What do children want, parents don't give it, how can they refuse?

Parents should keep their tone simple, try to divert their children's attention and don't ignore it. Children always have various requirements for their parents, such as wanting to go out with friends for a while, wanting a toy and so on. How can parents refuse their children's demands without hurting them? Actually, there is a university problem.

First, don't make a long speech.

Children will be depressed after being rejected. Parents' long speeches at this time are tantamount to adding insult to injury to their children. Children will not only not listen, but also lead to more depression and even rebellious psychology. Therefore, parents must be as concise as possible when expressing, and don't say too much. It's best to hit the nail on the head and tell the reason for refusing the child so that the child can understand.

Second, divert attention.

Parents can try to divert their children's attention after rejecting them, and don't always judge them by the standards of adults. For example, if the child wants to eat ice cream, parents can give the child other snacks, so that the child will not be too lost and can get out of the entanglement as soon as possible.

Third, don't ignore it.

Of course, parents should have their own principles, but they must never ignore their children. It is normal for children to cry after being rejected. If parents ignore their children at this time, it will only make them feel insecure. Parents had better keep a gentle attitude, try their best to help their children clear their emotions and let them express their inner thoughts, but even so, they should stick to their principles and not compromise casually.

Parents should pay attention to the tone of rejecting their children, and should not be too strict, condescending or arrogant, which will hurt their children's psychology. Some parents may regard their children's love for themselves as a threat and say, "I won't love you if you don't listen", which will make children please their parents and is not conducive to their mental health and parent-child relationship.