Being with an immature man is so tiring!

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Some people say that a mature man is a walking aphrodisiac, and I completely agree! This may be the reason why girls like uncle-type men. Whether mature men are talking, doing things or sitting quietly, their whole bodies seem to exude a fascinating feeling.

There was a topic on Weibo where I sent a message to my boyfriend saying I was pregnant to see how he would react. Xiaojing then naughtily sent her boyfriend: I am pregnant. So her boyfriend was so happy that she wanted to advance their wedding date and was busy shopping for the children. Seeing her boyfriend so busy, Xiaojing couldn't help but tell her boyfriend that she had lied to him and it was just a joke. She thought he would be angry. Unexpectedly, he was just stunned for a moment and then said, "Be good, don't do this next time."

Another time, when the two of them went to a restaurant to eat together, Xiaojing made unreasonable troubles and deliberately made him angry. When he was particularly angry, he would still put her favorite food close to her. After eating, Xiaojing was walking in front and he was following behind. Suddenly a vicious dog rushed out from the roadside. Xiaojing screamed in fright and covered her eyes. Unexpectedly, her boyfriend suddenly stood in front of her at that moment. Fortunately, the dog owner They pulled the dog leash in time and they were safe. She didn't know where he was at the last moment, but she could rush out and block him at this moment. She must have been in his sight all the time.

Maybe this is how it is with a mature man. You are naughty, you are making trouble, and he is smiling dotingly. Even if I am angry, I will never forget to love you, let alone blame you.

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After envying others for having mature husbands, let’s talk about what immature men are like. Welcome to join us.

Immature men always think that women leave him because they think he is poor

A friend graduated from college and worked in sales in the same company as her boyfriend, so they rented a house together and planned to work together Moving towards a new life, this kind of life should be the best she can imagine, right? Be with the one you love, have a good job, and have a promising future...

But in life, the most fearful thing is that one person is running while the other just wants to rest.

One morning it started to rain heavily. My friend got up early to get ready for work, but her boyfriend said: "It's raining so hard, I don't want to go to work." My friend was speechless and helpless and had to go out to work alone. She suddenly discovered that her boyfriend was so immature. In this way, she continued to attend her class. Having lived a hard life since childhood, she knew that only by working hard could she be qualified to say no and be willful.

Another time it was raining. Her boyfriend was playing games in an Internet cafe while she was at work. After get off work, she was waiting for him to send him an umbrella, but she didn’t see him until the rain stopped, and she couldn’t get through the phone. I didn't see him in the rental house until he came back at 9:30. His friend asked him: "You knew it was raining so heavily and I didn't bring an umbrella. Why didn't you give me an umbrella at home?" The boyfriend said: "I was there I couldn’t see the rain outside in the Internet cafe. I just realized it was raining when I came out. I couldn’t hear my cell phone ringing in the Internet cafe.”

Later, my boyfriend still didn’t find a suitable job, and his friends also moved out of their apartment. Rental house...

Her boyfriend came to see her and said that she disliked him for being poor

Haha

Girl, have you ever met such a man? ?

What? When I first got together with you, you were a rich man. You became poor only after I lost all my money in eating, drinking and having fun? Or is this a sentiment you deceived by pretending to be rich at the beginning?

Haven’t you always been so poor? At first, I thought that as long as there was love and we worked hard together, everything would be fine. But you were not only poor, willful, inferior, unmotivated, but also resentful. The lack of hope in you was the reason why I left you, OK?

Immature men like to care.

They will even argue with their girlfriends about who calls whom more, and who calls whom more often. They will say, "I haven't called you more than my parents in total." Said, "I have come to see you three times, but you have only come to see me once."

So, what are we trading? Are you going to argue with me like this? Why didn't you say that I will stay in your house for the rest of my life, and the children I give birth to will bear your surname!

Immature men will always be able to put you in the cold palace with just one sentence

When we go out to play together, and girls say it’s cold, they might say, “Me too” or “Who? "I asked you to wear a skirt" or "Fortunately I wore a jacket when I came out" Excuse me? Shouldn't the next scene involve you taking off your coat or giving her a hug?

Watching a romantic drama together, you said with envy: "Wow, the hero is so nice to the heroine" and he said: "You thought you were a princess"

The girl said The menstrual period was uncomfortable, he said: "It's better to be a man"

The girl said: "It feels so uncomfortable, the fever is almost 40 degrees" he said: "I'll go, awesome"

To be honest, ordinary people can't learn superpowers like theirs.

