Book of Songs 43

"You are the flower on the tree, the swallow whispering between the beams, you are love, warmth and hope, and you are the April day on earth!"

Every April, someone always talks about this poem. People who don't remember the whole poem remember at least one sentence: you are April day on earth. This is a poem by the beautiful talented woman Lin.

Her name comes from The Book of Songs: "A great man with an emblem sounds like a hundred men". Yin Hui: Good reputation. Lin Ben's name is Lin, which is similar to the male writer at that time, so it was renamed as. Before reading Biography of Lin, I also specially looked through this poem in The Book of Songs.

Well, this is the origin of Tairen Taisi in Taijiang. In The Book of Songs, Elegance and Siqi, all three people sang:

"Qi, the mother of King Wen, Zhou Jiang, the wife of Simei. If you have a big badge, you will be a hundred men. "

Tae In is elegant and dignified, and she is a good mother of Zhou Wenwang. Taijiang Shu Xian is very beautiful, and the Royal Lady lives in Zhoujing. Tess's reputation can be inherited and more boys will be born.

The ancients said, "The founding of the Zhou Dynasty was based on san huang." Mrs. San Tai is Mrs. Ren Taisi, a saint among women.

Also, the significance of honorifics. Jiang Renshi also. These three saints have their own virtues, either to create prenatal education or to assist in governing the country. Zhou Ye's prosperity is rooted in the holy king, and most of the virtues of civil and military are generated in the mother religion.

Thai is your respectful name, and Jiang, Ren and Yi are all surnames. Taijiang is Zhou Wenwang's grandmother, Tae In is Zhou Wenwang's mother and Tess is Zhou Wenwang's wife. The three women have their own wisdom and virtues. It can be said that the reason why the Zhou Dynasty can be passed down for 800 years is inseparable from the education of these three mothers for their children.

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? Tai Jiang is the wife of King Tai, the ancestor of the Zhou Dynasty. She gave birth to three sons, Taber, Zhong Yong and Wang Ji, and she was very successful in educating children to set an example. King Tai liked Ji Chang, the son of his third son, Ji Wang, so Taber and Zhong Yong fled to a wild place, so that his father could pass the throne to Ji Wang and Ji Chang could inherit his father. This brother's humble story has become a story of a thousand years.

? Tairen was the second daughter of a noble stone man in the late Shang Dynasty. She is honest, rigorous and sincere, and she follows benevolence, righteousness and morality in everything she does. After marrying my husband Ji Li (Ji Wang), Tairen worships and respects her mother-in-law. She presided over the harem, upright and dignified, and the court was solemn and peaceful.

There are records in Biography of Lienv, Biography of Mother Instrument and Biography of Three Mothers of Zhou Family:

When Tairen was pregnant, she didn't watch evil songs, listen to lewd and rude voices, or say arrogant words. Don't sleep sideways, and don't sit sideways or limp. Don't eat food that is cut inappropriately and smells bad. Don't sit on an improperly placed mat and let musicians recite poems at night. King Wen Jichang was very clever when he came down. He knew ten as soon as he taught him. Therefore, when you are pregnant, you should be careful about what you see and feel, and be close to good and evil.

? Tess is Zhou Wenwang's wife. She is very virtuous at home. Therefore, Ji Chang and Zhou Wenwang attached great importance to Miao Si and personally went to Weishui to marry Miao Si. After Taisi became Zhou Wenwang's wife, Yitai and Tairen followed the example and assisted her husband, making Wang Wen study both inside and outside, and achieved good political achievements. She educated the world with morality and was respected by people.

In The Book of Songs, Fenghua Daming sings:

The general idea is: God looks at the world from heaven, and King Wen has a destiny. When he was young, God married him. King Wen married the bride on the Weihe River in northern Qiang.

King Wen is going to marry the beautiful girl Yin Shang. She looks just like that fairy. Oracle Bone Inscriptions showed auspicious marriage, and King Wen personally came to Weishui. Shipbuilding as a bridge to cross the river, the grand wedding is very glorious.

It is said that Guan Ju in The Book of Songs is the love story of Yu Tai and Qi Wang Ji Chang. "Guanluo dove is in Hezhou. My fair lady, a gentleman is good. " . In order to marry Taisi, Ji Chang personally ran to the bank of Weishui, but there was no bridge above Weishui, so Ji Chang built a pontoon bridge by boat to marry Taisi back to his territory.

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The story of three wives is over. How many people are reading their stories now? I don't know exactly.

Looking through the Book of Songs, a certain proportion of poems praise and satirize thorns. I haven't calculated the ratio of 73 to 82 carefully. I like the tenderness and sincerity of the book of songs, naive thinking, and the beauty of freedom, restraint, self-discipline and freedom.

On the other hand, today's media is full of vulgar words, spreading superficial and exaggerated values, and all kinds of words and images tell the greed, selfishness and ruthless disputes of human nature without supervision. It's incredible.

No matter whether human nature is good or evil, false or ugly, media orientation needs the principle of "suppressing evil and promoting good", and one move is the best policy. For example, whether it is public media or self-media, 80% is to show and publicize beauty, and 20% is to expose and attack ugliness. That's different.

Husband and wife respect each other as guests, which is the way of heaven and earth. Why do they always get married as mistresses, divorce lawsuits and family custody?

It is natural for a father to be kind to his son. Why is there a program on TV every week, and parents say they won't raise it, and they sign an oath to fight for property. See you in court?

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are originally a family who love one person. Why are the plots given in so many programs and books disrespectful and unloving? ……

I don't understand, robber. My thoughts.

There is a saying in The Doctrine of the Mean: "The gentleman moves and the world is the way of the world, the world is the law of the world, and the world is the law of the world."

Only in this way can a gentleman have a good wife, a good wife can educate a gentleman, and husband and wife can observe the world. Tian Xingjian, self-improvement; The terrain is Kun and the morality is good.

A gentleman has a way, long live a wife!