"I hate my parents-in-law, so rich, I would rather invest in buying a house than lend money to my mother for treatment." what do you think?

Lu Yao said in "Ordinary World": "Yes, when we were young, we often regarded" relatives "as beautiful and important. Once we grow up and start living independently, we will soon know that family ties are often vulgar; Try to touch each other and roll your eyes without touching the light; Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives; Life will also tell you that relatives are often not as sincere as friends. "

Fight rice to raise kindness, bear rice to raise hatred.

A snake swallowed an elephant because it lacked the heart. What our ancestors said is sometimes quite reasonable. Only by seeing human nature thoroughly can we draw a popular saying.

The more a person gets, the less grateful he is and the more he feels taken for granted. It seems that people all over the world owe him and should share his pain. Even if this person's relationship with him is only in-laws.

Colleague Lao Li is young, in his thirties, less than forty years old. Because everyone knows him well, he is affectionately called Lao Li.

We often have dinner and get together, and when we are ripe, we will talk about ourselves and others.

We all live in other people's mouths, which is a fact that can't be changed for a lifetime.

Nobody talks behind anyone's back, and nobody talks behind anyone's back.

02.

Lao Li once, after drinking a few glasses of wine, began to complain: "I hate my parents-in-law, so rich, I would rather invest in buying a house than lend money to my mother for treatment."

We knew him well and advised him not to drink any more, but he wouldn't listen. We couldn't stop him, so he started talking.

A while ago, his mother suddenly became seriously ill, and Lao Li took a long leave to take care of him. We take turns sharing his work.

The doctor diagnosed his mother's illness as terminal liver cancer, and even with surgery, the chances of survival were not high.

Lao Li is a famous dutiful son. He spent all his savings to save his mother. All the expenses of the family and raising children are borne by his wife, and he also borrowed foreign debts.

Lao Li and his wife have worked hard together for many years. With the support of their parents-in-law, they saved enough down payment to buy a house without paying it back. The money earned in these two years, except for family expenses and mortgage payment, is used to pay off foreign debts, and there is almost nothing left.

It was raining all night, and my mother suddenly became seriously ill, which undoubtedly added insult to injury.

Seeing her daughter's affection, her parents-in-law gave Lao Li 20,000 yuan to help him tide over the difficulties.

But Lao Li's mother is still not well, and she is willing to pay any money if she asks the doctor to work harder. Lao Li borrows money everywhere, and her classmates, friends and in-laws are all within his help.

03.

My parents-in-law think that I have supported 20,000 yuan. Even if we are relatives, we will try our best.

Moreover, they happen to be optimistic about a house, ready to buy it for investment, rent it out or resell it, all for the sake of providing for the elderly in the future.

Such a move touched Lao Li. He thinks I'm in trouble now. My parents-in-law are so rich, but they are so indifferent from the ruins, and they have spare money to buy a house. It's chilling.

So I complained and quarreled with my wife at home.

His wife scolded him: "My parents can spend whatever they want. Don't say that you, even I, are not qualified to influence their decision. Adults, can you grow up? " Besides, I already gave you 20 thousand, and I didn't ask you to pay it back "

Lao Li felt that his wife was partial to his parents-in-law: "They are your parents. You must have spoken for them. Let me ask you, if your parents were sick today, would you still say so? "

His wife replied, "A yard is worth a yard. If my parents are sick, as a child, I have the responsibility to contribute and you have the responsibility to help. But if your parents want to borrow it, they won't, and others can't force it. You have nothing to complain about. "

Lao Li complains that his wife and parents-in-law are heartless, and rich people are misers.

04.

Not long after, Lao Li's mother died of illness.

Lao Li wept bitterly, resented his wife and in-laws, and accused them of self-indulgence.

Habit cures habit.

No matter how hard you try to convince a stubborn person, you can't convince him. The more you try to convince him, the more you hate that man.

From then on, the marriage between Lao Li and his wife was like falling into icehouse, and there was no temperature.

Lao Li came home from work, saying nothing and no longer communicating with his wife.

Middle-aged people, between husband and wife, are husband and wife during the day and neighbors at night.

The most terrible thing about marriage is not the quarrel between husband and wife, but the cold violence and nothing to say.

"The most sinister thing in the world is the human heart. The evil of animals lies in survival, and the evil of human heart lies in greed. The living have a cure, and the greedy have nothing. "

People, the most difficult thing to do is empathy. I always feel that what others have is too easy to get. I have something to do with you, so I should touch your light.

As the writer Lu Yao said, affection is sometimes the most vulgar. They always want to touch each other's light. If you can't touch each other's light, you will sour others and turn your face away.

We'd better stay away from such people.

I can't understand the difference between my position and "you, me and him". Life is destined to be more tired and harder to be happy.

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