Immature men never know how to coax their women

Why is my girlfriend angry? This is probably an unsolved mystery for many men, right? But what should a girl do next after she gets angry is the key to this question. If you buy a bag or lipstick without saying a word, I would give it 80 points, at least If you know it's time to coax, it's always right to use a universal method; if you just say "I'm sorry, I was wrong, please forgive me", you can barely pass with 60; if you reason, accuse you or even start a quarrel, put them in a dark room!

Don’t ask me what the perfect answer is, you won’t do it right? Don’t you know what your woman wants? Well...well...you probably don't really know.

Immature men may not know that women are acting coquettishly when they are angry. They may not know that the routine of women’s anger is generally like this: they want to act coquettishly with you but you don’t understand the style, and they pretend to be angry with you. If you don't coax them, they will become angry...

So in fact, what makes them angry is not the reason you think at the beginning, but your attitude later! manner! manner!

Immature men will tell your friends about all your shortcomings

Miss Wen said to me angrily: "I had dinner with an old classmate two days ago. A friend with whom we are not particularly close came over and told me that someone (ex-boyfriend) told her something about me. Hehe, hehe, let me go. If you have anything to say, tell me in person. What does it mean to tell others? The truth is more real The more you think about it, the angrier it becomes.”

I want to say that it’s okay to confide in your own friends, forget it about people I don’t know, but it’s okay to confide in a girl who is not particularly close to me and let everyone know about it. What's going on? How is it that she can give you special warmth and soothe your little heart? Or do you want to expose my "crimes" to the world so that everyone can punish them?

Immature men like to be self-righteous

He will say, "I'm not treating you well? I've never treated anyone like this." He will also say, "If you leave me, you will definitely find someone else." There is no one else who loves you so much." They require you to be able to cook. When his friends come to the house, you'd better prepare a full banquet, and never think about what your friends will do when they come. They also hope that you can take care of your husband and raise your children and be the good wife they imagined, but they never think about whether the money in your pocket is enough to support them in saying this.

In addition, immature men will also tell some lies that you can see through at a glance, and boast some illogical nonsense.

Immature men will quarrel with you forever over a trivial matter

It is inevitable for two people to quarrel after being together for a long time, but what is the reason for the quarrel and the behavior after getting angry? Only then can you tell whether a man is mature or not. Immature men will quarrel with their women over trivial matters, and even run away from home directly with cold violence.

Haha, forget about running away from home, I will accept your mother's decision!!!

Reminds me of a story

There was an old man and an old lady who were accused of putting a pickle jar in the back room. There was a dispute over whether to put it outside in the cellar. The stubborn old man and the stubborn old lady were arguing and refused to give in. The son on the side suddenly said to his father: "Dad, come on, let me ask you something." The old man walked over angrily. , the son said: "What do you think of the recent Sino-US relations?" So the old man and his son began to talk about "national affairs" and had a great time, and they forgot about the food. The old lady who had been waiting outside for a long time did not see the old man come out. She came in and asked angrily: "Hey! Where are the vegetable jars?" The old man waved his hands and said without looking back: "You can handle it yourself. Such a small matter is just for you." Don’t ask me”

Look! It's just a small matter, what's the fuss about? Can you still argue if your vision is bigger?

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Being with an immature man is too tiring

If you love him, women will actually tolerate it and can wait, because women believe in good men They are all trained by women.

But maybe you will wait until the day when he can't stand you anymore, saying that you are angry, saying that you are ignorant, saying that you can't do this or that, you must not have thought of it, right? Haha, the trees that the forefathers have worked hard to plant are going to be used by future generations to enjoy the shade. Your heart must be feeling cold too.

In fact, I have always felt that the so-called scumbag is not bad in nature, he is just not mature enough to end a relationship in a perfect way; he does not understand how to treat a woman he does not love. I don't want to hurt but it hurts me more; I don't know what role I should play in a relationship; I don't know how to treat women differently from my buddies or even my parents and relatives; I don't know how to deal with the two most powerful people in the world. The relationship with the woman who loves him; they don’t know what the best choice is when facing temptation; they don’t know what to do in the face of love and reality so as not to hurt their feelings...

These, their His parents didn't teach him, his teachers didn't teach him, and it wasn't in the books, but the women he had hurt might be able to make him understand.

In many relationships, the predecessor plants a tree and the successor enjoys the shade. However, there is no need to complain, you were once a tree planter, and you will also be the one enjoying the shade later!

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