Why do some people always say that men become bad when they have money and women become good when they have no money?

Hello everyone! I am Sister Mei! Thanks for the invitation! Why do some people always say that men become bad when they have money, and women become good when they have no money? This can only be said that there is such a group of people who are not much better to begin with. It’s not so good when you don’t have money. It’s even more serious if you have some money. I just want to be happy and enjoy it at that time! Regardless of the outcome. It's just that for a few men who have some money, if women don't care about him, they will gradually become bad.

As for women becoming better behaved when they have no money, it may just be that they consume less when they have no money. There are many women around me who are rich and making money themselves.

We just got married and I was in charge of the money. There was no income in the countryside and the money was too little. I had to manage it myself and use it only when the family needed it.

Later when I started doing business, I gradually made more money. Even though my husband was in charge, I also knew that he would not spend money randomly. Outside, men are in charge of money, so he has more face.

Tell him often that women outside will look for you just for money. If you don’t have money, will she look for you? My husband can't seduce women no matter what, and he's still addicted to mahjong. There are beautiful women on WeChat who add them to WeChat, but he doesn’t add them. Maybe he is more honest.

There is also a man in our neighboring village who turns bad just because he has money. When I was in the countryside, I had no money, so I just lived by my wife and was addicted to cards. Later, I earned hundreds of thousands at a construction site. I often stayed in high-end hotels and often took care of girls. I would take care of this one today and that one tomorrow. She even boasted to my husband that she was only in her twenties (he was in his forties at the time). I said that he has only been in the spotlight for a few years. No matter how much money you have, it is a bottomless pit. As a result, within a few years, he was in debt everywhere, his wife was divorced, and the other woman had been with him for a few years, but I don’t know if she is still with him now. Now he is reduced to doing odd jobs to make a living, and even though others are trying to collect debts, they know that he doesn't have any. In the past seven or eight years, he played mahjong and borrowed five hundred from us. I don’t expect him to return it either. His relatives borrowed more.

Men still have to be responsible and responsible. When they have a family, they should take good care of their family. Just don't go out and waste your time. You have to live a good life when you are old.

The question is a bit of a generalization. Of course, most people think so when they feel like eating grapes.

The defense seems a bit weak.

Men become bad when they have money, and women become good when they have no money

I personally think: Compared with women, men have greater pressure in life. First of all, they have to support their families. He is surrounded by people who rely on him. If you have a fixed income and a stable job, it's fine. Otherwise, you will be working hard for survival and life every day. Physically and mentally exhausted.

If the opportunity is good, once you have money, all the previous depression and grievances will explode immediately! He needs to resolve, needs to be released, and needs to verify all his efforts. Therefore, everything from words and deeds to dealing with others is very different from before. Most people will think: Men will become bad when they have money! In fact, it's not all about having money that makes you bad, it's about having the opportunity and ability to relax and resolve. There are very few men who truly become bad.

As for women, they become good when they have no money. I personally think that there are two aspects:

1. No financial source, dependent on others to support, no right to speak

In other words, you are forced by life and have to obey. You can only be obedient, accept the situation, and let it go. The kind of life that has no dignity and no self.

2. I can’t express the pain in my heart. I have no money!

I work and run around for money every day. Work obediently, maintain good relations with everyone obediently, and safeguard everyone and everything obediently. For fear of making mistakes, they live cautiously, fearfully, and walk on thin ice. They are relatively weak in ability, timid, and conservative in thinking. This is also a common problem among most women.

3. They all appear to be well-behaved, but they are very strong at heart, independent-minded, well-educated and capable.

These are the "strong women" that ordinary people call them. They have the special characteristics of androgyny! It has both the mind and courage of a man and the tenderness and tenacity of a woman. Such a woman is knowledgeable and sensible, and can distinguish right from wrong. Strong working ability, shrewd and decent manners. Think ahead and take action. You can go to the hall, and you can go to the kitchen. Spiritual independence and financial independence. There is sunshine in my heart, direction in my eyes, self-esteem, self-love, and self-improvement, and I am excellent in all aspects. Don't be angry and be respected by others. So, it looks good.

