Talk about "empathy"

After releasing two songs of Loneliness, Youyou Lu Xiaonan commented: You don't understand the cat's mind, just like your loneliness, the cat can't feel the same

Suddenly I want to talk about "feeling the same".

On weekends, my daughter came home a little glum, pouting that the boys at her deskmate and front desk always said she was black.

I cried, and my heart was dull and painful at once. I think this should be empathy.

It has always been believed that empathy is a very, very high-level feeling that everyone is dreaming of. When we are happy, we hope that the other party will feel the same way and convey our happiness. When you are sad, you want the other person to feel the same way. The reality is ... There are many answers.

let's talk about the "empathy" of sadness. When a person is sad, his heart will be extremely scared, and the world seems to be eclipsed, so he is pessimistic. What are you looking at? What are you crying about? I began to question the beauty of life. In a word, "my sadness is beyond words." However, can others "empathize"?

A while ago, my husband was particularly worried and upset because of his messy business. Looking at my husband's frown all day, I have no intention to do anything. What's more, I hope this kind of torture will come to me and I will bear it. In exchange for her husband's usual laughter ...

I also thought that my son had a big fight with her husband because of his disagreement in summer vacation, and his eyes were red with anger. Looking at my son, my heart hurts for a while ...

This is empathy.

This proves that empathy will occur more frequently in the person you love the most and the person who loves you the most.

what about the rest?

follow fate, you can't force it.

Just like facing other people's sadness, is it "empathy" for our comfort and sadness?

not necessarily. Most of them are colleagues, acquaintances, and thoughts, just talking.

As Mr. Lu Xun has always said, "The joys and sorrows of others are all noise to me."

to add weakly, I'm a nobody, and I don't quite agree with Mr. Lu Xun's high opinion.