of the school eventually crushed the girl's last spiritual pillar and chose to commit suicide.

Tao Moumou is a junior high school student in Huzhu County, Haidong City, Qinghai Province. On Children's Day, at the age of 15, he chose to commit suicide and ended his life, leaving only a few bloody suicide notes. In the suicide note, he told the details of his long-term bullying by his classmates: washing lunch boxes, pouring water on his feet, and beating. Because he couldn't stand bullying and humiliation any longer, he chose to commit suicide.

Faced with school violence, these underage victims are usually unbearable and don't know how to solve it correctly. If you choose the wrong solution pessimistically, the consequences are often very serious.

A new study published in the American Journal of Psychiatry found that the effects of bullying in childhood may last from adolescence and youth to middle age. Whether they are bullied occasionally or often, these children will encounter greater psychological troubles at the age of 23 and 50. In addition, children who are often bullied in childhood are at greater risk of depression, anxiety and suicide at the age of 45, and their cognitive function will be poor at the age of 50. After the age of 50, they are more likely to face unemployment and live on subsistence allowances. In other words, the psychological and cognitive effects of bullying will continue to affect their lives after 40 years.

Most people have experienced campus violence, ranging from simple violence, such as swearing, criticizing, teasing and isolation, to many innovative bullying methods, such as online rumors and threats. Studies show that those who were involved in serious bullying in childhood have a much higher proportion of crimes in prison as adults than the general population, regardless of whether they are bullies or bullied.

If the physical pain can be easily brushed away, how can the mental damage be healed? The negative effects they encounter on the road of growth are likely to cause their loss of personality when they grow up, affect their later lives and even embark on the road of crime.

Adolescent children are a blank sheet of paper and can't bear the trauma caused by bullying. Once branded with inferiority and sadness, they may have a painful ending.

If bullying is inevitable, if parents still hold the attitude of minimizing major issues and minimizing minor issues, it is really sad to the extreme.

The mother of the victim of Zhongguancun No.2 Primary School posted on the Internet, saying, "Every mother and son are friends of life and death. I want to accompany him to say no to school bullying! Many paragraphs describe the reaction of the school and parents after the incident.

What if something happens to you? What would you do?

Turn a blind eye: "It is normal for children to fight with each other. How can they grow up without stumbling?"

Choose to escape: "If you don't provoke him, how can he bully you?" Just avoid him in the future. "

Choose forbearance: "Mom/Dad will go to school tomorrow and ask him to apologize to you. We will get along well in the future! " "

If you have done anything, it is to sprinkle salt on the child's wound and blatantly tell others that my child can bully at will! It encourages the arrogance of the perpetrators, and your child's closest relatives become "helpers"!

Don't let your child be hurt twice by his family!

In junior high school, some boys will "surround" their female classmates on the way after school and make some jokes about "neither light nor heavy", such as making friends and asking for contact information. Once a girl resists, she will be bullied and abused by a group of boys. I never thought that one day I would be treated like this. A group of rebellious boys are riding bicycles and laughing and shouting at the back. They didn't expect that this cowardly girl in front of me dared to run away. I try my best to pedal my bike. The original half-hour journey took only 13 minutes. I hid in front of my neighbor's house, panting, afraid to let them know my address.

I told my family about the situation, but they seriously warned me: "Don't leave school with these gangsters and don't provoke them!" Did you hear it or not? "

Can I escape bullying without provoking them? Can I hide and study quietly? That's ridiculous!

If it is really hurt in essence, are parents willing to come forward to stop it? ! I dare not think about how those people spend their time on the way after school. I am afraid to avoid meeting each other every day until these "bad kids" graduate, so I can rest assured!

Some parents always think that I am not guilty! But you forget, this is a child's world!

Children's morality needs correct guidance, not arbitrary indulgence!

Seeking self-protection in an evasive manner is just deceiving yourself.

Today your child is a bystander, tomorrow he may be a victim, a bully follower, or even a bully executor!

Parents are children's closest confidants and trustworthy backers. We are all experienced people. Don't repeat the bad things that happened to yourself to the next generation.

Maybe we can't put an end to bullying on campus, but we can try our best to avoid bullying causing more serious tragedies. A single spark can start a prairie fire, and children's anger and anxiety need to be properly appeased, not suppressed blindly!