In short, both men and women, including everyone, are running and struggling for survival and life.

On the way forward, there will inevitably be obstacles. The most important thing is to have a good attitude, put integrity first and kindness first. There is sunshine in my heart, and there is spring wherever I go. Do everything you do and cherish everyone around you. Your road will become wider and wider...

This is another question that tests people's view of money. Men will become bad when they have money. Such cases are not uncommon in real life. The plots of novels and TV series all come from this theme. With the improvement of living standards in modern society, there are more and more "Chen Shimei". For men, power, money and women are three mountains and three pursuits. If they can have them all, it will be a man's ideal success! Generally, if you have one, you will pursue two and three! Because this is determined by man's nature, male animals like to conquer the outside world and chase what they don't have. They don't have too many emotional ties, so there will be some "bad" behavior. Of course, this is ordinary men. In fact, there are many good men who, even if they have money, can still be emotionally dedicated and have good lifestyle habits, such as Bill Gates, Jack Ma, etc. This is related to the education and knowledge of the family environment since childhood, as well as the cultivation of thinking quality and knowledge in adulthood.

But when it comes to women who don’t have money, I don’t particularly agree. As the saying goes, if you are poor, you will want to change. A woman, especially an adult woman who is a mother, will definitely want to be rich, not only for herself but also for her family. Because women have delicate minds and have relatively high demands on life, and they do everything down to the smallest detail, especially for their children, they will definitely want to give them the best. If you don’t have money, you will find ways to create. Women at this time are not good. They will lose their shyness and introversion as young girls, become proactive and learn everything they do, no longer care about their personal image, and start working hard and struggling. If the husband can make money, the wife may be at home caring for her husband and raising children. Otherwise, women will become tomboys, strong women, just to make more money, better realize themselves and create better conditions for their families! If a woman has no money but still behaves, she will become the old-fashioned woman who endures humiliation and bears the burden. But I think a well-educated woman still has money. As long as her relationship goes smoothly, she is the most well-behaved woman at this time, and she can be at peace with her husband and raising children!

Thanks for the invitation, it’s a slightly different view. So it should be said: Men will become bad if they have money, and women will become good if they have money. One-sided words, personal opinions, please forgive me for any inaccuracies or disagreements!

Men become bad when they have money. This is analyzed from several aspects:

Generally speaking, everyone is familiar with the saying that men become bad when they have money! The implication is that as long as conditions permit, all men will become "bad". This bad word is very learned. The proposition that men are flirtatious seems to be iron-clad, and it seems to be an indisputable fact that men are lustful. But is this really the case? After exploring it, there are indeed too many such things in life. After many men have money and status, they begin to despise rotten wives. When they see beautiful women, they always look left and right, as if they cannot be called successful men without having a romantic affair.

Men, will they become bad if they have money?

1. Yes, men will become bad when they have money. Many men are like this.

2. No, men will not become bad if they have money.

3. Not necessarily, not all men will become bad if they have money, maybe some will, it depends on the situation.

4. Men who become bad when they have money are not much better even if they have no money.

Men are so strong. If they have a career and money, what else should they pursue? Men make money in order to live a better and more exciting life. In addition to buying famous brands, houses, and cars, they must also pursue "love"! To find a good woman, the requirements of a good woman are basically the same, and it is difficult to see. The only thing that can be seen is the appearance!

So men pursue beautiful women! There are always only a few beauties, and things are rare and precious! Just like bidding! There is always a price to pay, and at the same time a man's strength can be shown. It seems that in the eyes of most people, that's it.

Once a man has money, it also means he will be more tempted, because there are also many women who want to take shortcuts and live a good life, so they will also take the initiative to find some rich men!

I would like to ask, how many men can escape such temptation?

For most average-looking boys, before they succeed in their careers, they rarely have a chance to meet beautiful women. After they become successful, most of them will not reject beautiful women when they come to their doorsteps, because they also want to know how they fall in love with beautiful women. taste.

