The elderly mother wants to remarry, but her son opposes it. Why does everyone in the village call him unfilial?

When one parent dies, the children want their parents to find another wife, who will take care of their lives. After all, children can't be around day and night, and they can't be aware of the emergency at home. If someone can accompany his father or mother, he will feel at ease. But some children choose to find a nanny for the elderly. In the lonely days of the elderly, the appearance of a nanny may produce a sense of attachment. In the popular TV series some time ago, Su Daqiang wanted to marry a nanny, but both of them ended in failure. There are many problems in the remarriage of the elderly. The most important issues are children and property. If you want to make everyone happy, you need to get to know people who treat you sincerely.

There is an aunt Li in my community. Her husband died of illness when he was 50. At the age of 55, she met Zhang, who was 6 1 year old. When she was young, she was a cadre and could write. Very emotional. After the two met, Lao Zhang launched an attack and finally got together. Although they are both middle-aged and elderly people, their relationship has developed rapidly and they soon moved together. Lao Zhang is a sincere and dedicated person. He hopes to marry Aunt Li, so that Aunt Li can live in peace with herself. But Lao Zhang has a son, and his son is very opposed. He thinks Aunt Li just wants to use his father's money and house. He yelled at Aunt Li: "Do you think that coaxing the old people can make money? You're actually a nanny? Do you still want an identity?

These words made Aunt Li very sad. She doesn't care. Finally, Aunt Li and Lao Zhang's son reached an agreement not to use Lao Zhang's property, but to stay with Lao Zhang. Nowadays, the phenomenon of cohabitation and unmarried elderly people is generally increasing. Most people have begun to acquiesce in this matter. It seems that we can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles and have a certain degree of freedom. If you leave, you can still protect your property, so your children don't have to worry about inheritance.

Children nowadays pay too much attention to money. They want to find someone to accompany their parents, but they don't want to lose some property. But they never thought about protecting their property and neglected their obligations. Up. Now, most old people are listening to their children. As long as the children don't agree to find a wife, it is more difficult.

In society, some people hope to live a happy life through marriage, but most people still have feelings. Some old people who really hit it off will be lucky to meet them. As children, they should not object. This is indirect. Confiscated the old man's right to marry. In old age, it is neither a bad thing nor a bad thing to find a wife to live with. However, you should consider what kind of wife you want to find and how you want to live. Children's opposition is reasonable. Listen to their opinions and see if the other person deserves to spend his old age peacefully before considering remarriage.