It's annoying that my husband's sister has to take care of everything. Everything I have seems to be what she wants. She always yells at me before calculating our money all day.

If you are tougher, indifferent or more horizontal than her, you don't have to be suppressed and make you feel uncomfortable. She shouted at you, probably because she wanted to brush her presence here. Personally, I suggest you and your husband improve their tough attitude at the same time. After all, you have a family, and no one else can interfere, not even your own parents, let alone your sister. Your family and marriage certificate only contain information about you and your husband, which proves that your love, marriage and family are your own decisions. But if your husband is weak, what your sister says is what he wants. Without your own principles and bottom line, it is also a kind of harm to you, because even if he is on your side after something happens, he will not help you. You and your husband had better learn some disguises and protect yourself at the same time. Even if your tough heart is only to resist those who try to bully you, don't let yourself feel depressed because of the unhappiness between you and your husband. After a long time, you will be depressed.