Men, do you become bad when you have money?

How about you, my friend?

Women become rich when they become bad

Women who can write this topic have probably been classified as bad women. The sad thing is - the bad woman has done it, but the money has not. Now I am racking my brains every day, thinking and thinking, squeezing and squeezing, turning the few thoughts of a little girl into rows of great Chinese characters on the computer. I cannot rule out that sometimes I want to take care of myself. I sighed with emotion - love is like bitter wine, life is like running water; but there are many times when I am thinking about using it to get back next month's phone bill and "death" expenses. Telling the truth seems to greatly damage the image of a literati. However, at this juncture when I, a bad woman, am trying to excuse the fact that I have no money, I cannot take the overall situation into consideration.

Even writing, or more seriously, creation, such a noble career, is associated with money by me. It is obvious that I am a woman who loves money, but it also shows that I am a woman without money. Women who have money are talking about their taste in life, and the purpose of writing is for spiritual needs and entertainment, plus to gain the status of a "talented woman". I do not have this luxury qualification. The beautiful name of "talented woman" cannot give me bread and coffee. Writing has another important meaning to me. It is my food and clothing, my computer, my clothes and even my typing machine. I wrote every word on the paper. Speaking of this, I can't help but feel sad. It's so miserable for a woman to work so hard to manage her own money. Because I work hard, I love money, and I often calculate which magazine has the highest royalties like a string of small coins. According to the common view, a woman who loves money cannot be a good woman. A good woman should be the kind who cannot move away from poverty, be happy in poverty, and can live a simple life. She should not have any ideas about money. What a good woman should say when getting married is: "Don't worry! I will marry you even if you are a pauper." But I can't do this. My point of view is: "A person can live without worrying about food and drink, and marry a man." On the contrary, there is no reason to worry about eating for two people. "My love for money is enough to show that I am not a good woman, but I still have no fate with money, so I have to continue to run between ideal and reality when writing this topic. While talking about what was in my heart, I got some money in exchange for firewood and rice. If you meet someone who is considerate, you might say that I am a woman who relies on her own labor to earn a living. She is seeking financial independence and cannot be considered a bad woman. My lack of money does not mean that a bad woman has no money. I think those who say this probably don’t know the fact that I can’t enter the kitchen or clean the hall. If there are more tolerant people who understand this as a matter of personal living habits, I think only those women who are rich and become mistresses are bad women. They rely on men to drive BMWs and live in villas.

There is a misunderstanding. A certain woman married a rich man and lived a life of "getting something for nothing". If she has true feelings, people on both sides will interpret her as being driven by interests. I know the beautiful woman Jiang Mei. When she met A Liang, A Liang was already the owner of an advertising company with tens of millions of assets. Jiang Mei never thought about taking advantage of A Liang. When he was pursued by A Liang, in order to escape the notoriety of being a sugar daddy, she once left Guangzhou and left her beloved A Liang. It was A Liang who pursued her relentlessly, flying back and forth between Beijing and Guangzhou, and finally moved Jiang Mei, and the lovers finally got married. Jiang Mei drove her blue Ford sports car to a class reunion, and still heard many people whispering: "She married a man who was more than ten years older than her for money. Nowadays, some women want nothing but money!" Most of them feel sad that women are becoming more and more humble.

Do women have to marry a poor husband to prove that they are a good woman? In my opinion, women who can marry rich men are relatively indifferent materially, while women who plan to marry rich men every day are not Most of the people are "beauties but bad luck". A rich man must have a brain (ignored in some cases), how can he recognize a woman who has her eyes on his pocket? In case of a successful sugar daddy, the man also knows clearly: you just want to cheat some money, since you have young And beauty, I also have money to dress up your youth and beauty. Follow me, you can't lack food and clothing, you also need to eat well and dress well, but how much money you have in your account has nothing to do with me. Is this kind of woman who lives in luxury really rich? Good flowers don’t bloom for a long time. What men want is a beautiful woman with a beautiful car. When the little girl is old and beautiful, how can the man make any compensation for his youth? They have thirty-six strategies. The best thing to do is to not forget to take the money as well.

