My son has been married for five years. What if the couple never want to have children?

Now children earn money to play after marriage, but when it comes to having children, they are not ready, which will affect their personal lives and other reasons, which makes parents very helpless. One of my aunts is from Beijing. Her husband died and lived with her son. After my son got married 13 years, I still don't want to have children. When their mother told them, they didn't listen at all, saying that they had agreed not to have children in this life. And said to his mother, you spend your money, we won't give it to you, you don't have to worry about us, you can take care of anyone. When you are old, you will live in a nursing home. Don't expect us to take care of you. Whether or not to have children depends entirely on the children's own planning. As an elder, you can express your opinions and communicate with your children, but don't worry too much about your children or even impose decisions. After all, he is an adult, and he has the right to choose his favorite lifestyle, and the happiest way is to weigh the pros and cons. As parents, just accept, be grateful and respect.

I also have a son, and I will never interfere in marriage, family and the birth of children again. These are all part of his adult self-personality. As long as he is a normal person and leads a normal life, he is happy! Everything goes with the flow, everything is the best choice, live in the present and cherish the present! Mother doesn't rush to have children when she looks at her son like this. Son, grandson can be better. I went back to my hometown and bought a house.

What if children don't want to have children after marriage? Parents must be in a hurry. Children don't want children, they can only worry about and pity the inheritance. When you are a parent, you can deeply understand the concern, worry and nagging of parents for their children. If the children don't have children after marriage, their parents' later life will be less fun and they won't feel the warmth of home. Families without children are also a bit lifeless. If you don't see your life go on, you will have some regrets. I had to die alone. But what can I do? Only communicate more and talk about the benefits of having children and how cute children are.

In fact, there is no need for parents to interfere too much in their children's affairs. They are willing to have children. If parents have the ability to help take care of their grandchildren, but they don't allow it, they will have to wait until they have children. Now many young people are lazy cancer patients and don't want to be dragged down by their children. They long for a free life. After all, the child's life is theirs. As a parent, you can help them take care of their children, but you can't take care of them all your life. If children don't want to take responsibility for their parents, they are not prepared to take responsibility. Even if you are forced to have children, you will not have a pair of competent parents.