What does it mean to "slap a sweet jujube to eat"?

Is to slap you and give you a sweet jujube. The deeper meaning is that after hurting some of your interests, it will in turn give you some benefits. This is a way of management and a means of education.

First, the application in management.

It's good to slap a sweet date to repair the feelings between superiors and subordinates and make subordinates forget bad leaders. For the simplest example, the boss criticized you in front of all the pages of the company and said a lot of mistakes, but at the end, he would add the following sentence: "However, this employee has a good starting point and is kind enough to do bad things." He usually works very hard and is worth learning. " The purpose is to warn you, but not to make you bear a grudge against him. This is a sweet date that takes two to make a sound.

Second, the application in education.

But when the child is disobedient and goes too far, you can slap him a few times and buy him something delicious or fun when his mood is stable. This is the application of "slapping sweet dates".

The advantages of this are:

First, it is easy for children to realize their mistakes after slapping, and they are determined not to make mistakes again and to correct them. If you slap in the face and give sweet dates, children will soon forget the cause and pain of slapping and lose the meaning of slapping.

The second slap is to let the children know, remember and correct their mistakes. But after slapping, sweet jujube was quickly given a fake smile, and the children soon forgot the reason for slapping, thus losing the meaning of slapping.

Generally speaking, "taking a sweet jujube" is a positive encouragement, which implies that you forgot to take a sweet jujube.