People are good at being bullied. A willing horse can carry a heavy load. No, that's great.

Some people lament that people are good at being bullied and Mashan is riding, feeling a little lost and helpless. Reminds me of the wisdom of the past: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. People are not rich without windfall, and horses are not fat without weeds. The wicked are afraid of heaven, and the good do not bully it. Good and evil will eventually be rewarded, just for coming early and coming late. There is still a day when the Yellow River will be clarified. How can people have no luck? Is kindness and tolerance wrong? Does tolerance mean connivance? As an ordinary person, it is wrong to think that people are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden.

China people pay attention to many friends, many roads, many enemies and many walls. They prefer to be kind to others when something goes wrong, rather than treat others badly. Confucianism also advocates the moral standards of gentleness, propriety, benevolence, propriety, wisdom and faithfulness, and advocates the golden mean, that is, the philosophy of life in which harmony is the most important, major issues are minimized and minor issues are minimized. Buddhism also talks about three generations of cause and effect, telling people that evil people are afraid of heaven, and good people do not bully heaven. Good and evil will eventually be rewarded, but they come early and come late. Good people are bullied by evil people, but they will not be bullied forever; The benefit of the wicked is only temporary. The law of cause and effect exists objectively. If you can't see a good person being bullied, you feel that you can't be a good person.

We usually talk about humiliation, why don't we talk about it when things come? Can't help yourself? In fact, this is a manifestation of insufficient practice and cultivation. Breathing hard will only bring us more trouble. Let the people who are not weak and can be allowed be strong. It is often said in society that a small amount is not a gentleman, and a small amount is not a husband. Originally a luxury husband, he was mistakenly read as a non-toxic husband, which made people mistakenly think that malice is a gentleman. Letting go is a loss, but in fact, loss is a blessing. Both party member and Buddhists know that we should learn to suffer losses, learn to be fooled, and it should be our rule to be a man.

I don't know what a gentleman is. I only know that it is a gentleman who is willing to suffer. I don't know who is a villain, but I know that it is a villain who likes to take advantage.

Being bullied by others and ordinary people has no effect on your personality, but shows your noble personality. We usually have problems with people, so we should always check ourselves and don't look for reasons from others. If people really want to admit their mistakes, don't talk about others' mistakes. If they are right or wrong, they are right. Self-cultivation is to correct one's own thoughts and words and deeds, not to correct others' mistakes. Even if others are completely wrong about one thing, we should check whether our methods are wrong.

I often remember that the four words in life are you right and I am wrong. Even if others are completely unreasonable, they believe that the cause and effect of the third world are right. Maybe they had bad karma in their last life, offended him and sorry him, which made him what he is today. If we can see the problem through cause and effect, we will be happy all our lives.

But looking at the problem from another angle, people are good at being bullied, and Mashan is also right.

Our leaders have loved Sino-Japanese friendship for generations, saying that the aggression of that year was an act of militarism and Japan was also a victim of war. Which Japanese invaders are not Japan? If there is no ferocity and belligerence, how can Japanese militarism take root in this land?

When China, Nanjing and Shanghai fell, the news spread to Japan, and people all over Japan rejoiced. People have gone out of their homes, holding lanterns and torches, cheering for the brilliant achievements of Japan's Greater East Asia. Can such citizens be said to be victims of war?

Just imagine, with China's Confucianism for nearly a thousand years, will militarism appear in a land like China?

/kloc-At the beginning of the 5th century, Zheng He made seven voyages to the Western Ocean. At that time, his fleet was the largest in the world, with as many as 27,000 or 8,000 people accompanying him. It can be said that there are many soldiers and many ships, and he sailed for 28 years, reaching Southeast Asian islands, India, Persia, Belgium, as far as the east coast of Africa and the mouth of the Red Sea, covering more than 30 countries and regions. But which island did this fleet occupy in the vast waters of China, and how many great achievements did this long-distance fleet leave for future generations?

On the other hand, Francisco Pizarro, a Spanish adventurer, boarded the American continent with only a few sailboats and 100 armed crew, destroyed the Inca empire that dominated the American continent by force, and plundered countless gold and silver. An Inca empire with a population of four or five million was destroyed by an armed gang with only 100 people.

This is not that people are good at being bullied, but that Mashan is being ridden.

Moreover, when the Manchu entered the customs, there were only about 200,000 women, children and the elderly, and less than 60,000 people were able to fight on the battlefield with real swords and guns. But wherever the Manchu army went, it was invincible. This is not to say that people are easy to bully. What is Mashan riding?

After the Sino-Japanese War of 1894-1895, Japan lost 200 million taels of silver and was ceded to three northeastern provinces. Why was the July 7th Incident so fast? This is not that people are good at being bullied, but that Mashan is being ridden.

Before the September 18th Incident, the Japanese Kwantung Army had less than 10,000 troops in the northeast, and only a few thousand Japanese troops participated in the incident, but Zhang Xueliang's 300,000 well-equipped troops were driven out of the three northeastern provinces. This is not that people are good at being bullied, but that Mashan is being ridden.

I remember learning two fables in primary school. One is about Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf, and the other is about the farmer and the snake. These two stories tell the world that good intentions may not be rewarded. Mr. Dong Guo was flattered by the wolf and got carried away, forgetting that wolves eat people. As a result, he was almost eaten by a wolf.

From this perspective, we can say that we are really wrong. The mistake is that after Japan surrendered, China, as a victorious country, should not give up war reparations, and should not take the initiative to find and adopt Japanese orphans and widows. What's more, Okamura Ningji, a war criminal with China's blood on his hands, should not be acquitted and be a guest.

If you turn yourself into a donkey, don't complain about others riding you. Different people, different places, different nationalities, different times, have different perceptions, so let's get what we need.