"People, too honest and too soft-hearted, often end badly." What do you think?

Yes, I am such a person. I am too honest and too soft-hearted, so I am a stupid woman. I am stupid [covering my face ]

. I am too honest and too soft-hearted, and often end up miserable. My opinion on this issue.

the phrase "people are good at being bullied, while horses are good at being ridden" is not unreasonable. If a person is too honest and too soft-hearted, he will be easily held, and he will often be asked to do many things that he doesn't want to do, which will lead to his unhappiness and even sacrifice some of his own things.

I remember my colleague said that she wanted to be as hard-hearted as another colleague, and not to take on things that didn't belong to her. After taking on, she didn't get anything, but made herself less happy! Sometimes you have to take responsibility for things that don't belong to you.

but every time something comes to her, she will promise and carry it out.

It's not that people who are too honest and too soft-hearted will surely end up miserable, but many of them are disappointed by kindness. I don't mean to be honest and kind in the future, but I hope to have a degree. Honesty and kindness is a virtue, but it can be easily used.

may your kindness have some edge.

if people are too honest and too soft-hearted, will the end be miserable?

I don't quite agree with this statement, although there is no shortage of such people in real life.

A snake swallows an elephant when people are short of heart. Some people will never be satisfied. If you help them, they will take it for granted. When you don't help, they will blame you. Therefore, people are used to it.

Being honest and soft-hearted shows that this person is kind but not stupid. There is no need to accommodate again and again, just refuse directly, and don't take my kindness for granted.

I once saw a news on the Internet that two colleagues, one of whom drove to and from work every day, and the other wanted to take a lift. After sitting for a long time, the colleague who drove again got up late and asked the other colleague to help him buy breakfast. When he picked him up, he was ready to eat, and the other colleague agreed. Later, the colleague who took a lift to buy breakfast asked the colleague who drove for a refueling ticket this month on WeChat, saying that he could let himself. Speaking of this, the colleague who was driving was a little unhappy, but he didn't say anything. Finally, the one who was in the car added that when he refueled my ticket, he also gave me the money he bought for breakfast last time. Therefore, the driver stopped picking him up and directly refused all his requests, so as not to offend honest people.

They are kind to others, not stupid, but treat you as a friend, but if you push your luck and have no bottom line, we can still say goodbye.

seven points for the lover, three points for the lover; Too good for people, leave troubles. Don't spoil it, ungrateful people and kind people have a bottom line.

I have been engaged in it for more than 1 years. According to my personal experience, people who are honest and too soft-hearted should be analyzed separately.

People who are too honest, see who you treat?

I personally think we should be honest and sincere when dealing with our close colleagues or friends.

2. Be flexible when dealing with leaders, and don't be too honest, otherwise the leaders will think that you are too rigid and won't come.

If you are too soft-hearted, you can also look at it from two aspects.

First, treat your family members, such as your wife, and your children should be soft-hearted, coax and not hard-hearted.

Second, if you are a manager, if you are too soft-hearted, the employees below will think that you can't be the boss, bully and have no leadership ability, and they will not obey you. Treat employees with both hard and soft. I have been a manager for several years, and it is a taboo for managers to treat employees too soft, so it must be changed.

finally, to sum up, people are too honest and too soft-hearted. Personally, I think the end is not very bad.

I am a very honest person. I have never cheated anyone since I was a child, and even treated my friends who worked together as my own brothers, and I have also helped workers with family difficulties. Because I am honest, many people will like me wherever I go. But when I got there, I also met those little people who calculated and used it. It is said that people are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden. I think the problem is that we don't pay attention to it in family and social moral education. Many people's minds are still locked in ancient times, and their minds have not been liberated. My family is the same. If I had started a business when I was young, they would have supported me. Today, my life would not be like this.

I'm honest, but I'm not soft-hearted, but my eldest brother always says that I can't do great things. I'm asking my father for money to start a business, and my eldest brother always stops me. He always says that he is smart and capable, but he can't do anything, saying that I am kind and honest. I don't know why my eldest brother looks at me like this, and I don't know whether the human world can only have wealth status if it is smart and knows how to disguise itself. Now that I have entered the old age, I have lost too many precious things in my life, and now I can't get them back no matter what I do; But I want to say that people who are too honest are the people that human society needs most when it comes to civilization.

Honesty does not mean incompetence, as long as you have goals and ideals.

kindness does not mean weakness, as long as you have the ability to protect yourself.

Too many people worship hypocrites again, which will lead to a vicious circle.

yes, this is an unchangeable fact. Because human nature is doomed to be like this, it can't be changed, and it can't be changed. After eating a loss, I thought about changing it after the last time, but I didn't know that there was another time waiting for you. After a long time, I forgot the pain, so I said that every time I was miserable and annoyed, I would understand that the world was not as simple and simple as I thought.

