What does it mean to be 30?

The age of 30 is a stage in life.

Before the age of 30, you will not be happy to see the spring breeze, not annoyed to see the summer cicadas, not sad to see the autumn wind, and not sigh to see the winter snow. Life will be bright and everything will be lovely.

After the age of 30, it is inevitable that you will be sad for the spring and regret the autumn. You no longer want to live a pretentious life, nor do you want to live a life that others envy.

The following is written to a 30-year-old.

1. Don’t refuse new things, otherwise we will be really old.

2. When you have everything ready, opportunities and talents are just right.

3. Be straightforward, there is no need to live your life so entangled.

4. The kind of person you want to meet depends on what kind of person you are.

5. There is no need to regret, if it is good, it is called wonderful, if it is bad, it is called experience.

6. At the age of 30, if there is no love, I will travel.

7. Be an interesting person, even your soul shines.

8. Whether you succeed or not, you will find fun after trying it.

9. Only by giving up can you gain. Only by giving up what you have now can you have new possibilities in life.

10. Life is not like cooking. You cannot wait until everything is ready before cooking.

11. When you reach a certain level, what you care about is that your abilities can be fully utilized.

12. You don’t have to be praised by everyone, as long as you appreciate it yourself.

13. Don’t cater, don’t flatter, follow your heart.

14. Don’t be reluctant to spend money on yourself, life is only a few decades.

15. Slowly you will find that the richer people are, the richer they are, and the better people are, the better they are.

16. Admit it openly when you are wrong. There is no need to fight with yourself.

17. The mood of the couple determines the feng shui of a home.

18. A well-organized husband understands that marriage is a castle built by two people.

19. You can never make enough money, but occasionally stop and open your heart and listen to your inner voice.

20. Don’t be sad because of cheap feelings, and don’t regret your choices.

21. Running and sweating is a cheap and quick way to get happy.

22. Don’t make decisions easily, first consider your age.

23. Money will solve 99% of your worries.

24. Saving money is your greatest confidence in resisting risks in life.

25. What gives you confidence and security is work.

26. When you don’t know what to do, work hard to make money.

27. Save more money, at least the money will not let you down.

28. Except for your parents, no one really wants you to be well.

29. The older you grow, the more you understand that what your parents say is right.

30. A truly good man must give his salary to his wife.

31. Getting along with oneself is a rare gift.

32. Every decision you make to overcome your inner fears will be worth it in the future.

33. The homework you took shortcuts to avoid when you were young will have to be made up sooner or later.

34. As long as you have a clear conscience, right and wrong belong to others.

35. A person must stand high enough to not take the things in front of him seriously.

36. If you are afraid of something, then face it.

37. People who are willing to spend money on you may really love you.

38. Some people are so perfect that no fault can be found, but they just feel fake.

39. As long as your heart desires, there is no place you cannot go.

40. If someone falls down and is covered in mud, you are not required to help him up, but you must not laugh.

41. Adults break up with each other quietly.

42. If you find that you don’t like your current job at the age of 30, it’s no big deal.

43. If you want to change careers, do it as early as possible. Don’t wait until after you are 30.

44. Don’t try to be friends with your colleagues, work is work.

45. Don’t think it’s easy to be the boss. When you become the boss, you will find that it is really not easy.

46. We all wish others well, but never live better than me.

47. Don’t test your humanity in your circle of friends. Not being hated is a basic survival skill.

48. The smarter the person, the more likely he will disappear at critical moments.

49. As long as you are excellent, you will always attract jealousy.

50. It doesn’t matter whether you look good or not. It doesn’t even matter if you like someone. Being good to you is the hard indicator.

51. If you can’t see hope in a big city, it’s better to go back to a small city and stay with your parents.

52.Growing up means growing further away from your parents, especially after getting married.

53. Those who are not parents do not know that children are both angels and demons.

54. Mother’s love is strong, you can quarrel but don’t break her heart.

55. Father's love is silent. If you can feel it, it is not father's love.

56. Don’t ask to treat your mother-in-law like a mother, just respect each other.

57. The only thing that can ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the son, who faces it instead of escaping it.

58. Don’t talk about losing weight. Eat two bites less.

59. Peace and health are not just words, they are related to the happiness of a family.

60. Have a physical examination once a year and pay attention to your body, especially women.

61. You can never make enough money, and the company of the person beside you is the most important.

62. Brothers and sisters are the closest people besides parents. If you can help, do so!

63. Take a longer view and don’t be fooled by small favors.

64. The house may be rented from someone else, but the life is your own.

65. Making money is a means, saving money is a kind of ability.

66. Buy yourself a car before the age of 30, and work hard to buy a house after the age of 30.

67. Everyone has his own way of living, and he secretly envies you.

68. You must have a stubborn soul even at the age of 30, and never wrong yourself.

69. Live in your own world, rather than living in other people’s mouths.

70. In the future life, we don’t need to invite too many people into our lives.

71. Stay away from relatives who look down on you and friends who are hypocritical.

72. Don’t be stingy with yourself, and don’t wait until later to buy everything.

73. A very luxurious phenomenon in consumption is wasting time, wasting time in order to save money.

74. Money does not disappear, it just changes to accompany you in the way you like.

75. Learn how to manage money and invest, it will come in handy at critical times.

76. Break the original imperfections and rebuild a refined self.

77. Fitness should not be a spur of the moment, but a daily habit!

78. In your best years, if you have not lost weight before, maybe you will never lose weight again.

79. Losing 3 kilograms will make you more attractive than buying clothes worth 30,000 yuan!

80. The quality of your friends is the quality of your life.

81. The more a person treats you as his own child, the more he will abuse you.

82. If you don’t have it, you don’t have it. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. The truest look is the most comfortable look.

83. The sign that a person has begun to mature is that he no longer pretends to live for the sake of face.

84. Know what you like and know what you hate.

85. As long as the family is in order, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.

86.After the age of 30, every decision you make is no longer for yourself.

87. When you have time, accompany your mother to square dance. There is happiness you don’t know there.

88. The stronger a person’s sense of crisis, the stronger his desire to survive, the stronger his execution ability, and the easier it is to jump out of his comfort zone.

89. Every experience in life will not be wasted, sooner or later you will understand.

90. Once you take a step forward, every step counts and will not be in vain.