Have a bad relationship with my sister-in-law

First of all, your brother has gone a little too far. Because now the identity is different, there is one more person.

Your brother really can't neglect your sister-in-law. After all, your sister-in-law has not experienced your brother's experience, so it is normal for a woman and a wife to have that idea.

Then you are wrong. Although they are brothers, the feelings between people are very subtle. Of course, your relationship with your brother remains the same as before. But you also forgot that you have a sister-in-law now. Married couples are very sensitive to their own space. But you are the same as before, so your sister-in-law will be jealous and feel that their lives are disturbed.

Third, your sister-in-law is also at fault. Brotherhood and marriage and love can't be compared. Besides, she should know your brother's life and understand you better. Now that you are married to your brother, you and she should take care of her like your own brother. Think about it, the two brothers' childhood experiences are all like this, and their feelings are good and understandable. Why should they care about such a thing?

Don't be tired. Since you asked this question. I have to review myself.

Then find your sister-in-law sometime. Speak your mind. Besides, ask your brother out sometime and explain your thoughts.

That's how people feel. How deep the past is, there will always be results one day. Emotions are complex and changeable.

You should also understand how your brother feels. My biological brother and wife who have lived together for many years. He didn't want to get angry with any of them. Family members need more understanding and consideration.