How to treat the phenomenon of unmarried pregnancy?

Pregnancy out of wedlock is not a matter of unilateral irresponsibility. It is a matter of two people being irresponsible to themselves, their families, and their children.

Tell me about things around me. My husband's sister got pregnant when she was about to graduate from college. The whole family was shocked by such a thing. When the husband's parents came to talk about this matter at home, they repeatedly emphasized that the matter has reached this point and they can only think about it. After all, they have a child. It's a happy event.

But they didn’t know that when my mother-in-law found out about this, she hid outside and cried all night. This was a very embarrassing thing for us, because my mother-in-law and my father-in-law had a fierce quarrel over this matter. This society will never take a positive attitude towards pregnancy out of wedlock.

More importantly, I feel that my sister is very pitiful. She will get married and have children as soon as she graduates from college. She has no job and no savings. She has to rely on men for any money she needs. I think it should be like this in such a day. It's hard.

An important reason why my husband and I have not had children after being married for so long is because we feel that we are not mentally mature enough and not strong enough to calmly complete the identity change, let alone a person who has just graduated from college and does not have any People with social experience.

Being pregnant before marriage is irresponsible to oneself, but it is too harsh to say contempt. Everyone has their own choice to go their own way. I can only wish this unexpected little life can be To you, to bring endless laughter to your family. After all, he is a gift from God. I just hope that all unmarried people can respect themselves and love themselves, and start a stable family first before thinking about children.