It is really difficult for old people to remarry. What are the main difficulties? what do you think?

It is a good thing for the elderly to remarry. When they are old, they will feel happier with a wife who knows how to be cold and warm, and they don't have to worry too much about the elderly just to care about their children.

However, it is very difficult for the elderly to remarry. Some scholars believe that the main difficulty lies in the fear that children will disagree, that the other party will take advantage of themselves, and that others will not get along with themselves sincerely.

1. I feel sorry for my child, mainly because the child will be afraid that the old man will remarry and feel humiliated and lose money.

Parents love each other until they are old, and when one of them wants to be with others, the child will feel uncomfortable.

Now the elderly are looking for a new wife, and some children have no objection. As long as the age gap between the people he is looking for is not too big, his children can't accept the old man whose wife hasn't gone long, and feel sorry for their mother, which will also make them feel humiliated.

As children, we should think more about the living. It is precisely because parents have good feelings that one of them will leave first, and the other will feel more lonely. Children can't accompany the elderly like wives.

When the old people have a companion, they will feel new hope for life and let them remarry. They feel happy, which is also a sign that their children can understand the elderly.

Children are also afraid that the elderly will not manage money, will not look at money, and fear that real estate money will be controlled by outsiders, so they will interfere more.

Some children think that if the old man remarries, the house and money will belong to others and will not belong to him completely, so they will oppose remarriage regardless of the needs of the old man. It is an old man's misfortune to have such a child.

Children should not stop the elderly for too much money. For example, if my father is about 50 years old and finds a new wife, he may have to stay together for 20-30 years, which will be longer than the original one.

If you are worried that the elderly will be cheated, it will be better for your children to care more about the elderly, and the elderly will communicate with their children to discuss a practice that everyone is satisfied with.

Children will also worry that if the old man remarries, his new wife will not be able to take care of herself in the future and he will have to bear the responsibility of support, which is understandable.

If they have been together for a long time, get along well with each other, have feelings for each other and have raised their children, what should they do for them? If only the old couple get along and have never raised children, it is human nature that children are unwilling to take care of each other.

2. I am sad, afraid that the other party will take advantage of me and I am afraid that I will be sorry for my children.

It is difficult for the elderly to remarry, and it is even more difficult to manage. If they are afraid of taking advantage of themselves, they can rarely live together for a long time. This is the main reason why many remarried families don't live long.

Old people should not make random wishes when looking for a wife, so as not to make the other half uncomfortable and lose their manners.

A man found his wife and told her that he only had to live with himself and give her the house when he left. As a result, she took care of him for fifteen years. During his illness and hospitalization, he kept silent about it, but secretly gave the house to his son. After he left, his son asked her to move out of the house.

If she doesn't want to cash her house, she doesn't have a house. People in their seventies and eighties can let her live to death and then take the house away. If the son is having a hard time himself and wants to live or sell himself, it should be reasonable to rent a small house.

Older men and women have different needs for finding wives. A man looking for a wife is nothing more than looking for a nanny and a partner. Women are born to take care of their families and do more housework. Not only men, but also men's children will enjoy the care of their wives.

During this period, if men only want to be taken care of by others, but don't want to get corresponding attention and living expenses, over time, women's mentality will be unbalanced.

If you treat others as thieves, you'd better not look for them. This is a person who doesn't respect her and makes people want to go on.

There was a book gentleman whose aunt's wife left and found a new wife. All the new wife's pensions were given to his son. Although some money is given as daily expenses every month, it is very little. I'm afraid that my aunt will take control of the economy and spend more money on her wife. In fact, she has to pay for herself every month.

Every weekend, the children take their children home for dinner, and the aunts basically do it alone. But she has her own house, pension and savings. She doesn't mind or want to dwell on these things, as long as the family lives with Mei Mei.

To her sadness and disappointment, she treated them wholeheartedly. They don't know how to repay them. They just treat her as a nanny. They take it for granted that she should do things at home, criticize her if she doesn't do anything well, and scold her if she doesn't.

When their family discusses things, they always put her aside. Later, my aunt moved back to her home and separated, just because their home has been protecting her like a thief.

The purpose of remarriage in old age is to take care of and rely on each other. If you don't know how to respect and care, you will not live long.

People who value money too much will live very tired. Mutual support not only refers to mental and physical care and support, but also includes economic assistance.

People are old and have lived most of their lives. Don't be self-centered and let the other half revolve around you, but care about each other.

What the two sides come through consultation, what they can do and accept will lead a happier life together again.

Under normal circumstances, one party should do more snacks or work at home, and the other party should know how to cherish and care. The party with income or higher income should pay more economically and don't be too haggle over every ounce.

If we have less selfish distractions, more ideas of pursuing a happy life and more broad minds, it will not be difficult to find a bosom friend.

I feel sad when I think of the past year. I am afraid that others will be insincere to me when I am old.

Young couple, old partner? When you are old, don't look for anything in money, just look for each other's company.

Finding a wife not only looks decent and complete, but more importantly? Someone asked you if the porridge was hot, and someone cooked you dusk? There is a kind of care and companionship for each other, and there is also a dependence on feelings.

If young people marry for love, then old people remarry for companionship.

The old man has finished the process of giving birth to a child. Only when they like each other should they not be mixed with other factors, so that children and wives can understand their needs and get along more happily.

It is difficult to remarry in old age, so it is impossible to live a more comfortable life without considering yourself or thinking too much about yourself, while considering the needs of yourself and your wife and children.

When children grow up, the elderly should let them live a good life and a happy life. They should know that life is their own, and others will be good to them.

What exists is reasonable? Now many old people live together in the form of companionship.

I have a house and income, and I don't have to rely on each other economically, so I live very comfortably. A partner is also in love. If the elderly are unwilling to remarry because of property problems, they can choose to live together and have company.

Looking for people who agree not to get a license, but are willing to live together, it is best to arrange and handle the ownership of houses and real estate before living together. In this way, there will be relatively few disputes over family property, and people with the same will can live together.

Some scholars believe that it is difficult for the elderly to remarry, mainly depending on how the elderly deal with the problem. The hard thing is that I don't have a transparent life, and I can't arrange a happy life for my old age.

It is unwise to disapprove of having children, and it is also unwise to play the temper and force remarriage. Only by talking about feelings and love can we get understanding and tolerance.

Before remarriage, the property should be well distributed, and it is best to have a will, be fair, and arrange the real estate and money so that you and your wife and children can get their own places, so that both sides will not be too chilling. If this can be done, our children should be more practical and support the elderly to remarry.

As long as the old people live a transparent life, the old people themselves can live a clear life, and there will be gains from their efforts. If there is no suspicion between the two sides, they will feel at ease and get along more stably.

The old man's remarriage is not a personal matter, which involves his future life with his children and his new wife. If he felt it necessary to arrange his own life, it wouldn't be so difficult to remarry. Because? He who has no long-term worries will have near worries? Do you think what Shujun said is reasonable?