A child is like a blank sheet of paper, which needs the guidance and education of parents.

When my little nephew was very young, he walked unsteadily. At that time, my husband was still his boyfriend and went to play at home on holiday, just as my sister and nephew were at home. We were busy cooking, so I suggested my husband take my little nephew out to play, go to the supermarket or something, and then they went out together. After a long time, after they came back, the husband said that he wanted to buy delicious food and fun for his little nephew in the supermarket, and asked him to choose more. The little nephew said, uncle, I only have one, so I don't need to buy so many. I am proud that my little nephew is considerate, not greedy, and knows how to be content.

I remember that on the eve of my wedding, everyone was peeling oranges to eat, so I teased my little nephew that my aunt didn't like peeling, and then my little nephew peeled one for me and handed it to me, and then he peeled one himself. My heart is so touched. My little nephew, who is only over three weeks old, is so patient and considerate.

Yesterday, my sister and I made a video. Now my little nephew is almost eight years old. My sister and I talked a lot about my little nephew, which had both advantages and disadvantages. Let's start with bad habits. First, my nephew is a little delayed in doing his homework during the holiday. My sister sometimes says it many times, and my nephew says to do it later and put it off. Secondly, my nephew always likes to stick to his sister when she is free, and her sister feels very unhappy.

I said about the first question, it should be that I didn't develop good habits and lacked self-discipline, which caused procrastination. The second question is, is it because children are too busy and give little companionship when they are young, so children feel insecure and like to stick to adults? My elder sister said that this may be the case, but she felt that she still gave her little nephew good company before she was three years old, but after going to kindergarten, she was less busy with her work.

Later, I talked about the better side of my little nephew, and several things touched me greatly.

These ideas of my little nephew have a lot to do with my usual education as my sister and brother-in-law. My sister and brother-in-law often say to my little nephew: If you need anything, look for mom and dad, not grandpa. Grandpa is old and it is difficult to make money. Over time, the little nephew remembered that he had never thought of taking a dime from his grandfather. If everyone had this idea and knew that it was not easy for the elderly to earn money, there would not be so many neets. Nowadays, many young people don't want to live a good life by themselves, but always want to plunder money from their previous lives.

In the past, my mother-in-law took care of her children with her sister-in-law. My mother-in-law often tells me how she is willing to give up her grandson. Go to the supermarket to buy a bunch of food and play, as long as the little nephew likes it, she will buy it, and sometimes she can't take more. She was asked, is this your grandson? You are so willing to buy it for him that the average grandmother is not willing to buy so much for her grandson. My mother-in-law was very proud and said that I would like to buy it for my grandson. In fact, you can only laugh after hearing it, and you don't agree with her at all. Your love for your grandson should not be doting, but guiding and educating him from life, teaching him some truth and forming good habits.

Once when I went back, my little nephew threw rubbish everywhere and his schoolbag was in a mess. I taught him to throw garbage into the trash can, keep his home clean, and put his schoolbag in order to find things conveniently. My little nephew is actually quite sensible. If you teach him, he will change slowly. One day, he put all the toys thrown at home into a box, and his home was much cleaner. In fact, I am thinking that it is more important for my mother-in-law to cultivate her little nephew's good habits in these small things than to spoil her materially.

I don't have children myself, and I have no experience with the coming baby, so I need to keep learning and grow up with the future baby. I talked a lot with my sister yesterday. My sister says it's not that easy to take care of children. You will understand later. I just expressed my opinion from my own cognition. I will read more parenting books and learn some parenting knowledge in the future. No matter how difficult it is, I will give my baby a wonderful childhood and form good habits.