Why don't women do housework?

If only one woman in a family cooks, cleans and tries to clean every day, it will inevitably lead to conflicts in various families after a long time.

But what happens if a man marries a woman who doesn't do housework? Do men let the woman only take care of her beauty, or do they want her to take care of herself?

I selected these five representative men from hundreds of men I interviewed. Let's listen to what they said.

1 Mr. Huang, 27 years old, construction worker, married for 3 years.

Women don't do housework? You don't say! My wife takes care of the children at home. I work on the construction site every day. When I get home, I can't eat a hot meal or drink a mouthful of hot water. Wouldn't it be better if I worked hard to make money?

The house is in a mess? Definitely not. My wife is very diligent, and she does all the big and small jobs at home. When I got home, the food was already on the table. Sometimes, my wife will cook two snacks and prepare a small wine for me.

The kind of woman who gets married and does nothing at home. Do you think I can be happy when I come home after a hard day's work outside and look at home as dirty as a pigsty? I'm not worshipping a fairy, so she'd better not step on my door.

Mr. Zhang, 32, a civil servant, has been married for 2 years.

In our family, both men and women have to do housework. Why? Because we both have to work. When we come home from work, we can't just lie there doing nothing and keep each other busy.

Tell me about us, my only son and her only daughter. In fact, we don't do any housework before we get married, but what can we do? We got married and started our own family. There can't be a mess at home.

My daughter-in-law is fine She often learns cooking from the Internet. Although the taste is average, I must praise her. She also learned to do housework for me. Besides, I cook less, so I have to wash the dishes after dinner. As for cleaning, cleaning, let's do it together. As the saying goes, men and women are not tired of working together.

You mean marry a woman who doesn't do housework? Then forget it. If you marry a daughter-in-law, you should live together, not play house. If you are uncomfortable, I can do more. It doesn't matter, but if you marry me on the condition that you never do housework, I will definitely say "no".

3 Mr. Feng, 46 years old, owner of private enterprise, married 18 years.

Women don't do housework? Few women of our age don't do housework. My wife is very virtuous and has been taking care of this family for so many years.

I started my business when I was young, and she took care of the rear. Now people reach middle age, and the conditions are excellent. Cleaning the house and cooking are all done by the nanny, but the wife can't bear it. When she has time, she keeps the garden beautifully.

There are many guests in my family. Whenever guests come, they will praise my wife when they leave, saying that she manages the house beautifully and elegantly. Speaking of which, many customers decided to cooperate with me after they came to my home. They think that the family is harmonious, the wife is gentle and virtuous, and the home is bright and clean. Doing business with such people can't be wrong.

What if you marry a woman who can't do housework? I can't imagine this, but I know in my heart that it is definitely impossible for such a woman to lay down this country with me.

Mr. Cheng, 26, a company employee, got married 1 year.

My wife just doesn't do housework, and I have a headache for it, but what can I do? I really regret that I promised her "no housework" before I got married. Now whenever I mention cooking, she says "pause" to me. I talked too much, and she said that if I broke my word, she had the right to divorce.

Actually, I didn't ask her to do all the contracting work. She can help me with the housework or something, or she can always wash the dishes after dinner.

However, not at all. Cooking, she said to be a yellow-faced woman and wash dishes. She said it was bad for her skin. Cleaning, she said her back hurts.

Well, I can't help it. I can't love her. However, this is not a long way to go. My job is very hard. I still have a lot of housework to do after I come back. Sometimes you can only order takeout. If my mother-in-law knew this, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would have collapsed.

Alas! Maybe after giving birth, she will change, who knows. I really envy those colleagues who have married virtuous wives. But my wife seems to have no other shortcomings except doing housework.

Mr. Tian, 42, is a leader of a public institution. He was married 15 years.

Doing housework? Oh, there is no obstacle to this problem in our family. My wife and I have good family conditions. When we got married, there was always a nanny at home. This is also a question of the nature of our work. We are all very busy and travel a lot. Doing housework occasionally is a way to adjust our life, but we certainly don't have time to do it often.

My wife is busier than me, but occasionally she cooks and cooks two side dishes at home. Seriously, it doesn't matter whether she can do housework or not. I really didn't think about it.

No one stipulates that in marriage, housework must be done by men or women. For lovers, marriage is the marriage of two people, and home is the home of two people.

As for who does housework in marriage, we can only say who has more time and who may do more. But for those who just want to enjoy success and are unwilling to make a little effort, it will only lead to many problems in marriage.