A man's insistence: I can betray my family, as long as I don't divorce, it is already a gift. what do you think?

On the whole, there must be a reason for cheating, although there are many immoral people in this world, most of them are ordinary people and normal people. If you can choose, or want to live a good life, who will talk about betraying your family, divorce, giving gifts and so on? Many times, you can't judge someone's behavior is wrong just by one sentence. You know, there must be something hateful about the poor. Rome was not built in a day.

It is reasonable to say that if the family is the unit, betraying the family will inevitably be immoral and will inevitably affect family harmony. There are many forms of betraying the family, most of which refer to cheating. But when condemning the other party for cheating, should we also think about why the other party cheated? In terms of things, cheating is necessarily wrong, but if we look at various cases from reality, not everyone's cheating is wrong. In some specific cases, there is a cause first, and then there is a result. Therefore, just because a man betrays his family, he can't be sure that what he said is wrong.

Being able to say "I can betray my family, as long as I'm not divorced, it's already a gift" shows that the man has resentment in his heart, either the relationship between husband and wife is broken or the wife has done something wrong to her husband, otherwise who would say such a thing? And men who say such things must be emotionally derailed first, and then physically derailed. Maybe many people don't understand the difference between these two kinds of infidelity. The former is because he has the responsibility and obligation, and has not thought about cheating. He just met a special person at a certain time, and this person gave his current wife tenderness that he couldn't give, which he just lacked, so he went to an emotional derailment.

But at this time, he should be rational. He has no intention of cheating, but has an idea of cheating. And the relationship between him and his wife has further deteriorated, or his wife has done something, or the relationship between husband and wife has reached the point of irretrievability, then he will not hesitate to turn the former object of his affair into an intimate relationship, which is also very common in reality. Maybe he hasn't done it yet, but in fact he has thought about it in his heart. If he wanted to do it, he wouldn't say "I can betray my family". His later sentence "As long as I'm not divorced, it's already a gift" shows that he has no feelings with his current wife. He didn't divorce because of his responsibilities and obligations, perhaps considering his reputation.

Maybe it's about children. In short, his present state is that he is in Cao Cao and his heart is in Han.

But this is only my personal analysis. If the husband is really scum, even if the wife is a good wife and a good plan, I'm afraid she will say such a thing. You know, when a person's heart changes, even if you breathe beside him, he will find you annoying. So the person who said this sentence is either a cruel person or an emotional person. The former doesn't have any feelings for you, and the latter says such things because you hurt him deeply enough. But the man who said that doesn't necessarily mean he cheated. He must have said that because of what his wife said or did. Therefore, it is better to take out some things that happened between husband and wife and judge why they said such things.

Therefore, if you want to analyze the relationship between couples or solve problems, then you must combine what happened between couples with what they said, and then interpret it, and you will get the real answer. And this analysis based on only one sentence is also our guess, which does not count at all. This interpretation is like giving you a pair of shoes of size 40 and then telling you where the owner of the shoes is.

In addition, this is not so much the persistence of men as the stubbornness of men. If my analysis is accurate, it shows that in order to maintain the integrity of the family, the husband is actually somewhat wronged. He is maintaining this marriage now because he is doing his duty and responsibility, not because he wants to or likes it. If one day he really doesn't want to take on these things, or he is really tired, then maybe it's time for this relationship and marriage to really end. If that day comes, he will put everything down, stop clinging to this so-called marriage and never look back.