A sister borrows money from her sister, and her sister is obsessed with whether to lend it to her or not.

My sister said that my sister helped her take care of her children for several months, and she didn't need money at that time. Later, my sister said that my brother-in-law needed money and wanted to borrow more than 200 thousand from her sister. My sister asked the netizen if she wanted to lend her money.

The following is my answer, please help me to see if it is right:

When your sister borrows money from you, she borrows money. Don't involve raising children, because what kind of person is your sister, a mother's sister? You always know what you are doing.

As for whether to lend him money? That depends on the couple's usual personality and whether the money is used in a reliable place, because the money borrowed by your sister is not a small amount, so be careful.

Of course, it depends on the financial situation of your own family and your husband's attitude. It is not good to have conflicts in your heart because you borrow money.

Although there are many examples of brothers and sisters turning against each other because of borrowing money in life, not all of them are like this. This requires you to judge for yourself whether your sister and brother-in-law are the kind of people who deserve help.

Sometimes we don't always stare at the pessimistic side of things, thinking that as long as it has something to do with money, it's not clear. In fact, there are still many grateful people. After all, my sister is related to you by blood, so if you think you can help him, try to give him a hand, even if you don't lend him the amount he wants, it's much better than indifference.

Don't let your sister take care of your children for free. Now, in turn, I ask you to lend me 280 thousand for reference, so that everyone will only imagine your sister as a person full of scheming and tricks, and it will also affect your own judgment.

Again, consider the usual personality of both husband and wife before making a decision. Borrow if you can, and there is no reason to refuse.

Thank you very much for reading. Do you think my answer is correct?