The man I saw with my own eyes yesterday told his wife to watch the door at the prostitution dens and said cruel words. The day after tomorrow, he called the police and pushed it. He said that everywh

The man I saw with my own eyes yesterday told his wife to watch the door at the prostitution dens and said cruel words. The day after tomorrow, he called the police and pushed it. He said that everywhere he saw. Buddhist stories

Must-see: 22 Summary of abstinence (to avoid misunderstanding of abstinence)

Source: China Buddhist Story Network | Author: Published: 20 12-06- 14.

1, never contaminated with any pornographic information.

2. Eliminating evil Y is a systematic project.

3, abstinence points: filial piety to parents, do good deeds, study, exercise, go to bed early and get up early, and eat lightly. Quitting color only makes the body no longer tired and lays a solid foundation for the recovery of body and mind. Read to cultivate honesty, do good deeds to shape the sunshine mentality, stand on the stump and practice hard, and go to bed early to make you full of energy. Filial piety, doing good deeds, studying, exercising, going to bed early and getting up early, and eating lightly are the powerful "engines" of this brand-new boat of life.

4. Watch books, do more good deeds, surf the Internet less, exercise regularly, don't smoke, don't touch alcohol, be filial to parents, be close to nature, stay away from pornographic pollution sources, and go into society to hone more.

5. The best way to quit Meaning Y is to think well, say well, do well, read more good books, stay away from pornography, always help others, and always do something beneficial to others. For a long time, it is impossible not to quit!

6, nocturnal emission is not a crime, and occasional white urine does not mean that you have prostatitis. Please consult a doctor for treatment and medicine. You can't take it for granted.

7. Take punishment measures after breaking the precepts. You can choose charitable donations or sports, but don't be naive and don't blame yourself. You must make the commandments pay.

8. If you want to quit color successfully, you must change your attitude and lifestyle. Unwilling to take social responsibility, without a correct outlook on life and a healthy lifestyle, it is difficult to quit successfully.

9. Several wrong behaviors in the process of fading: one is that you are still watching the green tablets during the process of fading, and you can't resist the yin. The other is to live with your girlfriend before marriage and have sex (and have sex and hold back). It is recommended to separate from your girlfriend and live together after marriage. Another one is to quit hands Y, but don't quit extramarital affairs, one-night stands, and try to find a lady and a girl. There is also the use of abstinence yin to increase sexual pleasure.

10, ten typical manifestations of stupidity: (1) Keep watching green films, be proud that you are not SY, and feel determined enough. (2) After abstinence for a period of time, use Qingse tablets to test your concentration or test your sexual resilience. (3) Quit SY by playing games. (4) quit SY several times before, and then quit. (5) after knowing the harm, I thought that I could quit if I ignored inaction. (6) Replace SY with premarital sex. (7) Quitting handprints is more powerful when you have sex with your girlfriend. (8) Spend all your time and energy on giving up printing, thinking that this is concentration and success. (9) I want to quit handprints by self-mutilation and taking drugs that reduce sexual desire, and put them into action. (10) Put the expectation of giving up the success of printing keeping on others.

1 1, I will tell you all day that you can cure psychosexuality by thinking, saying and doing good things. How can I quit psychosexuality? There's nothing to abstain from psychosexuality. As we all know, it's close to Zhu Chi and darkness. You used to watch yellow things all day, which has taken root in your mind. It's certainly not easy to get rid of those junk impressions at once now. So you don't have to worry. When your libido is high, do some exercise outdoors. Usually stay away from pornography, read more good books and do more good deeds. Maintaining healthy qi and internal evil is always beneficial to people's mind and actions, and yang is increasingly abundant. YY, like Chun Xue, will be less and less. Psychosexuality will rarely appear then. Even if it does, you can easily turn the idea away. You don't have to quit it.

12, three sections of the forum, warning with color, refreshing life and healthy way. But many people only pay attention to abstinence and seldom watch the other two sections. Don't you know that a fresh life and a healthy way are the basis of your abstinence success? There are many essence stickers in it, which can benefit you for life. Do not underestimate them. Think about it: without healthy and reasonable living habits and correct outlook on life and world, how can you quit successfully?

13, always respect, respect women, respect everything in this world, and be grateful for everything you have. Pay less attention to abstinence and more attention to your life, your family and society. Take care of your body, your heart, your relatives and friends, and you will be more likely to quit color successfully.

