My father-in-law said that it is the same for my sister-in-law to get married without a bride price and have children. What should I do?

Bian Xiao believes that the bride price should be given, because it is not easy for a family to raise a daughter. The woman will not take this bride price as her own, but will give it to her daughter so that her daughter can stand upright in her marriage life. So, if your father-in-law says that your sister-in-law doesn't receive a bride price when she gets married, so does giving birth to a child, then you must refute it. This is just a rule in your family, not the same as mine. Daughters must receive a bride price when they get married, but the bride price is not much, which is completely within the scope of your family's commitment, and my father-in-law can understand it.

My father-in-law said that it is the same for my sister-in-law to get married without a bride price and have children. What should I do? If your boyfriend's father says such a thing, you can refute it directly, but you must pay attention to your tone when you refute it. Don't be too tough. Tell my boyfriend's father gently. For example, you can tell your boyfriend's father that in our family, there is a bride price for my daughter's marriage, but there are not many bride prices, and my mother will not ask for this bride price, but will give it to me in family life. In this way, the boyfriend's father can understand the meaning of his words, and will also let the boyfriend's father give a bride price, and it will not be a bride price. If you have any dissatisfaction when talking about marriage, you must make it clear. You can't hide it in your heart, which will make your married life even more unhappy.

You can also ask your boyfriend to tell dad that his family is going to receive a bride price. At this time, you can also tell your boyfriend directly and ask him to tell his father that his family is going to receive a bride price, so that his father can understand what he means. Because your words may not be accepted by the other party, you are considered a greedy person, but your boyfriend's words can be accepted by the other party and let the other party give a bride price. You know, it is not easy for a family to raise a daughter. The woman will not take the bride price for herself, but give it to her daughter.