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A handful of shit and a handful of urine. If a person is both a father and a mother, it shows that his life is under great pressure. He can't count on others, he can only support this family by himself. A handful of shit and a handful of urine. This sentence is because of special reasons, children need to be raised unilaterally by one person, either father or mother, and both parents have it. One person has worked hard to feed the children one by one. It is not easy for a person to get busy, and it is difficult to describe this person.