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No matter how easy-to-talk a person is, when interacting with others, you must be tough on the following things:

As a human being, sometimes moderate patience is the way to live in the world.

But no matter how easy it is to talk, one must not be weak in the following matters.

First, when you encounter scoundrels and your bottom line is challenged, you must be strong.

In life, there will always be people who will take advantage of your "easiness to get along" for their own benefit and constantly test your bottom line.

But there are no rules without rules, and there is no way to be a human being without a bottom line.

I once read a fable:

On a cold winter night, a man was resting in a warm tent.

The camel standing outside hoped that the owner would allow it to put its head in to warm it up, and he agreed to the camel's request.

Not long after, the camel asked again to put its neck, front legs, and half of its body into the tent, and he agreed.

Relying on the owner's kindness and talkativeness, the camel pushed even further, and finally stuffed his whole body into the tent, but squeezed the owner out of the tent, enjoying the warmth alone.

Some people say: "Any relationship can nourish you or consume you."

Indeed, everyone needs to have a bottom line in mind and don't become submissive just because you are soft-hearted. , while helping others, please ensure that you are not harmed.

As a person, you must have your own principles and bottom line.

When one's own principles are violated, only by boldly safeguarding one's rights and expressing one's anger can the other party restrain themselves.

If you allow others to exceed your own bottom line, you will eventually have no bottom to defend.

Second, you must be tough when you meet your opponents on a narrow road and your interests are harmed.

Su Cen said: "Being a cruel person does not mean that you are not kind, but that you know how to make decisions at critical moments."

Meet a man who started his career at a young age He is successful and has a good reputation.

But there is a shortcoming, that is, he speaks more straightforwardly and does not know how to coax girls, so he has not gotten married yet.

When he was thirty years old, his aunt introduced him to his daughter’s classmate. The girl was lively, optimistic and cheerful, and he liked her deeply.

When a man falls in love for the first time, he takes great care of his girlfriend and obeys her words.

When discussing marriage, the girl’s parents asked for a gift of 100,000 yuan and the girl’s name on the wedding room. The man readily agreed.

Unexpectedly, less than three days after the bride price was given, my girlfriend asked for an additional 50,000 yuan.

Although the man was dissatisfied, he remembered that his colleague had asked for more than 200,000 yuan as a gift when he got married. His girlfriend really didn’t ask for much, so he gave another 50,000 yuan.

After getting married, the woman became pregnant soon after. The man asked her to raise the baby at home and gave her salary card to his wife.

One time when a man came home from get off work, his brother-in-law was also there. As soon as he walked in, the brother-in-law said thank you. Later he found out that his wife bought his brother-in-law a laptop worth 7,000 yuan in his name.

The man was very unhappy because before, his wife had already helped her mother-in-law’s family enough. Less than two years after the marriage, her mother-in-law’s family provided everything from household appliances to food, clothing, and clothing. The wife openly and secretly subsidized A lot.

But when faced with her husband’s questioning, the woman cried and fussed: “My parents worked hard to raise me, marry you, and have children for you. Why don’t I spend some money on them? Should I?"

The man couldn't stand it and had to give up.

When the child was three years old, the man's father suddenly became seriously ill and needed surgery.

He estimated that he should have saved at least more than 200,000 yuan over the years, which was more than enough for the surgery. However, in the end, there was less than 20,000 yuan in the card.

Under repeated questioning by the man, the wife cried and said: "My mother called me three months ago. My brother was getting married and my sister-in-law was pregnant. I had to buy a wedding room without permission. I made the decision and helped my brother pay the down payment for the wedding house.”

The man suddenly lost control of his emotions. Regardless of his wife’s pleading, he found his wife’s parents’ family and asked them to pay back the money within the specified time, otherwise he would pass the law. Ways to solve.

The man is also determined to divorce his wife.

As a human being, you should be soft-spoken and hard-working.

Kindness without a bottom line is the greatest cruelty to oneself.

At critical moments, be a person not to be trifled with.

Because a person with character is often more likely to win the respect of others than a person without character.

Third, when facing arrogant and arrogant people and their dignity is being trampled on, you must be firm.

People can live without money, but they must have dignity.

There was a penniless young man who played the piano on a busy street and attracted the attention of many people.

He had not eaten for several days, so he picked up the piano case, and the onlookers paid for it and put it in the piano case.

At this time, a rogue threw the money at the young man's feet. The young man paused, picked up the money on the ground and said, "Sir, your money fell on the ground."

With a look of disdain on his face, the rogue took the money from the young man's hand, threw it again at his feet, and said arrogantly: "This money is already yours."

The young man felt deeply for the young man. He bowed and said: "Sir, thank you for your support. You dropped your money just now and I bent down to pick it up for you. Now my money has also fallen to the ground. Please pick it up for me too!"

In the end, the gangster had no choice but to pick up the money on the ground and put it into the young man's piano case, and then ran away in despair.

To be a human being, you must not only insist on kindness, but also distinguish between love and hate and refuse to be harmed.

You can be a good person, but you can't be too good. Only by being tougher when necessary can others respect you.

***Mian!