What do you think of a single bee?

"People who are too honest and too soft-hearted often end up miserable" is not entirely correct.

In my friend's mahogany furniture factory, there was a painter with excellent skills and honest people.

how honest are you? My friend gave him all the keys to the workshop, office and warehouse. He went to the factory first and left last every day. Seldom take time off.

when working, never be lazy. At the time of hourly wages, people who work together either spend half an hour squatting in the toilet or go to the rest area to smoke and run four or five times a day. He is the only one who keeps doing it. One person is worth two. When it comes to piecework wages, his goods are always more refined and detailed than others.

no matter the boss or colleagues, as long as he is asked to help, as long as he can do it, he never refuses. Sometimes, his fellow villagers who work in other factories encounter technical problems and ask him. He will personally demonstrate and guide after work. When you meet a fellow villager who is in a hurry to catch the goods and ask him for help, he will also take time to help.

He has worked in this line for more than 2 years, and he is recognized as an honest man with good technology and a good guy in the circle. Later, when my friend switched to other industries, many bosses paid high salaries to rob him. Now he works as a painter in a medium-sized mahogany furniture factory.

Reality shows that in today's society where people live by their strength, people who do things in a down-to-earth manner and be frank and honest may sometimes suffer small losses and eventually get the reputation and wealth they deserve.

However, the premise is that he must follow the people who appreciate him and do the right thing together!

If people are too honest and too soft-hearted, they will end up miserable. I think so. There are two kinds of honesty. The first kind of honesty is wooden, conservative and stubborn. Such honesty is passive all his life, which can only be doomed to mediocrity all his life. The second is that I say honesty because people are kind-hearted and considerate of others everywhere, afraid of hurting others. I am cautious and afraid of offending people, and I tolerate it everywhere. Sometimes there are people in life who treat these kind and honest people as soft persimmons and always like to push their luck. No matter in pronunciation, they are sharp and mean, and they like to make small profits in behavior, which seems to be better than everywhere. I don't have any self-cultivation. Honest people don't understand, but they just don't like haggling over every ounce and being careless. After all, they don't look up together and feel meaningless. In fact, excessive tolerance will only condone these people's recklessness. These people will politely let her go for three times at most, and then we must seize the right time to give her an unforgettable lesson, and fight back with the Jedi. Don't scratch one's boots, it doesn't hurt, and we must hit the snake seven inches. Only in this way can we kill two birds with one stone as an example, and others will not dare to bully us. People should be kind, simple and kind is our traditional virtue, but kindness must have a bottom line. In the face of cruel reality, we must see people and things clearly. Life is not a matter of resignation to determine the quality of life, but the character reflected in every word and deed in daily life. We can't be witty and tactful, but we must properly safeguard our own interests. In this way, we can get the respect of others, be kind to ourselves as well as others, give people roses and leave a lingering fragrance in our hands!

"People are too honest and too soft-hearted, and often end up miserable." What do you think?

people who are too honest may be bullied, isn't there a saying? People are good at being bullied, while people are evil at being struck by lightning. People are kind and don't bully the sky. To be a man, we should be honest in virtue and flexible in ways and means.

be honest in virtue and quality. For example, honesty, filial piety, kindness and responsibility have been transmitted for thousands of years because no matter how the society develops and people's ideology changes, some basic virtue qualities in human nature are indispensable. "Despicability is the epitaph of the despicable; Nobleness is the passport of the noble. " If a person is lacking in virtue, even if he is extremely clever, he can pinch and count. In the end, there is still no place to stand, and it may be rebellious.

so; "People, in virtue quality, to be honest. You can't cheat and pretend. But in dealing with people, we should pay attention to methods and ways. Be kind, honest and honest. To do things, be down-to-earth, conscientious and realistic.

in life, "people" should be square and round, big and small, flexible and flexible.

don't be too honest and stupid. But you can't; " Stealing rape and playing tricks.

Don't be too soft-hearted; "But you can't" be cruel and ruthless. I hope I can help you. I wish you a happy life.

a man is soft-hearted and poor all his life, but a woman is soft-hearted and gives it to him with a belt. In many cases, honest people will lose a lot if they can't bravely fight for themselves when it comes to their own interests.

Now, not everyone will be kind to your kindness, and your kindness will be exchanged for bullying by some people. What you need to do is to keep your kindness with a little edge, and let people know that you are not easy to bully!

One more thing, God will take care of those who are kind-hearted. Really, if you do too much evil, you will be punished sooner or later!