14, it has been repeatedly said that while abstaining from color, we must have good living habits, stay away from the source of color, and take purity and self-cultivation as the first priority. Abstinence from color is to let your body and mind go to a normal path. But some people turn a blind eye and turn a deaf ear, and some people take care of the green tablets. After reading it, I couldn't help but S Y, so I proudly posted that I had no hands y after reading it, and I made progress. After reading it, I couldn't help it, so I came to the forum and cried, saying what to do next time. But this is just lip service, and these words can't be taken seriously, because he will still post remorse after breaking the precepts next time, not what. This kind of lingering eroticism, the type of hard tolerance, is often painful to quit. I feel uncomfortable and others look uncomfortable, but I don't know if I'm going the right way.

15, the most important thing for newcomers is to calm down, quietly read and think about the experience posts of outstanding predecessors, and make a feasible exit plan (recovery means/good work and rest/study/exercise, etc. ) By comparing your own problems. Then carry out it quietly and firmly. Every minute spent on the forum must be rewarded! Kung fu is always outside the altar. Make good use of the download area version.

16, anyone who really has long-term abstinence experience knows that coercion cannot be suppressed and is not a long-term solution. Only with the help of traditional culture (Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism) can we reflect on ourselves, analyze ourselves, find the root of the problem and finally get out of the predicament. The essence of hand yin is a personality problem (selfish and lustful), trapping yourself in the ego. Desire burns in my heart, and only with the help of Yin and a woman can it be calmed down. He didn't understand that if he dispersed this energy and did something good for everyone, he wouldn't be so manic, his heart would be more full, peaceful and caring, and his interpersonal relationship and body and mind would be very harmonious. This is the way of nature. How many times have you committed evil yin in the past? What are your thoughts and actions? This is the first layer of introspection, the purpose is to dare to face up to their own dirt. Then we should do the second level of introspection: study the cause and effect of evil yin, and what psychological unconsciousness is associated with evil yin? When and under what circumstances did the worst evil yin occur? What is the deep motivation? The third level, continue to analyze in depth, how different psychological shadows are interrelated, and what unconscious shadows are revealed in the specific physical and mental details in the process of evil yin? How do these shadows control their conscious behavior? How do you hide your disguise? According to this method of layer-by-layer analysis, we can analyze our souls and naturally know a lot of things that we didn't know before. Only by truly understanding these unconscious information and laws on the conscious level can we understand why we do such stupid things as deceiving ourselves and harming others and benefiting ourselves in ignorance, and we can better grasp our future life and avoid making mistakes again.

17, for those who sit in front of the computer and stare at the forum all day, for those who are indifferent to their parents, for those who don't take the initiative to learn and reform themselves and rebuild good habits, for those who don't exercise, for those who don't start from other people's small acts of kindness and can't be happy for others, we want to say: Please note that getting rid of bad habits is a systematic project! Stop your death, stupidity and stupid behavior immediately!

18, an old moderator said: Being busy won't lead to bad habits, which is universally acknowledged. If leisure time can be divided into segments and used reasonably, it will be systematized. For example, first read a good book for an hour, then exercise for an hour, then read some spells or classics, then take care of your life, and then do some good deeds as much as possible, so that your free time can be used reasonably. This will be very fulfilling, and there will be no leisure to do things like SY. This process and content of reasonably arranging leisure time is actually a "systematic project" to eradicate prostitution.

19 another old moderator said: my lust, caution standard is the ISO lust, caution standard certified by the forum. I don't care about obscenity, SY, I don't watch any pornographic words, pictures or movies, I don't talk about pornographic jokes or participate in the discussion of pornographic jokes. Abstinence from only a few of them or abstinence from prostitution is not true abstinence. If new people often fall down repeatedly in two or three weeks, you should reflect on whether you have quit color according to this ISO standard. In this process, in addition to abstinence, I also strung together every part of my life and established a powerful good life restoration project. Study, work, abstinence, life, doing good and doing good are all interrelated, which is the most important gain during my abstinence. When people fall down repeatedly for a long time (for example, one to two months), you might as well think about whether you should do the same, and whether you think the relationship between abstinence and life recovery project should be a temporary solution rather than a permanent cure.

20. Don't be a modern high-tech slave: Say goodbye to online games decisively, don't be a mobile phone control, and be a net worm. Plan daily life scientifically.

2 1, remember Mr. Tao Xingzhi-ask four questions a day. Question 1: Has my body improved? Question 2: Have I made progress in my study? The third question: Has my work improved? Question 4: Has my morality improved?

22. Study plan, work promotion plan, exercise plan, doing one good deed or more good deeds every day, etc. All need to be done in a down-to-earth manner. It will have a great impact in the long run. It's time for you to reflect on your brother who regards the forum as a general forum, spends time fooling around, doesn't look carefully and doesn't carry out his plan in place. We are against: lazy people, deceivers, cowards, Ah Q, and Sister Xianglin.