Banquets in rural areas are becoming less and less "human". Why? Four reasons make people helpless.

Decades ago, for rural people, rural catering was one of the most lively things, which brought a lot of fun to the plain life.

People who cater generally have big happy events, such as children getting married.

At this time, relatives and friends will get together for dinner and celebrate warmly, just like a family.

However, in recent years, rural banquets have become more and more impersonal. When people arrive at the banquet, they all eat in a hurry and leave, and some of them are still unfamiliar with relatives and friends.

The old people in the village are all over 60 years old this year. They have seen both the most prosperous rural banquets and the most desolate rural banquets.

The old man bluntly said that this situation is mainly due to the following four helpless reasons.

Drink without driving, drive without drinking.

Nowadays, drinking without driving and driving without drinking have become the most basic default rules for people to get along.

With people's living conditions getting better and better, many people drive when they travel, so they refuse to drink at the wine table.

But for rural banquets, drinking is lively, and not drinking is naturally less human.

In fact, you can't blame the guests for deliberately not drinking.

Some guests drove from afar just to celebrate their host. They choose to drive because it is more convenient to get from the city to the countryside. But after attending the banquet in the countryside, I have to go back to work in the city, not because I don't drink, so I can't drink.

The excitement of rural banquets has been carried out on the wine table since ancient times. Although drinking less, although the host and guests are still chatting happily, they always feel less human.

After a long time, drinking without driving has become an excuse for many people not to drink.

Young people are busy with work and have no time to attend the party.

Compared with cities, the economic conditions in rural areas are relatively backward. In order to have better living conditions, many young people go to cities to work, and some even leave their homes to go to first-tier cities such as Beishangguang.

Although this choice brings you better material conditions, it also makes you far away from home and unable to attend banquets from the countryside.

At the rural banquet decades ago, relatives and friends were busy, and old people, young people and children sat together. We introduced each other and chatted about our lives.

However, due to the study of young people, there are almost only old people and children at rural banquets now, which is much less than before, and naturally it is depressed.

In addition, most of the left-behind elderly people in rural areas are elderly people. Not only are their legs and feet inconvenient to move, but they are also weak when they speak because of their poor mental state, so they are inevitably less enthusiastic when they speak.

Primary school students have to go to school, so it is difficult to go to the party as scheduled. As a result, there are fewer and fewer people at rural banquets, and naturally it is not as lively as before.

The banquet has changed, making money for the banquet.

Decades ago, people's living standards were generally low, so unless there was a big happy event at home, they would not take the initiative to hold a banquet.

But in recent years, people's living conditions are getting better and better, and the number of banquets is increasing.

Because attending banquets requires money, some people feel that they have too much money, so they want to hold more banquets to earn the money back.

As a result, some people get married and hold banquets, divorce and hold banquets, have children and hold banquets on birthdays. For relatives and friends, if the host holds a banquet, it seems inappropriate for them not to attend.

But if there are too many banquets, you will naturally feel bored, so you naturally don't want to attend the banquet.

Money is getting higher and higher, and life pressure is too great.

Although people's living conditions are getting better and better now, their money is getting higher and higher.

Decades ago, the original intention of holding banquets in rural areas was to celebrate the happy events at home. Guests only need to bring a bag of sugar or eggs.

However, most of the money for attending rural banquets now is 3,500 yuan, and some even12,000 yuan.

If it is only for one person, the financial pressure is not too great, but everyone will have many relatives and friends, and the monthly expenses of many rural banquets add up to a lot.

Especially during the Chinese New Year, many families began to hold banquets, and the money paid during the Chinese New Year caught up with the salary of several months.

People naturally don't want to go to the banquet in the countryside because of their face, so they feel uncomfortable because of the money, and they can't be enthusiastic at the banquet.

In a word, rural banquets have changed a lot compared with decades ago, and the human touch is getting weaker and weaker.

How to treat this phenomenon?