My son always says he is stupid. How can he be confident?

In the process of children's growth, many parents have met "stupid children" who think they are not good enough. Compared with others, they feel inferior to others, feel stupid, always say "I don't know" when encountering things, and are ashamed to express their views. When children are not as happy as others because of small things, when children are laughed at by other friends, and when children are afraid of making a fool of themselves, as parents, they also need some skills to learn to enlighten and encourage their children and make them confident.

To get children out of the psychological shadow of "I am stupid", as parents, we must prove it to our children with some facts. In fact, he is also very smart. At his age, EQ is still relatively high. You usually take him to play. If an uncle and aunt praises him, you should say to him, "Look, these smart people like uncles and aunts praise you like this, which shows that you are really smart, right?" More and more people say that he is smart and kind, and he will naturally believe it.

In addition, it is necessary to find out why his classmates call him stupid. What makes him feel stupid? Let him talk about his views seriously and help him analyze the motives behind his classmates' behavior. Children's performance in school can also be learned from teachers, so that teachers can objectively analyze the position of children among their peers, and what are their shortcomings and advantages. This kind of analysis helps parents to help their children out of their inner predicament and understand the direction of their efforts.