Some women have been lovers for several years, have cars and houses, and considerable savings, and then get married. Are this kind of women bad women? Most of them are women whose true love comes first, and their lovers’ experiences are the days when they were hurt by love. Men are realistic. Divorce is too troublesome. When a woman no longer has the capital to bet her youth on tomorrow, she will suddenly realize and understand the man's thoughts, and then run away with a broken dream. Their money is a small reward for their true love on a day without sunshine. I know that they are not bad women, but a group of lost lambs.

Some women have indeed become rich with the help of men. In addition to their beautiful appearance, such women are also more intelligent. If they have equal status with men, they themselves can make a difference. This reality tells us that the current society is still a male-dominated society. I think the more important voice than that women have become bad is to break the male-dominated rule.

The women who are recognized as bad are the women who are in the flesh business. They wear red sheepskin shorts and wear inferior cosmetics and show off on the streets. This impression is very different from being rich. Even if you have money, so what, you are not sent to the hospital's STD clinic.

To sum up, women who become bad may not necessarily have money, so women should be careful before they become bad.

Why do people become bad when they have money? Where his heart is, there his money is.

Why do you become good when you have no money? She is proud of what she lacks and has no dignity.

Invitation and thanks.

The problem is not absolute, but there are such people. When you are full and warm, you think about lust, and when you have a financial foundation, you lose your true self. You are infected by the environment and the people you come into contact with, and you are nourished by material life. The work pressure is high, and the way to relieve stress changes. There are only a small number of such people, Chen Shimei has existed since ancient times. Of course, it’s not absolute. Some men don’t have a career or money, but they still change and learn. Having an economic foundation only makes it easier for this group of people to degenerate.

There are good people, and what nourishes them is culture and traditional concepts. There is not much difference between a woman having no economic foundation and having an economic foundation. What determines the deterioration is not the economy, but the woman herself. Women don't need money to support themselves if they want to be bad.

It’s much easier than for men, it doesn’t matter whether you have money or not!

This is not entirely the case, it still depends on character.

Many times when men become bad when they have money, they resist the temptation of not practicing. There are many women who will succumb to the smell of money. Men who lack the ability to control will sink. In addition, when they have no money, they feel that they cannot hold their heads high. , when you have money, you have to show off, and you become arrogant.

Many times, money is just a catalyst. The key is to see whether the person is good or not.

I am very happy to be invited to answer this question.

This sentence has actually been passed down by society, and it has been passed down because the statement is not unreasonable. Just imagine that ancient my country was an agricultural society where men farmed and women weaved. For a long time, men dominated the outside world and women dominated the household. Under such social conditions, men work hard and expand their territories, male chauvinism occupies a dominant position, and women depend on men for survival. It is not difficult to explain that "men become bad when they have money, and women become good when they don't have money." "This sentence, men control the wealth of society, can't women be good?

Human beings are also animals, but they have more abilities to manipulate property and things than other animals. In fact, in the animal kingdom, males dominate the world. Which type of animal is not male king? Not to mention that the universe is dominated by the sun. From this point of view, men among humans have the ability to manipulate money. With the blessing of wealth, it further strengthens his ambition to dominate the world. As the saying goes, "Money can make the devil go around." With this king Stick, "men become bad when they have money" makes sense.

In the same way, it also makes sense that "women become good when they don't have money". Women are just weaker than men, ranking third among heaven, earth, humans, gods, and ghosts. It does not say whether they are men or women. Let alone the male-dominated ancient times, when women gained wealth, they could serve as slaves to men, let alone today's "society" where men and women are equal. In addition to being physically weaker than men, women are not necessarily weaker than men intellectually. Under the same conditions, of course "women become good when they don't have money." Because a woman with money is even more powerful.

If a man is not bad, a woman will not love her; if a woman is not obedient, a man will not love her! [laughing][laughing][laughing]