What is the experience of having few or no relatives?

The experience of having few or no relatives is loneliness!

On holidays, people in the circle of friends are visiting relatives and friends, but they can only stay at home silently. China is a country that attaches great importance to family relations. On holidays, we will visit relatives and friends, and we will get together and have a good time. When there are few or no relatives in your family, you lose the opportunity to visit relatives and friends, and naturally no one comes to visit you. Especially during the Spring Festival, looking at the bustling circle of friends, that kind of loneliness really arises spontaneously. Bian Xiao's family has few relatives. What impressed me the most was that when we had a reunion dinner in the Spring Festival one year, no one came to my house, and our family of four sat at one side of the table. This is really the loneliest reunion dinner I have ever had, and I will probably never forget it in my life. Having fewer relatives can also make people more introverted and independent. Something happened to our family, and no one could come to help, or very few people could help. Therefore, most people in our family are not very good at dealing with outsiders and rarely ask others for help. In front of things, we will be a little weak. Because there is no huge family to give us confidence.

Of course, fewer relatives will also reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles. If no one comes to visit relatives and friends, there will be no Xiong Haizi to break your hand and no troublemaker to dirty your Hanfu. During the holiday, there are no seven aunts and eight aunts to ask about your work and arrange a blind date for you. Of course, no one will always ask for help for a trivial matter. So you can live a good life in your own small home.

There is nothing black or white, good or bad. Even if no relatives can visit relatives and friends, we can visit friends, and we can also travel with our parents. Where relatives help, there will be relatives to help. No matter how many relatives there are, Bian Xiao hopes everyone can live a happy life.