Tell me about the past experiences of girls or women meeting netizens in the QQ era?

I met two people. One was a netizen I met on QQ and we chatted for about two weeks. She asked me where I lived. I thought she was pretty good, so I told her. In the afternoon, I I heard someone knocking on the door, and when I opened the door, I was surprised to see it was her. I admired her courage and courage. After talking with her, I found out that she lived in an adjacent community to me. Then we chatted for a while and watched TV for a while. I remember that it was the winter solstice and we went to eat dumplings together. After that, I sent her downstairs. From then on, we became good friends and besties who talked about everything. You can also think of us as confidants. She has a husband, so I have never been to her house, but she often comes to my house and is very casual and trusting. Yes, I remember one time when she went shopping with her friends and came back and directly sent a message asking me to give her some cold boiled water. She was so thirsty that she came directly to my house to drink from my cup. There was another netizen from Sichuan, and I went to meet her. I am actually a slow-warming person and was afraid of being embarrassed if I couldn’t chat with strangers. As a result, the netizen knew my worries because she had chatted with me before, so she He is very proactive and takes the initiative to find topics. We are also very harmonious and feel like old friends who have not seen each other for several years. To this day, we still have the same close relationship, so I would like to say that despite seeing many scams on the Internet, I think as long as we are honest with each other and get along with each other in a reasonable manner, trust can still exist between people, even strangers. Of course, this also depends on personal qualities. In a word, you must not have the intention of harming others and guard against others. The heart is indispensable.

When QQ was very popular, it was when I was young, only eighteen or nineteen years old at that time. I especially like to surf the Internet. When I came out to work, Nokia mobile phones were very popular at that time! I used the Nokia mobile phone my mother bought for several hundred yuan to use QQ and met my ex-husband.

At that time, we met each other through adding friends randomly. I was working the night shift that day and was bored. Some of my former classmates were still studying, and some were like me. If they didn’t finish their books well, they would have to go out and look for them. After work, these people will not be your chat partners at night, so just add them to your ex-husband at night.

At the beginning, we had free time to chat casually on the phone. Later, we chatted for two or three months. He asked to get to know each other through video, so I agreed and went to an Internet cafe to have sex during my off work time. Hourly.com, the first look at the video! I looked at him like a bald man in his forties, and didn’t think much about it. It was okay to just chat with someone online, but it was a bit scary to have a relationship. After all, I was only in my twenties and I didn’t want to find anyone. A man in his forties.

My ex-husband felt the opposite to me. He said that when he saw me for the first time, he thought I was pure and beautiful, and he said he liked me. I just laughed. He didn't take it seriously and didn't take it seriously. We continued chatting for a few months. We only video chatted twice. He said, don't go to Internet cafes in the future. There are many people smoking in Internet cafes and the air is bad, so girls should go less often. This makes me think, this person is not bad!

When we met online for almost a year, he said that he happened to be on leave to go home and passed by the city where I worked, so he proposed to meet. I hesitated, but later agreed, just in case. , I arranged the meeting place in a crowded place, near the library.

When we met, I arrived half an hour early, and then I sat in a relatively quiet corner and watched the people coming and going, focusing on the men who looked to be in their 40s to see which one was my ex-husband. After looking for a long time without seeing a man, a man in his twenties suddenly tapped me on the shoulder and asked me if I was that person online. I said yes, and he introduced himself and we met like this. , and then he took me to eat, saying that he was in a hurry and didn’t have time to eat. During the meal, he asked me what to eat, and I said: Whatever! He ordered four or five dishes. After dinner, he said he was going for a walk. After the walk, he said he was leaving and hurried home. That's it for the first meeting.

After the first meeting, he still kept in touch with me on QQ, and then asked me if I could be his girlfriend. When we met for the first time, I knew that he was not in his forties, and he was eight years older than me. Years old, I can still accept this. I won’t find someone younger than me. I don’t like boyfriends younger than me. I agreed.

After my ex-husband and I became boyfriend and girlfriend, he would visit me often. Every time he came, he would check the place where I rented a house, the safety of the electricity and the safety of the door locks. To be honest, it was quite... What touched me was that every time I went out, I was reminded to close the door and turn off the electricity. I think this person is quite reliable. Winter is coming, and I haven’t bought any winter clothes yet, and I didn’t ask him to buy them with me. Later, he bought a big bag of clothes for me, including jeans, long and short-sleeved T-shirts, cotton-padded clothes, and shoes, all for me. All in all, very considerate.

After we dated for a year, he took me to his house and his mother was very polite to me. Since I am not from his province and I don’t understand the language with his mother, he said that his mother likes me very much. He also had a girlfriend before, but his mother kicked her out when she brought her home. This time his mother didn't say anything and happily cooked a large table of dishes. He felt that I was the person he was looking for in this life.

I got married after that. Although my mother didn’t allow me to marry far away, I couldn’t bear it and insisted on marrying far away, so I just followed my wish.

