It only takes ten tricks to make your mother-in-law happy.

Faced with a troublesome and nagging mother-in-law, a clever daughter-in-law will look at her relationship with her mother-in-law in a different way. 3354 love relationship, just like the husband chasing himself and desperately beating and cursing, is very hard. For your mother-in-law, you can also show more concern and love to your mother-in-law with the mentality of chasing after her object, so that she can feel your love.

The first trick: replace your mother-in-law with your mother.

Many new wives call their mother-in-law mother-in-law, but it is not. It's not that they don't want to scream, but they are embarrassed to scream. Be considerate. What do you think when you become a mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law doesn't call you your mother? There must be resentment in my heart. In other words, my mother-in-law still likes my daughter-in-law to call her mom. Be bold, everything is difficult at the beginning. Calling mom a few times is simple and a habit. As long as the name is sincere, the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be narrowed.

The second trick: chat with your mother-in-law often.

Mother-in-law doesn't eat or wear, she just wants to be with her children. Material filial piety is far less than spiritual comfort. Chatting is a good way to enhance communication and affection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, you can't know everything and say everything. Moderate speech is conducive to promoting family harmony. Say what you should, and don't say a word you shouldn't.

The third measure: learn to coquetry in front of your mother-in-law.

Dare to coquetry in front of her mother-in-law, itself shows that you get along well with her mother-in-law and have deep feelings. It can be said that my mother-in-law treats you as a daughter in my heart and you treat my mother-in-law as a biological mother. However, remember, you can lose your temper in front of your mother, but you must be moderate with your mother-in-law, otherwise it will be self-defeating.

The fourth measure: praise your in-laws behind your back.

It is always hypocritical to praise in-laws and husbands in person, but the effect of praising in-laws and husbands behind their backs is quite different. Hearing others say that her daughter-in-law says she is good shows that her efforts have been affirmed by her daughter-in-law, and her mother-in-law naturally has a sense of accomplishment. Daughter-in-law praises her mother-in-law, her in-laws listen to her, and her husband is happier.

The fifth measure: don't complain about your mother-in-law in front of your husband.

Telling her mother-in-law in front of her husband will only increase her husband's troubles and may make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more complicated. Instead of telling her mother-in-law in front of her husband, try to communicate with her mother-in-law and learn to put yourself in her shoes, think more about her husband and be considerate of her mother-in-law. If you use your own ability and wisdom to resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law will admire you more, and her husband will trust you more and cherish you more.

The sixth trick: don't vent your husband on me.

It's meat from my mother. Who says his son is good? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. The most painful thing is your husband, the mother who gave birth to him, and the wife who slept with him. If there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must be generous, more understanding and tolerant in front of your mother-in-law, and don't take it out on your husband.

The seventh measure: respect the living habits of in-laws.

The life background, age and habits of the two generations may be very different, and living together will inevitably lead to contradictions. For example, the elderly are generally frugal, like nagging, and sometimes like to play mahjong with others. Daughter-in-law tries not to interfere. When appropriate, you can start by caring about her health, which can be convincing.

The eighth trick: let your mother-in-law know that you love her just like you love your husband.

Show your love for your husband in front of your mother-in-law, and let her know that you love her as much as you love her husband. For example, a daughter-in-law buys clothes for her husband and chooses one for her mother-in-law, ensuring that her happy face is full of flowers. For another example, a son gives a gift on his mother's birthday, saying that it is from his daughter-in-law, which will get twice the result with half the effort and enhance the harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family stability. If you can buy some food and clothes for your mother-in-law often, of course, the effect will be B.

There is a saying that "beauty comes from afar". Everyone needs their own space. Now that you are married, you can't rely on your parents. You should try to live separately. This can avoid a lot of bumps and bumps and naturally reduce the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, you need the consent of your parents-in-law.