Why don't I like sending greetings in groups?

On New Year's Eve, everyone's WeChat will definitely receive many blessings. A discerning person knows at a glance that this is a message that is simply copied and then forwarded with his finger. It seems that all the blessings are elegant. Why am I so disgusted and too lazy to care about them? It is because these blessings are too simple, too easy and too casual that we were surprised when we received them several times before, and more of them turned into garbage dumps later.

I don't like this kind of blessing message. Even if it is sent by a close friend, I will reply a few simple words of blessing myself. Even if there is only one simple word "Happy New Year", it is very simple and relaxed. At least, I typed it with my fingers, not randomly. It represents my sincere blessing. Maybe just three words will make the other party feel lost. But for a true friend, he will understand you and won't mind.

Many people just take the opportunity of mass blessing to test whether the other party has deleted friends. For people who haven't been in contact for many years but have stayed in the address book for half a year, if they send a clear powder link alone on weekdays, they will definitely be despised by the other party, and the New Year just gives themselves a justified opportunity to find out the answer by sending blessings.

Some people simply think that they see a good blessing message in the group. For example, they have all kinds of shapes and ideas. They collect it when they think it's funny, and then they want to share it with their relatives and friends. It's a bit like they got a fun toy when they were young and wanted other friends to watch it.

Some people are simpler, omitting the steps of copying, pasting and forwarding, directly simplifying the three steps into one step, collecting or making a New Year expression pack, clicking on everyone's message interface and sending it with one click, which saves time and effort. I often encounter a lot of emoticons crashing. However, some people should be creative, such as using their own photos to make expression packs, doing funny actions and adding a few words of blessing. Although it is also a one-click delivery, it is still very attentive. For this kind of blessing, I always reply at the first time, because the other party is very attentive, and I also hope that after receiving the other party's blessing, I can convey my blessing in the shortest time.

This is a bit like what I mentioned in my previous article. The excessive use of mobile phones reduces the temperature of the two people in front of the screen. There are many people who don't contact often on weekdays. After looking through the chat records, they found that the last communication turned out to be last year's Spring Festival blessing information.