The first few years of marriage were pretty good. The reason for the divorce was because his sisters always liked to get involved in our quarrels. They always said it was my fault. He liked to listen to his sisters in everything. We My mother-in-law passed away a few years after we got married, and my father-in-law passed away long before I got married. He was a sister-in-law, and he would listen to his sister in everything. I don’t like the conflicts in a small family to cause conflicts in a big family. I never told my parents every time we had a quarrel, but he always brought his sister in to complain about me, so we got divorced.

Some people say that the Internet is virtual and people’s hearts cannot be trusted. I don’t think the Internet is virtual. What is virtual is the human heart. There are still real people with real intentions. We just need to keep our eyes open and identify them carefully.

A male college roommate, slightly fat, average-looking, but good at chatting, jokes casually, and humorous. I met my first girlfriend online within a week, slept with her, got pregnant, had an abortion, and finally found out she had an abortion. The fetus is not your own. Such a bloody thing happened around me, which shocked me.

Later, I no longer believed in girls, and went crazy to flirt with girls online, and I flirted with several girls at the same time. I had countless dates with girls, but girls always took the initiative to come to her. There was also a date with a tank truck, and we went to have dinner with him. The roommate's expression of hopelessness made us truly understand that the date was about to be finished with tears in his eyes.

When I graduated from college, I dated a goddess, who made us envious. He vowed not to be a scumbag anymore, and even found a goddess’s hometown (we went to college in Chengdu, and our roommate was from Zhejiang, and the goddess was from Shanghai) ) job, we rushed to live with the goddess as soon as we graduated, which made us extremely envious. At the same time, we felt that our roommate should have met true love this time and would no longer be a scumbag.

I contacted him not long ago when I graduated last year. He said they broke up again and returned home to work at the job arranged by his parents. The roommate's experience is a real-life version of a scumbag who turns into a scumbag and an honest man turns into a scumbag. (Remember to give the best one, thank you)

The era when QQ was popular was when I was particularly busy. My children were in school and my work was very busy. I finished my work and my children every day. In addition to normal QQ at work Communicate and don’t have time or energy to chat with netizens.

There are a few girls in the sales department of our company who often chat with netizens and meet with netizens. I heard from some of them that some netizens basically "die in the face of the light", and they will block them and stop chatting with them after seeing them. .

One of the girls chatted with a netizen. The boy’s hometown is Zhejiang, and he lives with his parents in Beijing. The boy is five or six years younger than the girl. He came from Beijing to find the girl, and he worked with the girl as a salesperson in our company. , the boy is very handsome, but the girl looks domineering in front of him, which makes the boy look a bit useless.

I have a friend who is a eldest sister. Chatting on QQ was also very popular at that time. At that time, QQ could only be chatted on the computer, and mobile phones could not be used for chatting. My friend used the computer to chat at work during the day, and also used the computer when he came home. We were still chatting while cooking, but the pot boiled dry and almost caused a fire. The kitchen of the newly renovated house was so smokey that the pot could no longer be used, and my husband and I were quite angry.

During those days of chatting on QQ, I often heard that someone got angry because of someone chatting with someone online, someone got into a fight, or someone met someone they chatted with online.

Nowadays, there are many chat software. Holding a mobile phone, flipping through the communication list, looking at the friend list, but not knowing who to chat with.

The QQ era should be a nostalgic memory for all of us born in the 1980s. I remember that a female best friend chatted with a male netizen from the same city for a long time on the Internet. At that time, it was popular to kill people. By chance one day we were surfing the Internet in an Internet cafe, and her male netizen was also online at that time. After chatting for a while, they realized that the boy was in an Internet cafe around the corner dozens of meters away from us! They made an appointment to meet offline. Maybe because it was the first time we met strangers, my friend was a little afraid to ask me to come with her. Later, after we discussed it, we decided to go to the Internet cafe to find the boy by ourselves. In fact, at that time, we were afraid that it would not be good for others to come in person. In response, if we go, we can observe the other party in a hidden place now. If there are many people, we will not show up. In the end, the only person on the other end was himself, but his body shape was too big! Oh, come to think of it ~ the body shape of a sumo wrestler! My best friend and I immediately turned around and left, but my friend was too eager to leave and didn't see the French door in front of us clearly, so he bumped into it. With such a loud noise, the boy also noticed us, and we immediately ran back to the dormitory in third gear! It’s interesting to think about it now!

A girl met a netizen. In fact, the boy was in a different class in the same school. They had classes together in the big classroom. They both used QQ at that time. She used a new QQ account and added him. chat. Suddenly one day she said she had something for him, and the man actually knew her. After meeting her, the man was so embarrassed that all the boastfulness he had been bragging about in the previous chat was revealed!

Thinking about it, it was really an era worth recalling. It was also the best age in life.

As soon as I went online at that time, the first thing I did was to add friends again and again, find friends I had a good relationship with, and the first thing I said to greet strangers was hello