The difference between service-oriented personality and ingratiating personality

The difference between service-oriented personality and ingratiating personality lies in:

1, service-oriented personality should be that he does whatever others ask him to do, as if he doesn't have his own ideas, which may be bad for himself, but he doesn't know how to refuse.

2, please type personality is mainly please, but please object is generally stronger than himself, he needs to get some benefits or benefits from the other strong person.