Why can't a daughter-in-law treat her mother-in-law like a mother?

? In my opinion, it is normal for a daughter-in-law to treat her mother-in-law differently from her biological mother, because her mother brought herself up with such little shit and urine. How much she has paid for us is beyond our imagination, but her mother-in-law is different. She is the person we met again after living for more than 20 years. Although it is also called mother, but the feelings are completely different, you can't be as sincere to yourself as your mother.

And around us, don't say you can get along with your mother-in-law, just like your own mother. Many times, they may not even have the most basic harmony. Just like in our village, there are many disharmonies between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and they don't like each other. Mother-in-law will speak ill of daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law will also speak ill of mother-in-law. If two people don't get along well, they may quarrel or even fight, just like the family in front.

? So don't expect a wife to treat her mother-in-law like her own mother, because they may not be as good as their neighbors in bad circumstances. As my mother said, my mother-in-law is still not as good as her own mother. Just as a woman gives birth to a child, her mother-in-law will definitely see her grandson first, but her mother will definitely see her daughter first, so a wife can't treat her mother-in-law like her own mother, because her parents are the same.