Rural people explain why they prefer boys to girls.

In a word, men are the main labor force in rural areas, a bachelor can live alone, and a widow must have a lot of troubles in front of her door, because she wants to live, and life cannot be separated from men! 2. Daughters seldom take care of their parents. The care here is not to give money, but to take care of their parents' food and drink. Many people think that a son is not filial to his parents, but in fact he has been ill for a long time and has no filial son. Because parents often live with their sons, there will definitely be a series of contradictions. Daughters, on the other hand, live in different places with their parents. They go back to their parents' home several times throughout the year, and the son is really taken care of before going to bed. Daughters have the reputation of filial piety because they don't take care of their parents for a long time, but take care of them occasionally, because there are fewer times to take care of them and fewer chances to make mistakes! 3. Carry on the family line. This is a matter of blood, and I think many people are still willing to carry on the family line! 4. Gossip. A childless family will be subjected to gossip from all directions, and sometimes he will consciously enlarge this gossip. Two wang xing families in our village, Wang Xiangsheng and Wang Maosheng, cousins, Wang Maosheng's daughter-in-law gave birth to two daughters in the first two births, and the third child was a daughter, which was kept by others, and finally gave birth to a son two years ago; Wang Xiangsheng's daughter-in-law gave birth to her daughter twice before and gave up. It was her daughter-in-law who gave up, not her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law couldn't beat her daughter-in-law, so she gave up! As for whether I really give up, I can't say clearly now. Because of this thing, I was originally a cousin, but now because one has a son and the other has no son, the relationship between the two families is very stiff. 5. In the final analysis, son preference is a man and a woman. In fact, many families are willing to have one son and one daughter. In our village and its vicinity, many have given birth to sons and daughters several years later. Yu Lijun's family, the son married his daughter-in-law at the age of 19 last year (the daughter-in-law is a single family, and the mother is a foreigner who ran away) and gave birth to a daughter. The year before last, Yu Lijun's daughter-in-law gave birth to a daughter, which means that the daughter is only one year older than her granddaughter. My elder sister-in-law's son, his daughter-in-law also gave birth to a daughter when his son was in his twenties a few years ago. If you know the countryside, you will know that many people are willing to have a daughter, provided that the son must have one! 6. The son is one of our own and the daughter is an outsider. If the daughter puts herself in her shoes, will her parents be her own after she gets married? I'm so touched by this. After my daughter gets married, he will soon become a husband's family rather than her family! 7, the son can honor his ancestors, and the daughter can only be rich if she wants to honor her ancestors! This may not be all the facts, but at least it is most of them. Another reason is that families without sons are easily bullied by others, because families without sons are generally richer, with little expenses, and relatively rich. In this world, there are not only people who hate the rich in gossip, but also people who hate the rich in rural areas. If you have no son and you are old, you will definitely be bullied. My third uncle was beaten away by the villagers a few years ago because of several generations of single biography. It was a mountainous area, and a son was not enough. He was only beaten, especially because my third uncle earned a lot of money in the coal mine in the last ten years, which made others jealous. In fact, my third uncle is unlucky enough. After my son married his daughter-in-law, his daughter-in-law was born sterile and married for ten years. There was nothing. After drinking a few years ago, my third uncle scolded his daughter-in-law, "What do you want to do with this blowjob (a woman who doesn't have children)? If you marry a daughter-in-law, I will buy a portrait of Song Zu Ying and put it on the wall, which is much better than you." In short, the old couple earnestly discussed with their son. Not having grandchildren has always been a heart disease for the old couple, and millions of dollars earned by coal mines are going moldy! In fact, there are many hidden rules in rural areas, which are an invisible frame. Because you are weak, you must abide by them. Now that we have talked about the problem of having boys and girls, we might as well talk about the problem of not having children. This is the most deadly thing. I don't know much about men who don't have children, but there are two kinds of women who don't have children. One is congenital infertility, and the other is acquired indulgence that leads to infertility.